Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Kelsey is a comedian, actress, and content creator who gained popularity for her comedic sketches, vlogs, and collaborations with other influencers. She has a significant presence on platforms like YouTube and Instagram, where she shares a mix of humorous content, lifestyle vlogs, and insights into her daily life.Brace yourselves for a chat that's as spicy as your favorite latte because Violetta is sitting down with the sensational Kelsey Kreppel! Curious about the love story that unfolded between Kelsey and her now-hubby, Cody Ko? She spills all the deets on the challenges of dating to the wild ride of becoming a full-blown influencer, the inside scoop on handling haters, the delicate art of oversharing (or not) on the gram, and trust me, you won't want to miss the side splitting story of her epic proposal. This episode is a vibe – a mix of love, laughter, and the unfiltered reality of life in the influencer lane. Today’s Sponsor:Clean Simple Eats - Visit https://cleansimpleeats.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first order.Skylight Frames - As a special, limited time offer for our listeners, get $15 off your purchase of a Skylight Frame when you go to https://www.skylightframe.com/adulting Urban Outfitters - Shop at https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/ and receive an additional 10% off when you use the code VIOLET10 at checkoutWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro00:38 Welcome Kelsey!01:17 What’s something people don’t know you can do?03:11 Worst advice you’ve ever gotten04:12 Moms always know when something is off about something05:03 How did you meet your husband?09:29 Taking notes of what people love09:01 What people don’t know about Cody10:37 What’s your favorite thing about your husband?12:01 What’s his favorite thing about you?14:44 What’s your sleeping habit?15:21 What’s your most annoying trait?17:03 Setting boundaries when sharing things online21:04 How do you deal with online hate together?23:38 Is it better not to respond to hate comments?25:04 Sharing Cody with the world30:09 If you can’t survive dating, you can’t survive marriage life34:20 His proposal wasn’t a complete shock38:29 Were you a bridezilla during the engagement?42:51 What do you think about someone bringing a plus one at your wedding?46:47 Trying to get pregnant and then getting pregnant53:13 Don’t tell people about your baby’s future name57:09 Where to find Kelsey Connect with Kelsey on:https://www.instagram.com/kelseykreppel/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZym84-cGUKAf1T2isIIXvw https://www.tiktok.com/@kelsey_kreppel Circle TimeGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Guess what? Violetta just hit the big 3-5, and she's feeling fabulous! In today's episode, she's spilling all the tea about her unconventional birthday celebration. No Confession Corner or Benson Knows Best this time – it's all about Violetta and her epic birthday escapade.Picture this: a day at the Huntington Library with the parents, a series of unexpected hiccups, and a plot twist that turns everything around. Violetta shares the highs, the lows, and the heartwarming surprise from her ride-or-die friends. And because she's the queen of adulting, she decided to take her birthday off work. But did it turn into a serene day of self-reflection? Nope! The aftermath involved a serious ice cream marathon and some well-deserved beauty sleep. Living her best life? Absolutely!  Today’s Sponsors:Revolve - Revolve always delivers with free and fast two-day shipping and returns, so visit https://www.revolve.com/adulting to shop your favorites for all your upcoming plans this season.Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://www.shopify.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:02 Scorpios are the most underrated sign 04:34 Let me share how I spent my birthday07:22 My parents and I went to Huntington Library13:16 Gifts I got from my good friends20:09 Your birthday should be the day you are most relaxed21:33 I reached out to 12 of my favorite brands23:47 My father’s gift is my favorite of all26:08 Back to work mode a day after my birthday  30:19 By Friday, I slept and ate as much as I wantGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Ready to take a peek into the mysterious world of dreams? Violetta's got you covered in today's episode! From crazy coincidences to weird symbols, she's sharing her personal dream stories, including a surprise appearance by an estranged friend. Get ready for a wild ride as we break down the meanings behind those dreamy escapades.Ever wondered why you're dreaming about knives, houses, or even pregnancy? Violetta spills the tea on dream interpretation, giving you the lowdown on what your subconscious might be trying to tell you. And for those late-night rendezvous with an ex who broke your heart, she's got the insights on that too! It's dream analysis, Almost Adulting style – fun, enlightening, and, of course, a little bit cheeky. Don't miss out on unlocking the secrets of your slumber!  Today’s Sponsor:EveryPlate - Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal by going to https://www.everyplate.com and enter the code 49ADULTINGClean Simple Eats - Visit https://cleansimpleeats.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first order.Skylight Frames - As a special, limited time offer for the listeners, get $15 off your purchase of a Skylight Frame when you go to https://www.skylightframe.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro00:38 Falling out with my BFF03:42 I dreamt about the end of the world10:02 What does your dream mean?13:09 Dreams about knives14:50 Other dreams and their meanings16:40 Dreams of being in a fight18:15 Different dreams about an ex loverGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Ready for another wild ride in the Confession Corner? Violetta's got the juiciest stories for you. Ever been on a date where you had to do some quick thinking, maybe tell a little white lie? Trust me, you're not alone! We're diving into those hilarious and awkward moments as they take unexpected turns. And, oh boy, get ready for some spice! We're talking about turning up the heat in the bedroom, and yes, it involves food. From a delightful encounter with key lime pie that leaves you questioning cleanliness to accidentally turning a passionate moment into a bit of a bloodbath – these stories are wild, unpredictable, and oh-so-relatable. You won't believe where these confessions lead, but one thing's for sure –  it's a rollercoaster of laughs and surprises. