Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

Send us a textEpisode 601: Removing Shame and Roadblocks to Women's Sexual Pleasure with Sexologist Lucy Rowett.Guest Bio:Lucy Rowett, CSC, is a certified sexologist and sex coach who is passionate about helping women and people with vulvas let go of sexual shame and hangups and embrace pleasure to create the passionate relationships they've always desired. She is the host of the Naked and Unashamed Life podcast, and the resident sex coach at UK contraception platform, The Lowdown.She is regularly quoted in the media for her expertise in sexual health and wellness, pleasure, and sexual shame- including iNews, Cosmopolitan, Men's Health, GQ, The Sun, Insider, and Glamour.In 2023, she was nominated for somatic sexologist of the year at the sexual freedom awards. She uses a combination of mind body tools with evidence-based sexuality education to create a fun and open space for women and vulva havers to explore their full erotic potential.Her speciality is working with women and people with vulvas who come from Faith backgrounds who are struggling to let go of sexual shame and enjoy pleasurable and intimate relationships again.Summary: Breaking Free from Sexual Shame: A Revolutionary ConversationDive into a transformative discussion between Ruan Willow and sexologist Lucy Rowett as they tackle the often-silenced topic of women's sexual pleasure. This eye-opening episode challenges the deeply rooted shame surrounding female sexuality and offers a fresh perspective on embracing our natural desires.Lucy, a specialist in supporting women and non-binary individuals, shares powerful insights about:- The universal impact of sexual shame across all backgrounds- Dismantling harmful cultural narratives that suppress pleasure- The importance of comprehensive sexual education- Understanding female arousal and the physiology of pleasure- Creating safe spaces for sexual exploration and expressionThe conversation navigates through the evolution of female sexuality in modern culture, from the mainstreaming of erotic literature to the vital role of sex-positive communities in fostering acceptance and growth.Ready to transform your relationship with pleasure and embrace a shame-free approach to sexuality? This episode is your gateway to understanding and celebrating your sexual wellbeing. Tune in now for an empowering journey towards sexual liberation. Sexual health is mental health, and your sexual wellness matters!Links: Learn more: https://lucyrowett.com/Free guide to confident sexual communication: https://bit.ly/askforwhatyoureallywantFree meditation to connect to your vulva: https://bit.ly/handheartvInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lucylurowettPodcast: The Naked and Unashamed LifeSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0MdbEOJW9nXRqLsAMSTRAn?si=2ce2d298be93495cSupport the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

25/04/2025 • 52:13

Subscriber-only episodeSend us a textEpisode 600: Wingless Hunger, Chapter 6, Open Door Spicy Romantasy, SEX! Finally, she's been waiting! Gabreilla was naked in the forest when she smelled a man nearby. She used all her sex appeal and her beautiful siren singing voice to draw him in...as a siren-fairy-human, she had special abilities. But what she needed most was his cock. They were having a great day...but it wasn't meant to last. Desperate to get with him, she uses her powers of seduction.Audiobook Blurb: Gabriella can smell men. Which is a good thing since she desperately needs men. It’s not every fairy who also has siren in her, which allows her to use her irresistible singing voice to draw them nearer. Since she can’t leave her invisible cage, this is a very useful talent, especially when it comes to drawing men to her area of the forest. Most men will do, however, they only stay for little while.When she senses Leif hiking down the path, she experiences the usual growth in her size, which is imperative because if he can’t see her, none of the good stuff will happen. He's different than the other men were, he might just be the solution she seeks. But then there’s also the other paralyzing problem of trying to attain her freedom. All she desires is a happier, less lonely life once again, human sized.Tropes:*Open Door, HEA Spicy Romantasy, spicy erotic romance fiction.*Lust First, sexuality.*Forced proximity.*Shrinking woman, growing woman.*She needs a hero.*He's a cinnamon roll.*The miracle they seek, they don't know all the rules.Wingless Hunger is a novella, book 1 of 4 in the Arching Hunger series. Enjoy the entertainment of spicy storytelling about relationships and spicy open door erotic romance, romantic fantasy fiction in this audiobook written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow, author, podcaster, and audiobook narrator. Support human voices only in audio and buy only human created content. Support humans not automation.Subscription Process:Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here.  After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps .If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance.Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

