Dear Boy

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Dear or die.

“The night is falling… because I want it to.“

Dear Boy is the torch bearer of lyric forward guitar music and melody focused indie rock. The band has become an important voice in the LA underground music scene, crafting bittersweet songs inspired by late 70’s / early 80's post-punk and early 90's britpop, seen through their unique modern lens.

With three EP’s and a bouquet of singles, Dear Boy has earned an immense and loyal following, selling out headline shows from the Troubadour to The Teragram and touring with the likes of The Psychedelic Furs, James, Pete Yorn, Day Wave, Palace, Rogue Wave, Sunflower Bean, DMA’s, The Airborne Toxic Event & Peter Murphy. Recent festival appearances include Corona Capital 2019 (Mexico City), Estéreo Picnic 2022 (Bogotá, Colombia) and Pa’l Norte 2022 (Monterrey, Mexico). And Dear Boy recently recording a live set on KCRW’s Morning Becomes Eclectic. 

In 2021 Dear Boy completed their debut full length album and in 2022 signed with Last Gang Records. The release will be Dear Boy’s first collaboration with the legendary label. Produced by the band and mixed by Tony Hoffer (Air, Phoenix, M83), the record also features contributions from Day Wave, Hazel English, Rogue Wave, AFI & Ian Hultquist of Passion Pit. The album is called “Forever Sometimes.”

The album expands on the band’s signature sound, this time also pulling from shoegaze, new wave, 80’s indie rock and dream pop while still maintaining Dear Boy’s unique modern sensibilities. But above all the album is about cohesion. 

This album and honestly, the band itself, is a study in “goodbyes.” Life after death, love after life, life after love, the paradox of closeness, the complexity of what it means to leave something or someone behind, when do you say goodbye…? These are some of the ideas that we’ve been exploring since our first days as a band… And in that way, Forever Sometimes is as close to a concept album as a non-concept album gets. 

A lot of this record is about our shared time on Earth and the idea that for so many of us, love is truly the hereafter we’re looking for. The night sky isn't any one person's territory. There are answers up there for everybody.

The album is also meant to feel like a full life lived. From the non-denominational “Evensong” to “Unbecoming” to “Marrying For Love” to “Die” to “Heaven Moves.” Forever Sometimes is a full circle emotional journey and a microcosm of the human experience. The first and last song on the album share the same ethereal voice which we employed to be a call to the listener… asking you to live this life again. 

Since we were producing it ourselves, we wanted to infuse as much of our shared personal history into the details as we could. The underground train you hear before Swan Dives is the Northern Line, which we would ride every day when first started Dear Boy in London. The acoustic at the end of Heaven Moves is from the very first demo recorded in Keith’s bedroom. Unbecoming features a quote from the 40’s that goes; “The people of the state of California expect us to do our best…” Something my Dad would say to me all of the time when I was a kid… There isn’t a moment on this album that doesn’t feature something important, unique or special to us. It’s the most personal record any of us could have imagined making.

We were ultra specific with every single element of this record while still keeping a sense of unpredictability in the studio. Everything about this album is us. The perspective, the sound, the intention. Our loves, our friends, our words. This is us completely. And it’s the record we’ve been chasing since the day we formed this band.

Dear Boy is a band of best friends from Los Angeles, California. Ben Grey (vocals / guitar), Austin Hayman (guitar), Keith Cooper (drums) and Lucy Lawrence (bass / vocals).

Dear or Die. 

“It’s as close to a concept album as a non-concept album gets,” says singer Ben Grey. “A lot of this record is about our shared time on Earth and the idea that for so many of us, love is truly the hereafter we’re looking for.” Opening with the non-denominational “Evensong” and ending with the axiom filled anthem “Heaven Moves,” this album truly is a journey. “The night sky isn't any one person's territory. There are answers up there for everybody ” says Grey.  

Dear Boy spent over a year recording the album. “We were ultra specific with every single element of this record while still keeping a sense of unpredictability in the studio. Everything about this album is us. The perspective, the sound, the intention. Our loves, our friends, our words. This is us completely. And it’s the record we’ve been chasing since the day we formed this band.”

Dear Boy is a band of best friends from Los Angeles, California. Ben Grey (vocals / guitar), Austin Hayman (guitar), Keith Cooper (drums) and Lucy Lawrence (bass / vocals).

Dear or Die. 