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsors:Lume - Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off off your Starter Pack (that’s over 40% off) with promo code ADULTING at https://lumedeodorant.com/ Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTINGUrban Outfitters - Shop https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/ and receive an additional 10% off when you use the code VIOLET10 at checkoutWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:59 Story #1: He cut himself while opening my window on our first date05:20 Story #2: Eating key lime pie from her p*ssy10:14 Story #3: I scrapped his d*ck with my nails while I was about to clim*x17:57 Story #4: I was broken up by him through his motherGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta sits down with her good friend Manon Mathews. You know her – comedian, actress, social media maven, and soon-to-be mom! When you put two girlfriends with a penchant for humor together, what do you get? Pure comedic gold and a whole lot of real talk.Manon spills the beans on everything, from those awkward moments of mispronouncing names to the origins of their middle names. And oh boy, we dive into the adventure of pregnancy – the lessons, the laughs, and the exciting future ahead. But it's not all giggles; Manon opens up about dealing with an ex who's basically a walking red flag, the rollercoaster of self-worth, and the importance of surrounding yourself with those who let you be your unapologetic self. Laughter, heartbreak, and life-altering decisions – this episode's got it all, and it's guaranteed to lift your spirits! Today’s Sponsor:Shopify - Go to https://www.shopify.com/adulting now to grow your business - no matter what stage you're in. What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:02 Names easy to pronounce, middle name origin03:59 One of us is pregnant06:11 Favorite s*x position06:40 S*x can help in child delivery08:46 Who is Manon Mathews?09:52 “I manifested this interview.”14:26 How are you taking the pregnancy?19:00 Lessons learned from becoming pregnant21:30 What’s your zodiac?23:17 Unexpected complications25:21 Erewhon Shop   26:52 “He has accent? He must be my husband!”37:29 He has been an attention-seeker all this time43:13 Love bombing and red flags51:43 There are good men out there55:40 What’s motherhood for you?59:00 Do you feel like a burden now?01:05:59 Feeling like you don’t matter01:10:00 Sometimes people just need to be heard01:16:22 Being with friends you can be yourself01:20:09 “Don’t just do something, sit there.” - pun intendedConnect with Manon on:https://www.instagram.com/manonmathews https://www.facebook.com/manonLmathews/ https://www.tiktok.com/@manonmathews https://www.youtube.com/user/ManonMathews https://www.linkedin.com/in/manon-mathews-11a8bb81/ Funny How It Works Out Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Besties, let's talk real for a sec. Has social media thrown a wrench in the dating game? We're bombarded with models and influencers flaunting their 'perfect' lives, making a regular relationship seem like a unicorn. Today, Violetta is back with the latest Benson Knows Best episode – and trust me, you're in for a ride! From a DM-sliding dilemma to a tangled love triangle, and even a happily married gal crushing on a gym buddy – we've got it all. Tune in for the tea, the laughs, and maybe a reality check or two! If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:Clean Simple Eats - Visit https://cleansimpleeats.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off of your first order.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:58 The guy I’m seeing follows a lot of models and influencers on IG07:41 How to know if he’s pulling away to get your attention or he just doesn’t like you?11:00 Are crushes or attraction to other men even when I’m married normal?15:37 He would gaslight me into believing that I’m crazyGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Although Halloween is over, we are not done yet with the spooky feels. Today, we will talk about dreams - the good ones, scary ones, and even the weirdest story while having a dream. Violetta shares how men and women experience and interpret dreams differently, facts about dreams that you have not heard of yet, and why one shouldn’t take anything from the dream world especially when it's handed over by a dead person. There are even fascinating inventions made from recalling past dreams. Together, let’s find out which type of dream you have had recently. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:Skims - Believe the hype - SKIMS has over 100,000 five star reviews for a reason. Visit www.skims.com/ Doordash - That's 50% off up to $10 on your next order of $15+ when you sign up for the DashPass Student plan when you enter code ADULTING. Visit https://www.doordash.com/  What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:51 I saw my grandma in my dream 06:31 Dreams have more meaning than you think07:05 Men and women dream differently08:34 Random facts about dream11:54 First time I met my grandma in my dream15:11 Mind blowing facts about dreams17:16 More random facts about dreams20:14 Cool inventions derived from dreams20:54 Dreams that predict the future23:41 People known to sleepwalkGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! The juiciest, most jaw-dropping tales are about to unfold on the Almost Adulting podcast! In this episode, Violetta is sharing some of the wildest, most outrageous confessions she's ever come across. From office escapades with a ahem unconventional boss to movie dates gone hilariously wrong, these stories will leave you gasping, cringing, and laughing all at once. It's a rollercoaster of dating debacles and unexpected encounters that will have you both shocked and entertained. If you're in need of some spicy tales to brighten your day, tune in to this sizzling episode where nothing is off-limits, and prepare to be thoroughly entertained! If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:Talkspace - To match with a licensed therapist today, go to https://www.talkspace.com/adulting to get $80 off of your first month and show your support for the show.