23/04/2025 • 25:24

Send us a textSeason 5, Episode 599: Watching the Blindfolded Wife Threesome by Sierra Dumont, narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow.  A MFM Hotwife erotic lit story where the hubby is the director of the sexy goings-on! Female pleasure on overload! Yes please! It's an alternative lifestyle relationship where he enjoys wife-sharing with his friend and co-worker, ENM style!  Scroll down to access free erotic books!About the Author Sierra Dumont:Sierra writes about women being passed around, used, and shared—all with the encouragement of their loving husbands. All stories are about the hottest wives being pleasured in every way possible, whether by one man or multiple!Learn more: https://sierradumont.com/Anthology:Get the spicy anthology book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). The anthology is only available for a limited time so act now!Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!Get Podcast Host Ruan's new spicy open door Romantasy Novella: Overcoming Heartache https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/overcomingheartache FREE TODAY AND TOMORROW ONLY! 4/22/25 AND 4/23/25GET ALL THE FREE EROTICA FOR TWO DAYS ONLY 4/22-4/23/25: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/g1jlFW1Ruan's smut, erotica, erotic romance fiction books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/Ruan has been nominated for an ASN Lifestyle Magazine Award for Best Erotic Writer! Vote for Ruan daily starting April 13, 2025 at https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/2025-top-8-finalistWoman owned bookstore with Ruan's books: get her books and support an indie bookshop! https://www.heabookshop.com/Support the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

22/04/2025 • 21:08

Send us a textEp: 598 From Repression to Expression: A Writer's Journey into Erotic Literature.Guest Bio:Ramone Quides is a renaissance polymath who discovered the joys and fulfillment of creative writing later in life. He enjoys writing diverse, connective stories that elevate and celebrate all the places the unencumbered minds can wander. The array of fictional literary erotica he’s dreamt up for your enjoyment are intended to tickle your overt and covert interests and fantasies.His celebrations of varied genders, interests and preferences have been published in:The Big Book of Quickies by Rachel Kramer Bussel (affiliate links for books) https://amzn.to/3Y6zDMQErotica For Men: And the Women Who Love Them, Volume II by Rose Caraway https://amzn.to/3Gf93LnRosy: A women’s health and wellness site that uses erotica as one of their resources to increase sexual desireeLust: A monthly publication with broad-ranging content that includes stories, poetry, advice, reviews, and insights from writersTheo: A site containing stories from romance on up from some of the greatest writers of our generationStories, blog posts and/or commentary can also be found atramonequides.comInstagram, BlueSky, Threads and Twitter as @ramonequidesSummary:Discover how embracing creativity later in life led Ramone to find his voice through erotic storytelling. In this episode, Ramone shares his transformation from a life of emotional repression to becoming a passionate writer of diverse and healing erotic literature.The conversation explores how societal expectations initially stifled Ramone's self-expression until a pivotal moment in his 40s changed everything. After dedicating a year to creative exploration, he emerged with three distinct stories under a carefully chosen pseudonym, channeling years of "quiet desperation" into empowering narratives.We dive deep into discussions about the intersection of creativity, sexuality, and personal growth. Ramone reveals how his journey has not only enhanced his writing but also deepened his relationship with his partner, leading to more open communication and a flourishing intimate life well into his 60s.Listen now to discover how it's never too late to pursue your passion and find personal freedom through art.Excerpt:  Enjoy an excerpt at the end of the interview from Ramone's story "A Second Chance at Submission" narrated by Ruan Willow.Key Takeaways:• Ramon began writing erotic stories later in life, highlighting that it's never too late to pursue creative passions.  • He views erotic literature as a powerful tool for emotional healing and personal growth, challenging societal norms around sexuality.  • The episode emphasizes midlife as an opportunity for self-acceptance and deeper intimacy, promoting open communication in relationships.Support the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