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After All
Dear Boy
After All
03:59
Writer: Ben Grey - Austin Hayman - Keith Cooper / Composers: Ben Grey - Austin Hayman - Keith Cooper
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Kelly Green
Dear Boy
Kelly Green
03:48
Writer: Ben Grey - Austin Hayman - Keith Cooper / Composers: Ben Grey - Austin Hayman - Keith Cooper
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Alluria
Dear Boy
Parts of a Flower - EP
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Albums
Last Gang Records Inc. / MNRK Music Group, LP
16-09-2022
Forever Sometimes
01
Evensong
Dear Boy
Forever Sometimes
01:39
Writer: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence / Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence
02
(On My) Mind
Dear Boy
Forever Sometimes
03:41
Writer: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence / Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence
03
Say When
Dear Boy
Forever Sometimes
04:31
Writer: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman / Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman
04
Wet Clothes
Dear Boy
Forever Sometimes
04:13
Writer: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman / Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman
05
Unbecoming
Dear Boy
Forever Sometimes
03:47
Writer: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence / Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence
06
Swan Dives
Dear Boy
Forever Sometimes
04:50
Writer: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence / Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence
07
Your Brother's Room
Dear Boy
Forever Sometimes
00:43
Writer: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence / Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence
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EPs
Last Gang Records Inc. / MNRK Music Group, LP
28-07-2022
Forever Sometimes
01
Forever Sometimes
Dear Boy
Forever Sometimes
04:26
Writer: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence / Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence
02
Wet Clothes
Dear Boy
Forever Sometimes
04:13
Writer: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman / Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman
03
Say When
Dear Boy
Forever Sometimes
04:31
Writer: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman / Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman
04
(On My) Mind
Dear Boy
Forever Sometimes
03:41
Writer: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence / Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence
(P) 2019 Easy Hell
01-03-2019
The Strawberry EP
01
Semester
Dear Boy
The Strawberry EP
03:39
Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence
02
Limelight
Dear Boy
The Strawberry EP
04:03
Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence
03
Something Good
Dear Boy
The Strawberry EP
04:20
Composers: Ben Grey - April Bender
04
Anything At All
Dear Boy
The Strawberry EP
04:22
Composers: Austin Hayman - Ben Grey - Keith Cooper
05
Love Interest
Dear Boy
The Strawberry EP
03:57
Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman
Easy Hell
05-08-2016
Parts of a Flower - EP
01
Local Roses
Dear Boy
Parts of a Flower - EP
03:07
02
Alluria
Dear Boy
Parts of a Flower - EP
04:40
03
Reckless
Dear Boy
Parts of a Flower - EP
04:19
04
Robbery Love
Dear Boy
Parts of a Flower - EP
04:03
10-09-2013
Dear Boy EP
01
Come Along
Dear Boy
Dear Boy EP
04:08
02
Green Eyes
Dear Boy
Dear Boy EP
03:34
03
Oh so Quiet
Dear Boy
Dear Boy EP
03:45
04
Funeral Waves
Dear Boy
Dear Boy EP
04:00
05
Blond Bones
Dear Boy
Dear Boy EP
04:22
Singles
2025 Last Gang Records
05-08-2025
After All
01
After All
Dear Boy
After All
03:59
Writer: Ben Grey - Austin Hayman - Keith Cooper / Composers: Ben Grey - Austin Hayman - Keith Cooper
2025 Last Gang Records
20-06-2025
Kelly Green
01
Kelly Green
Dear Boy
Kelly Green
03:48
Writer: Ben Grey - Austin Hayman - Keith Cooper / Composers: Ben Grey - Austin Hayman - Keith Cooper
2025 Last Gang Records Inc.
22-01-2025
Combat Baby
01
Combat Baby
Dear Boy
Combat Baby
03:56
Composers: Emily Haines - James Shaw
2024 Last Gang Records Inc. / MNRK Music Group LP.
06-12-2024
My, My
01
My, My
Dear Boy
My, My
03:48
Writer: Ben Grey - Jade Puget
Dearboy Rapper
29-11-2023
TUFAAN
01
TUFAAN
Dear Boy
TUFAAN
03:10
Composers: Dearboy Rapper
Last Gang Records Inc. / MNRK Music Group, LP
23-03-2022
Wet Clothes
01
Wet Clothes
Dear Boy
Wet Clothes
04:13
Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman
Last Gang Records Inc.
19-11-2021
Say When
01
Say When
Dear Boy
Say When
04:31
Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman
Last Gang Records Inc.
27-08-2021
(On My) Mind
01
(On My) Mind
Dear Boy
(On My) Mind
03:41
Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence
(P) 2020 Easy Hell
28-01-2020
The Nominee
01
The Nominee
Dear Boy
The Nominee
03:29
Composers: Keith Cooper - Ben Grey - Aaron Austin Hayman - Porter Lucy lawrence
(P) 2019 Easy Hell
02-08-2019
Heaven Moves
01
Heaven Moves
Dear Boy
Heaven Moves
04:19
Composers: Ben Grey - Keith Cooper - Austin Hayman - Lucy Lawrence