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:40 I hooked up with my creepy boss while he watches interracial p*rn09:57 I went on a date with a guy who didn’t pay for my movie ticket18:20 I met an ex-cult member who brings a bowling ball and I licked his butth*le22:31 I slept with a guy who went to prison for k*lling five peopleGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! It’s November and we’re going to start the month with the most requested topic - CHEATING. In this episode, Violetta dives into the intriguing and often complicated world of relationships. She kicks it off by uncovering some intriguing signs that might indicate he's cheating on you. From suspicious behaviors to gut feelings, Violetta explores the clues that can leave you questioning your partner's fidelity.It's a captivating exploration of the various factors, from emotional gaps to simple curiosity, that can lead people to make such complex and painful choices. If you've ever been curious about the intricacies of human relationships, the reasons people cheat, and how to spot the signs, this episode is your ultimate guide. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:Clean Simple Eats - Visit https://cleansimpleeats.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first order. What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:05 Signs he is cheating on you11:36 Why do people cheat?16:25 What happens when you cheat on someone?22:54 Don’t blame the other woman24:16 Why does the people who hurt us mean the most to us?Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Prepare to be shocked because Violetta is diving deep into a collection of jaw-dropping confessions from the depths of Reddit. From the shocking tale of catching a girlfriend in the act with a so-called "friend" (on their own bed, no less!) to the heart-wrenching confession of accidentally causing harm to a best friend's baby, Violetta's reactions will keep you on the edge of your seat.  But it's not all doom and gloom – she's got an eye-opening story of road rage that ended with a twist involving a savvy lawyer. Throughout this episode, you'll experience the full spectrum of human behavior, from the darkest moments to unexpected redemption. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTINGShopify - Shopify is your no-excuse business partner. Sell without code or design. Just bring your best ideas and Shopify will help you open up a shop. Visit https://www.shopify.com/ What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:48 I caught my girlfriend scr*wing my friend on our bed13:29 I accidentally killed my best friend's baby16:50 I’m a victim of road rage and got myself a good lawyerGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Get ready for a delightful and insightful episode of Almost Adulting with Violetta Benson as she chats with the wonderful Tara Schuster! You'll be intrigued by the backstory of Tara's book title, "Buy The F*cking Lilies," and how it resonated with countless readers. They dive into the contents of the book, exploring chapters like "When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong." Tara candidly shares her journey, highlighting the challenges of writing about her relationship with her father, offering valuable insights on self-improvement and setting boundaries. You'll discover how vulnerability has played a vital role in Tara's ability to connect with people, and how active journaling can transform your life.Her revelations about the far-reaching impact of our actions on the world will leave you with a profound sense of responsibility and the understanding that we're not here to merely suffer but to learn how to savor every moment of life. Together, Violetta and Tara will inspire you to make the shift towards a positive and self-loving mindset. Tune in and soak up the positive vibes!   Today’s Sponsor:Quince - Get affordable luxury with Quince! Go to https://www.quince.com/adulting for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro03:10 The story behind Buy The F*cking Lilies book title07:27 Why did it resonate with a lot of people?10:38 Chapter: When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong14:08 The hardest chapter to write was the relationship with her dad18:59 If we want to change for the better, we can22:03 How can setting boundaries have a profound impact in your life?27:53 You have to make you love yourself31:37 How being vulnerable allowed you to connect with people35:39 Complication after egg retrieval procedure47:51 The benefits of active journaling56:46 Mindset shift towards self improvement01:05:20 Whatever you put out in the world affects everyone around you01:06:31 We aren’t here to suffer, we need learn how to enjoy life  Connect with Tara on:https://www.taraschuster.com/ https://www.instagram.com/taraschuster https://www.tiktok.com/@taraschuster https://twitter.com/taraschustar Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hold onto your hats, Besties! It's been a rollercoaster of a week, and Violetta is here to spill the tea on all the wild and wacky adventures she's been on. From the quirks of getting paid in the entertainment biz (seriously, why does it take forever?), to some dental dilemmas involving root canals and plate implants (who knew teeth could be so eventful?), she's got stories that'll have you laughing, cringing, and shaking your head in disbelief.But it doesn't stop there! Ever wondered what it's like when your Facebook account gets hacked? Well, Violetta’s got the lowdown on that too. Buckle up, because this episode is a whirlwind of anecdotes and unexpected twists that'll leave you wondering, "Is this real life?" So, join us for a hilarious and slightly chaotic ride through the ups and downs of Violet's week – you won't want to miss it!  