18/04/2025 • 93:03

Subscriber-only episodeSend us a textEpisode 597: Wingless Hunger, Chapter 5, Open Door Spicy Romantasy, Kiss Me Before You Go! Gabreilla was naked in the forest when she smelled a man nearby. She used all her sex appeal and her beautiful siren singing voice to draw him in...as a siren-fairy-human, she had special abilities. But what she needed most was his cock. They were having a great day...but it wasn't meant to last. Desperate to get with him, she uses her powers of seduction.Audiobook Blurb: Gabriella can smell men. Which is a good thing since she desperately needs men. It’s not every fairy who also has siren in her, which allows her to use her irresistible singing voice to draw them nearer. Since she can’t leave her invisible cage, this is a very useful talent, especially when it comes to drawing men to her area of the forest. Most men will do, however, they only stay for little while.When she senses Leif hiking down the path, she experiences the usual growth in her size, which is imperative because if he can’t see her, none of the good stuff will happen. He's different than the other men were, he might just be the solution she seeks. But then there’s also the other paralyzing problem of trying to attain her freedom. All she desires is a happier, less lonely life once again, human sized.Tropes:*Open Door, HEA Spicy Romantasy, spicy erotic romance fiction.*Lust First, sexuality.*Forced proximity.*Shrinking woman, growing woman.*She needs a hero.*He's a cinnamon roll.*The miracle they seek, they don't know all the rules.Wingless Hunger is a novella, book 1 of 4 in the Arching Hunger series. Enjoy the entertainment of spicy storytelling about relationships and spicy open door erotic romance, romantic fantasy fiction in this audiobook written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow, author, podcaster, and audiobook narrator. Support human voices only in audio and buy only human created content. Support humans not automation.Subscription Process:Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here.  After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps .If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance.Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

18/04/2025 • 22:09

Send us a textEp 596: The Professor's Forbidden Pet, A Professor Student Age Gap by Ava Kade, narrated by Ruan Willow. A MF, age gap: older man, younger woman, professor-student erotica excerpt, oh the oral description is delish! This! This is SO HOT! One of my faves of the excerpts! Yes please, bring this on! I'm a BIG FAN! That'll wake up a woman's libido in the thought of a heartbeat!About the Author Ava Kade:Ava Kade is a passionate writer of sweet and spicy age gap stories, centered around mature, dominant older men and naughty younger women. A lot of them contain a touch of the forbidden and taboo, everything laced together with lots of romance.Anthology:Get the spicy anthology book! It's ON SALE for only 99 cents right now!!!  Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). The anthology is only available for a limited time so act now!Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!Get Podcast Host Ruan's new spicy open door Romantasy Novella: Overcoming Heartache https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/overcomingheartacheRuan's smut, erotica, erotic romance fiction books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/Ruan has been nominated for an ASN Lifestyle Magazine Award for Best Erotic Writer! Vote for Ruan daily starting April 13, 2025 at https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/2025-top-8-finalistWoman owned bookstore with Ruan's books: get her books and support an indie bookshop! https://www.heabookshop.com/Support the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

15/04/2025 • 22:08

Send us a textEp 595: The Healing Power of Smut, Part 5: Exploring Dark and Taboo Themes in Fiction Can Be Healing For Women with author Stephani Del Rey. Exploring the Empowering Side of Dark Sexual Fantasies.Overall, the discussion explores the nuances of dark/taboo subgenres and the importance of reframing the narratives around them. About Stephani Del Rey:  Stephani Del Rey loves to write about sexy, independent women who know what they want - especially if it involves being taught a lesson by a LOT of hot, dominant men! She writes MMFM/ gangbang/ reverse harem erotica that features sharing, degradation, erotic humiliation, spanking, light bondage and plenty of edging and dirty talk. Her mission is to deliver on that female submission kink while keeping it fun, trashy and empowering. She lives in the UK, where she dreams of one day having a walk-in wardrobe for her lingerie.Mailing list and get a free book: http://eepurl.com/h_VHrDhttps://www.amazon.com/stores/Stephani-Del-Rey/author/B0BGYQ7JH6Shared by the Special Forces An MMFM Humiliation Story (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/42HTFzOSummary:Journey into the complex world of erotic storytelling with UK-based author Stephanie Del Rey, who crafts tales of strong women exploring their submission fantasies. This fascinating discussion delves into how erotic fiction serves as a powerful tool for processing trauma, challenging cultural norms, and reclaiming female sexual agency.The conversation explores controversial themes including the "male gaze," consensual non-consent, and the healing potential of taboo fantasies. Del Rey shares personal insights about how her own experiences shaped her writing, particularly in creating stories where female characters find empowerment through their sexuality while being cherished by protective, dominant partners.Topics: Primal Desires and Submission, Reclaiming Sexuality Through Erotic Fiction, The Objectification of Women in Media and Culture, Empowering Women's Sexuality and Consent, Exploring the Origins and Acceptance of Kinks, Empowering Female Sexuality in Erotica, Exploring Female Sexuality Through Fiction, Exploring Nuanced Perspectives on Kink and Gender, The Appeal of Dominant-Submissive Dynamics and also Humiliation and Degradation Kinks, Navigating Censorship in the Digital Age, The Precarious Nature of Online Content Creation, Reclaiming/redefining the Gangb**g and asking for it: Celebrating Female PleasureKey Takeaways: • Reclaiming terms like "asking for it" can empower women to explore their desires safely through fantasy, rather than feeling shame.• Fiction allows women to confront their fears around violence and vulnerability, processing these experiences in a controlled setting.• Exploring taboo themes in a fictional context can have a healing potential for women.Support the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