If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!.Today’s Sponsor:Clean Simple Eats - Visit https://cleansimpleeats.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first order.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro00:34 It’s just that type of week02:55 Let me tell you about my week05:57 Getting paid in the entertainment industry sometimes take months 07:52 Have you ever had plate implants?12:37 Despite everything, why am I not crying right now?16:12 Why did I need a new root canal?19:13 And so, my Facebook account got hacked27:43 Everything that happened, I did it to myselfGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Besties! Buckle up, because today we're diving into all things love, personal growth, and relationships with Radhi Devlukia. Radhi is an influencer who shares recipes with her followers on social media and on her website.Radhi gets candid about her journey from being a Daddy's girl to discovering wisdom in the Bhagavad Gita. Together with Violetta, she shares some of the best advice her dad ever gave her and takes you on a heartfelt exploration of holding onto anger and resentment. Let's uncover what it feels like to push boundaries on cultural expectations for women and explore the complexities of personal journeys in the shadow of successful partners.And if that's not enough, we're digging into what makes a partnership thrive, how to handle conflict as a couple, and the fine balance between prioritizing your relationship and nurturing your individual growth. Radhi also talks about the fear of failure, the origins of feeling not good enough, and finding those beautiful connections with others. It's a rollercoaster of love, self-discovery, and embracing life at your own pace.   Today’s Sponsor:Curology - Get up to 6 skincare products for FREE or up top a $52 value with free shipping, and a no-cost consultation with a licensed dermatology provider when you go to www.curology.com/adultingEveryPlate - Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal by going to https://www.everyplate.com and enter the code 49ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:13 Grateful for the loving people around you02:45 Something most people don’t know about you04:40 We forget to ask people how they are doing06:06 Sustaining a positive attitude08:41 Growing up, I was a Daddy’s girl10:20 The Bhagavad Gita12:13 Best advice from your dad15:25 Holding onto resentment17:41 Have you struggled to let go of anger and resentment?20:26 When you feel invisible24:09 Pushing the boundaries on cultural expectations for women30:17 Figuring out your own journey when you have a successful partner32:37 Having a supportive partner35:58 We all function in our own pace in life 39:34 Do you have the fear of failure?41:18 Where does feeling not good enough come from?47:27 How do you connect better to others?50:28 What's your definition of love? 54:30 Least favorite thing about yourself56:17 How Radhi saw Jay at the beginning of their relationship58:56 How do you handle conflict as a couple?01:02:39 Difference between putting something first and feeling neglected01:06:47 How do you make your relationship a priority?01:09:45 Take time alone to figure yourself out Connect with Radhi on:https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ .https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia JoyFull: Cook Effortlessly, Eat Freely, Live Radiantly (A Cookbook)Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Get ready for some juicy tea, because in this episode of Almost Adulting with Violet Benson, we're spilling all the Love Is Blind Reunion gossip! Violetta is serving up her unfiltered thoughts and hilarious commentary on the latest couple drama. With only two pairs making it down the aisle, she's questioning the notion of unconditional love and tackling the ever-important credit score conversation. From Lydia and Milton's heartwarming union to the surprising turn of events for Chris and Johnie, there's no shortage of opinions in this review. So, if you want the inside scoop on this season's most buzzworthy moments, this episode is a must-listen!  If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsors:Lume: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off of your Starter Pack (that’s over 40% off) with promo code ADULTING at LumePodcast.com! What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:10 Uche is an energy vampire03:26 I’m on my period for 3 weeks now04:54 Just look at their eyes to know if they're intoxicated06:03 When couple worry too much about other couple’s relationship07:46 Only two couples ended in a marriage08:58 Izzy and Stacy didn’t make it to the wedding14:12 Asking for an unconditional love from your partner is delusional16:05 “Yes, credit score matters, Izzy!”18:21 Happy ending for Milton and Lydia22:53 Chris and Johnie didn’t end up together24:08 Lydia did Aaliyah a favor26:13 Stacy being a mean girl to Johnie30:55 No one respects people who bring people downGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, Besties! Well, we've got a treat for you today – and it's all about getting real and having a blast. Today, we welcome influencer and YouTuber Amanda McCants for a hilarious chat with Violetta.So, ever thought about the fakest thing people might have noticed about you? You're not alone! We'll get to hear about Amanda's cameo in a Key Glock music video and that memorable first meeting with Violetta. It's a whirlwind of empowerment and support for rising talents, coupled with some zodiac sign insights and a deep dive into the influencer life. And, oh boy, get ready for the dating adventures, including setting up girls to date the guy she's dating! But there's more – Amanda's Vogue: 73 Questions experience is on the menu, too! Today’s Sponsor:Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use the promo code ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:56 What is the fakest thing about you?03:34 Part of Key Glock music video05:43 Violetta and Amanda’s first meeting06:32 Diagnosed with being in the spectrum07:46 Being helpful to other rising talents11:09 Zodiac signs13:29 How did the influencer life started15:24 Putting your self-worth in someone else19:46 Supporting for your ex’s new girl22:54 Setting up girls to date the guy I’m dating24:09 The Vogue: 73 Questions31:41 Everyone is depressed36:15 He gave me STI41:51 It’s over, I’m done…43:26 I always know what I want to do45:43 Imposter syndrome46:11 What it feels not to have social cues49:46 Craziest job you had54:54 Getting a lot of hate58:11 Dealing with extreme backlash01:00:41 The worst more embarrassing day you can laugh about01:09:20 I like your teeth!Connect with Amanda on:https://www.youtube.com/@amandamccants5381 https://www.instagram.com/amandamccants https://www.tiktok.com/@amandamccants  Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, Besties! Ready to catch up on some fun and thoughtful moments from my life? Well, here we go! So, lately, I've been all about embracing spontaneity. I mean, life's too short to not do the occasional crazy thing, right? From wild adventures to trying out new hairstyles, it's been a whirlwind of excitement. But you know what they say, even your hair holds memories. It's like a little time capsule on top of your head!Now, speaking of memories, I've stumbled upon some pretty awesome quotes lately that got me thinking about life in a whole new way. But it's not all about the philosophical stuff. I also surprised my parents with a fantastic vacation trip, and boy, that was something! On the family front, my dad's the ultimate pessimist while my mom, well, she's the eternal optimist. It's like living in a sitcom sometimes! So, if you're wondering why I'm all about staying open and vulnerable, despite life's ups and downs, stick around. There's a whole lot of candid conversation coming your way.  If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:HoneyLove - Get 20% off by going to https://www.honeylove.com/adsulting #honeylovepodCurology - Get up to 6 skincare products for FREE or up top a $52 value with free shipping, and a no-cost consultation with a licensed dermatology provider when you go to www.curology.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:42 What is the craziest thing that I've done recently?06:14 They say your hair keeps memories07:26 What’s a good quote you recently heard?10:50 Surprising my parents with a vacation trip13:32 You create your own reality17:34 My dad is a pessimist and my mom is an optimist19:50 Why do you need to be vulnerable and not shut yourself off?   Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, Besties! It's a brand-new day and a fresh episode. Today, we've got a special treat for you as Violetta spills the beans on how she met the fabulous Apryl Jones, and let's just say, it's a story for the ages. But, it's not all fun and games – we're diving deep into the world of self-work and therapy. Ever wondered how to spot someone who's been on a journey of self-discovery? Violetta's got the inside scoop, and it's more insightful than you might think. But wait, there's more! We're exploring the intricate realms of love – from redefining it to dealing with it as parents and beyond. We've got all the wisdom you need on co-parenting, dating again, and even dating in the public eye (oh, the drama!). Plus, you won't want to miss the best and worst love advice and the ultimate secret to attracting better things into your life. So cozy up and let's get deep and real with Violetta and Apryl!  Today’s Sponsor:EveryPlate - Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal by going to https://www.everyplate.com/adulting and entering code 49ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro03:04 How Violetta met Apryl05:12 You can tell when someone is going to therapy06:46 What’s your definition of love?08:50 How do you deal with your kids?13:56 Forgiving your parents for not knowing any better17:40 Not looking at anyone different18:49 Reflect on your life, sit with yourself, and not play the victim22:01 Have you ever done shadow work?23:19 When you don’t love yourself enough25:26 Always open to learning28:31 Having children is much bigger than us33:18 You have to be real and honest with yourself35:56 How do you successfully co-parent?38:35 How do you start dating again?41:50 It started with an Instagram DM45:58 Best and worst advice about love48:25 Conscious dating when you have kids51:55 Is it difficult to date in the public eye?55:02 Privacy is still important because we’re all human57:27 Do you forgive someone for yourself?01:02:45 Learn how to see yourself first01:07:48 How do you become more kind to yourself?01:09:43 Choose to be a better human to attract better things in life 01:12:57 Three Questions with Apryl JonesConnect with Apryl on:https://www.instagram.com/aprylsjones/ https://twitter.com/aprylsjones https://www.facebook.com/OfficialAprylJones/ https://www.tiktok.com/@apryljonesofficial Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, Besties! Get ready to dive into another jam-packed review of Love Is Blind S5, Episode 5, 6, and 7. We're not just spilling the tea today; we're pouring a whole kettle of it! Violetta talks briefly about last weeks' Thursday episode, 4 Steps to Love Yourself where she shares steps to help you embrace and adore the amazing person you are, because who doesn't need a little extra self-love in their life, right?Love Is Blind fans, Violetta's got the latest scoop on who's walking down the aisle – and trust us, there are some surprises. Plus, we're dissecting the awkwardness between Taylor and JP and taking a closer look at relationships on the show. Is Lydia onto something, or is Uche playing with fire? And hold onto your Instagram accounts because we're talking about following (or maybe not following) random girls. Are your social media habits revealing more than you think? Tune in for laughter, revelations, and some good old-fashioned reality TV chatter.  