11/04/2025 • 64:11

Send us a textEpisode 594: My Husband Shared Me with His Best Friend, A Hotwife Excerpt by Kassia White, narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. It's a mega hot MMF threesome pleasure filled scene!About the Author:Kassia White is an author of hotwife erotica. Her books are light on plot but are packed with heat. All the stories feature slutty women eager to be shared by their happy husbands, sometimes with just one man, and other times with oh, so many.Get the spicy anthology book! It's ON SALE for only 99 cents right now!!!  Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). The anthology is only available for a limited time so act now!Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!Get Podcast Host Ruan's new spicy open door Romantasy Novella: Overcoming Heartache https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/overcomingheartacheRuan's smut, erotica, erotic romance fiction books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/Ruan has been nominated for an ASN Lifestyle Magazine Award for Best Erotic Writer! Vote for Ruan starting April 13, 2025 at https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/2025-top-8-finalistSupport the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

10/04/2025 • 18:41

Subscriber-only episodeSend us a textEpisode 593: Wingless Hunger, Chapter 4, Open Door Spicy Romantasy, Skinny Dipping. Gabreilla was naked in the forest when she smelled a man nearby. She used all her sex appeal and her beautiful siren singing voice to draw him in...as a siren-fairy-human, she had special abilities. But what she needed most was his cock.Audiobook Blurb: Gabriella can smell men. Which is a good thing since she desperately needs men. It’s not every fairy who also has siren in her, which allows her to use her irresistible singing voice to draw them nearer. Since she can’t leave her invisible cage, this is a very useful talent, especially when it comes to drawing men to her area of the forest. Most men will do, however, they only stay for little while.When she senses Leif hiking down the path, she experiences the usual growth in her size, which is imperative because if he can’t see her, none of the good stuff will happen. He's different than the other men were, he might just be the solution she seeks. But then there’s also the other paralyzing problem of trying to attain her freedom. All she desires is a happier, less lonely life once again, human sized.Tropes:*Open Door, HEA Spicy Romantasy, spicy erotic romance fiction.*Lust First, sexuality.*Forced proximity.*Shrinking woman, growing woman.*She needs a hero.*He's a cinnamon roll.*The miracle they seek, they don't know all the rules.Wingless Hunger is a novella, book 1 of 4 in the Arching Hunger series.Subscription Process:Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here.  After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps .If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance.Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

10/04/2025 • 25:10

Send us a textEpisode 592: How to Please a Shapeshifter in Bed, A MM Erotic Fiction Excerpt by Fleur Foxx from the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause.About the Author:Fleur Foxx writes queer monster erotica and erotic romance. She writes what she likes, which means her stories are a rainbow of monsters and sexualities. Come find out what hides in the dark.ALL PROCEEDS of the sale/KU readings of the anthology GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief).Enjoy this erotica excerpt, storytelling via erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!Ruan has been nominated for an ASN Lifestyle Magazine Award for Erotic Writer! She's in the top 8!To learn more and vote for her, which she greatly would appreciate!!, visit the ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards, by the ASN Lifestyle MagazineVOTING: https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/2025-top-8-finalisthttps://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/ Voting runs from April 13, 2025 through July 13, 2025Support the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