Today’s Sponsor:Curology - Get up to 6 skincare products for FREE or up top a $52 value with free shipping, and a no-cost consultation with a licensed dermatology provider when you go to www.curology.com/adultingTalkspace - Get $80 off of you first month when you go to https://www.talkspace.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:50 Four steps to love yourself03:27 Love Is Blind S - who’s getting married?05:29 Why are Taylor and JP so awkward?12:16 When reality sets in for Izzy and Stacy  17:05 Lydia and Milton’s relationship seems very surface level18:49 Is Uche gaslighting Aaliyah?24:25 Maybe Lydia knew that Uche will be in S531:42 You’ll know a partner’s bad for you when…34:41 Still following random girls on IG   Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Alright, gather 'round, folks! We are ending September with this, "Choose to love yourself every single day." Yep, that's right, loving yourself should be as normal as your morning coffee. Today, Violetta will share the four steps to amp up that self-love game. There are four steps you  need in your life: setting up boundaries, becoming self-aware, getting to know yourself more, and changing your perspective. You've always got a choice. So, whether you're on a self-discovery journey or just need a little nudge to love yourself more, this episode is like a warm hug from your podcast pal, guiding you toward a brighter, self-love-filled future.  Today’s Sponsor:Curology - Get up to 6 skincare products free or up to a $52 value with free shipping, and a no-cost consultation with a licensed dermatology provider when you go to https://curology.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:21 Choose to love yourself every single day06:05 Step #1: Start setting boundaries for yourself10:21 Step #2: Be more self aware and know when to walk away18:34 Step #3: Know who you are and be at peace with yourself26:55 Step #4: Change your perspective, you always have a choice to have a better lifeGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, Besties! Today, we are going to talk about the hype around Love Is Blind Season 5. It’s very unhinged so prepare yourself because we have a lot of catching up to do. Violetta shares her insights on the Season 5's casts and how they come off after binge-watching the episodes. From the insecurities of Jared, who's projecting his size anxieties, to Chris, the golden retriever of the group who oddly sees himself as a playboy, it's a rollercoaster ride of personalities and self-perception.Amidst it all, Lydia's unnervingly straight-faced comfort moment and her declaration that, "You are so much like me," add a sprinkle of intrigue to this entertaining exploration of youthful relationships. Buckle up for a podcast that's as quirky as it is relatable, as we navigate the fascinating world of 20-something love, one eccentric character at a time. Today’s Sponsor:Rocket Money - Cancel your unwanted subscriptions and manage our money the easy way by going to https://www.rocketmoney.com/adulting DoorDash - Get 50% off your first DoorDash order up to a $20 value when you use code ADULTING23, Visit https://www.doordash.com/ What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:07 How are these people in their 20s?02:19 Jared - projecting his insecurities about his size04:14 Chris - gives off golden retriever vibes but he thinks people he’s a playboy06:11 Johnie - she feels she needs to chase people for love11:58 JP and Taylor - the love of your life say, “I used to care about looks, but not anymore.”13:38 Lydia is a walking red flag18:43 Uche’s biggest deal breaker is dishonesty19:47 Aaliyah lacks self awareness to take accountability for her cheating22:45 Did Uche want Aaliyah to feel bad so he could drop the ball about Lydia?23:54 When Lydia comforted Aaliyah with a straight face26:14 Lydia: “You are so much like me.” Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, Besties! We've got some intriguing insights as we welcome today's guest, Katie Maloney. Katie is an American television personality and actress who gained fame for her appearances on the reality TV show Vanderpump Rules. Throughout her time on Vanderpump Rules, Katie's personal life, including her relationships and friendships, has been a central focus of the show.Now, let's get real. Violetta sits down with Katie as she opens up about her past, navigating a high-profile divorce, and finding self-love in the process. From the lessons she learned from reality TV to the heartaches and healing that come with breakups, she's dishing out the good stuff. And, of course, the big question: Can you really stay friends with an ex? You don't want to miss this one!Today’s Sponsor:Amika -  Get 20% off of your order when you use www.loveamika.com/adulting. This discount is valid until November 1, 2023.Curology - For discounts visit, www.curology.com/adulting Skims - Free shipping on orders over $75, visit www.skims.comWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:07 There’s a lot people don’t know about me02:16 What’s your go-to during a bad day?03:14 Describe me in one word05:10 What’s something you wish people would ask you more often?07:36 What’s the hardest thing about starting a business?11:21 Sandwich flavors14:16 All about Vanderpump Rules18:42 Watching the show and absolutely have no idea what’s happening19:53 Taken highly out of context21:15 Lesson learned from reality TV24:30 Did compatibility issues cause the divorce?27:47 It’s done and final28:27 When did you realize that the relationship was ending?31:06 Start loving yourself33:32 I just had to go through the pain36:05 How did you get through the breakup?39:10 Put yourself first40:03 Possible to be friends with your ex?41:21 Outpour of love and support from fans42:57 To feel seen, heard, and supported49:06 Rapid questions with Katie Connect with Katie on:https://www.instagram.com/musickillskate/ https://www.tiktok.com/@katiexmaloney Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! It's Confession Corner Tuesday, and our OG social media girl Violetta is back with some juicy fan confessions. We got a guy who lied about his job and stopped communicating after they spent a night together and this guy accidentally sh*ting himself while getting a head. Surprise! Surprise! Men never learn. Buckle up, because when it comes to confessions, the drama never ends! If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:39 Call #1: This guy I met on Tinder asked if size mattered15:50 Call #2: He sh*t himself while I was giving him a bl*wj*b21:21 Call #3: Dylan, you’re not a serious person about me being your sugar baby  Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

They always say let go of your anger, let go of your pain, blah blah blah! But why doesn’t anyone talk about how using these “negative” feelings to your advantage to catapult you into your best season yet?Hello, Besties! September is all about checking in with ourselves, our mental health, and with our goals. To kick things off Violetta is back with another solo episode and she is NOT here to sugarcoat. In today’s episode Violetta admits life has its ups and downs and it hasn’t been easy, but today she is thankful and you will be too by the end of the episode. Today, Violetta shares FOUR STEPS that can help anyone struggling internally, going through difficult and seemingly impossible situations, and help turn the negatives into optimism and positive change. Besties, let's use our pain and rage to turn the page starting today with this episode! What to Listen For:00:00 Intro00:55 Let’s take a moment to be thankful03:44 Low moments are necessary to transform you07:06 Step #1: Ask yourself, “Is this working for me?”10:07 Step #2: It’s all in your head11:06 Step #3: Sit with rejection, be comfortable with it12:50 Step #4: Turn your resentment into your superpower14:35 Correlation between anger and passion to succeed17:43 Your mind will continuously believe what you tell itGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today's a little different. We're kicking things off with some juicy dating tips, including the absolute must-ask questions to gauge if you're with Mr. or Ms. Right. Then, we're diving headfirst into a fun chat where Violetta talks about how she sees the characters of the Selling The OC cast. It might not be everyone's cup of tea, but it's still got that 'worth-watching' vibe!  If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:Amika -  Get 20% off of your order when you use www.loveamika.com/adulting. This discount is valid until November 1, 2023.Download Hinge and share your Dating Intentions to find someone worth deleting the app for. https://hinge.co/ Honeylove - For a limited time get 20% off of your entire order with my exclusive link www.honeylove.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:30 The 5 honest questions to ask yourself04:30 Have you watched Crash Landing on You?08:03 When you hear these three things on the first date, RUN!10:32 Selling The OC - Tyler14:03 Selling The OC - Jarvis and Rose16:40 Selling The OC - Polly17:10 Selling The OC - Alex Hall 19:40 Selling The OC - Brandy22:59 Selling The OC - Austin and Tyler25:16 The lack of empathy for others26:14 Someone really hates Jarvis because…27:13 It was an escort partyGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

TW: Discussion about eating disorder, alcohol and drug abuse, sobriety, and self harmEver wondered why you're not happy all the time? Well, you're not supposed to be! It's okay not to feel the sunshine every day, and sometimes, the cloudy moments are what make the sunny ones shine even brighter.Today, Violetta welcomes Laura Clery, a comedian and influencer best known for her comedy sketches and vlogs about her day-to-day life on social media. Laura shares how she grew in popularity through her viral characters’ Pamela Pumpkin and Hellen Horbath, and later pivoted to documenting her day to day life in a comedic sense.From the highs and lows of existence to the complexities of relationships and personal growth, each chapter delves into the real, unfiltered moments that define our lives; finding humor in life's little annoyances, or navigating the tumultuous waters of divorce. Join us as we laugh and ponder the human experience, one chapter at a time.     What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:05 You’re not meant to feel happy all the time03:51 Do we look alike?06:33 The birth of Pamela Pumpkin 09:01 Then Helen Horbath came to be11:03 The failed pilot show, and then pregnancy came13:23 Manifesting what you want in life17:26 What’s driving me crazy right now20:12 When taxes don’t make sense to you21:22 Do you like talking to yourself?23:43 A thousand random thoughts28:51 I can’t imagine not existing…33:26 Constant criticism about your looks38:24 Competition is an illusion40:39 Why are you getting a divorce?43:23 Public breakup is never easy48:38 Slowing down on work and prioritizing mental health51:46 Implementing boundaries for inner peace54:37 The human resilience in any situation56:33 The effect of divorce on children58:12 What do you do when you’re about to relapse?01:02:21 You can only be strong for so long01:05:21 The Serenity Prayer  Connect with Laura on:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSfJoOxzmSr5ibdGcLN3Ysg https://www.instagram.com/lauraclery https://www.facebook.com/laura.clery/ https://www.tiktok.com/@lauraclery Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesEpisode Sponsors:Shop all my favorites at loveamika.com/adulting and get 20% off your order.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever had those cringe-worthy moments that make you wish you could hit the rewind button on life? Well, we all do, and in this episode, we're diving headfirst into some hilariously embarrassing tales. From a power struggle in the education system to an intimate experience gone wrong that'll leave you in stitches. Oh, and don't forget the awkward moment you caught your dad staring through a slightly opened door while you were doing the deed. Yep, these stories are as real and relatable as they come. So get ready for some seriously entertaining, toe-curling moments that'll have you saying, "I've been there too!"If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:03 Story #1: Overloaded teacher 13:12 Story #2: Disgusting, intimate experience17:31 Story #3: Walked out while doing the deed23:17 Story #4: The other guy was my crushGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesEpisode Sponsors:As a listener of this podcast, you’ll get $80 off your first month with Talkspace when you go to Talkspace.com/ADULTINGDownload Hinge and share your Dating Intentions to find someone worth deleting the app for.Shop all my favorites at loveamika.com/adulting and get 20% off your order.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Changing your perspective is like putting on a new pair of glasses that reveals a whole new world. It's essential because our outlook shapes our reality. When we shift our viewpoint, we unlock fresh insights, untapped potential, and a realm of possibilities that were previously hidden. Today, Violetta shares the three reasons why we remain stuck with where we are as well as the action steps we can take to move forward. From how our actions create our reality, how our emotions affect those actions, and the thoughts we have while taking action. It's all about shifting your mindset, and girl, you're about to crush it!   What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:40 The story you tell yourself06:17 Phase 1 - Our actions create our reality12:09 “Everything I’m doing, I chose to do.”16:26 Phase 2 - Our emotions dictate our actions20:09 Consumed by hatred24:07 Do you want to be right or become free?28:40 Phase 3 - Our thoughts affect our emotions32:18 Positive thinking transforms your life34:44 “Am I happy with the thoughts in my head?” Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Breakups are tough but moving on can be even more challenging. Today, Violetta offers insights on becoming the IT girl when it comes to dating, post-breakup ways to move on from someone (based on real life experience), and some handy ghosting tricks for future use. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:Download Hinge and share your Dating Intentions to find someone worth deleting the app for. https://hinge.co/ What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:01 The best revenge is to move on05:40 How to be the It Girl?13:05 Ways to let go and move on19:02 Ghosting tricksGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesEpisode Sponsor:Download Hinge and share your Dating Intentions to find someone worth deleting the app for.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you considered the difference between what people want versus what they truly need in relationships, and how does this understanding impact your approach to forming connections? This introspective exploration can have a profound influence on how you approach building meaningful bonds. Today's guest is Fiachra "Figs" O'Sullivan. Figs is the creator of the Empathi method and the certification process for Empathi coaches. His life’s mission is to help couples feel more connected.Violetta and Figs unveil the impact of childhood experiences on your ability to love and how self-sabotaging patterns might be holding you back and decode your attachment style and learn how taking responsibility for your actions and emotions can transform your connections. Whether you're seeking self-growth or hoping to form healthier bonds, don't miss out on this empowering conversation that peels back the layers of love, relationships, and healing.   What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:14 Are you in a toxic relationship?04:15 What can we do about a toxic partner?06:23 When you’re in a threatened vulnerable state08:02 Are you in a system together?13:36 When in your reality your partner is hurting you16:14 How childhood experiences affect our ability to love17:56 Self-sabotaging patterns 19:49 The natural fear to fall in love23:31 Struggling to open up 25:25 Know what’s your attachment style29:18 Taking responsibility of our actions and emotions33:21 Both need to show up for each other36:28 Foster empathy for yourself and others42:31 The gray area on first dates47:36 Here’s what you should focus on when dating50:07 Finding healing through forming relationships55:31 What is a co-dependent relationship?01:00:48 Doing self work to not attract what you lack01:04:19 Glorification of people protecting themselves from getting hurt01:07:29 What people really need is not what they wantConnect with Figs on:https://empathi.com/ https://www.tiktok.com/@empathinow https://www.facebook.com/EmpathiNow/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnPbjlO6Q0KBXVHXeGyivlw https://www.instagram.com/empathinow/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesEpisode Sponsors:Get $1.49 per meal by going to EveryPlate.com/podcast and entering code 49adultingProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever wondered about the hidden stories that weave the tapestry of human existence? Brace yourselves, because in this episode, we're peeling back the layers and delving into stories that challenge our perceptions, tug at our emotions, and remind us of the complexities that make us undeniably human.Today, Violetta is back with another batch of Reddit confessions. From sacrificing parental rights to confronting the aftermath of a child's devastating lie about assault, and even exploring the unexpected dynamics of sibling relationships, get ready to listen through emotions that are as intense as they are relatable and somehow insanely eye rolling. Get ready to be moved, captivated, and reminded that beneath the surface, we're all navigating our own stories that shape who we are.If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:43 Story #1: I was asked to give up my parental rights13:19 Story #2: A child lied about being assaulted by his mother’s boyfriend20:35 Story #3: My older brother and I were sleeping togetherGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesEpisode Sponsors:Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off your Starter Pack (that's up to 40% off) with promo code DULTING at lumedeoderant.com/ADULTING #lumepodFor a limited time, you'll get 50% off up to $10 on your next order of $15+ when you sign up for DashPass Student plan and enter code ADULTINGProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.