08/04/2025 • 15:20

Subscriber-only episodeSend us a textEpisode 591: Wingless Hunger, Chapter 3, Open Door Spicy Romantasy, Desperate for Sex. Gabreilla was naked in the forest when she smelled a man nearby. She used all her sex appeal and her beautiful siren singing voice to draw him in...as a siren-fairy-human, she had special abilities. But what she needed most was his cock.Book Blurb: Gabriella can smell men. Which is a good thing since she desperately needs men. It’s not every fairy who also has siren in her, which allows her to use her irresistible singing voice to draw them nearer. Since she can’t leave her invisible cage, this is a very useful talent, especially when it comes to drawing men to her area of the forest. Most men will do, however, they only stay for little while.When she senses Leif hiking down the path, she experiences the usual growth in her size, which is imperative because if he can’t see her, none of the good stuff will happen. He's different than the other men were, he might just be the solution she seeks. But then there’s also the other paralyzing problem of trying to attain her freedom. All she desires is a happier, less lonely life once again, human sized.Tropes:*Open Door, HEA Spicy Romantasy.*Lust First.*Forced proximity.*Shrinking woman, growing woman.*She needs a hero.*He's a cinnamon roll.*The miracle they seek, they don't know all the rules.Wingless Hunger is a novella, book 1 of 4 in the Arching Hunger series.Subscription Process:Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here.  After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps .If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance.Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

04/04/2025 • 22:17

Send us a textEp 590: The Healing Power of Smut Part 4: A Transformative Journey Breaking Free from Religious and Societal Constraints, with Guest ChuckBreaking Free: The Healing Power of Erotic LiteratureDiscover how one man's journey from strict Catholic upbringing to embracing erotic storytelling became a path to personal healing and authenticity. In this compelling episode, Chuck opens up about how reading and writing spicy content helped him overcome religious constraints and embrace his true self.Key highlights:- The therapeutic value of erotic literature beyond mere entertainment- Challenging censorship and societal control over sexual expression- The disconnect between romance's popularity and its social stigma- Navigating creative freedom in the digital age- The importance of sexual wellness for mental health- Understanding and embracing female sexuality- The transformative power of authentic storytellingSelf-expression, self-care, and self-discovery are an important part of healthy mental health and sexual health. Sexual health IS a part of mental health.The conversation delves deep into the complexities of modern attitudes toward sexuality, personal freedom, and self-expression, while addressing the challenges faced by creators in more conservative communities.Ready to challenge your perspectives on erotic literature and personal freedom? Listen to this thought-provoking episode that bridges the gap between sexuality, storytelling, and self-discovery.Key Takeaways:• Writing erotic content can be a transformative and healing experience, providing meaningful substance beyond just gratuitous sex.• Love, romance, and sexuality are natural and essential parts of the human experience that should not be suppressed or controlled.• Navigating societal norms, personal desires, and creative freedom, especially on online publishing platforms, can be complex.Shownotes by Cleanoice ai.Ruan's Upcoming Release, an Open Door Romantasy Deception's Snare:https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/deceptionssnareListen to the full series:Listen to The Healing Power of Smut, Part 1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16787440 Part 2: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16836959Part 3: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16876985Part 5: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16963478Part 6: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/17002841Support the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

04/04/2025 • 49:07

Send us a textEp 589: Cheating with My Husband's Mentor by Evie Dawn. Lydia gets taken by the boss in taboo forbidden secretive acts...while she can see her husband. She's justified though, so it's all the pleasure and none of the guilt.About the Author:Evie Dawn is an author of extra spicy romantic erotica with a soft spot for forbidden love and slutty women who aren’t afraid to explore their desires outside the confines of marriage. In every book, you’ll find cheating wives discovering that true love sometimes lies in the arms of their affair partners and that a HEA can come in the most unexpected ways.Charity anthology:Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). The anthology is only available for a limited time so act now!Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!Get Podcast Host Ruan's new spicy open door Romantasy Novella: Overcoming Heartache https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/overcomingheartacheRuan's smut, erotica, erotic romance fiction books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/Support the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

01/04/2025 • 21:57

Subscriber-only episodeSend us a textEpisode 588: Wingless Hunger, Chapter 2, Open Door Spicy Romantasy, I Need Sex. Gabreilla was naked in the forest when she smelled a man nearby. She used all her sex appeal and her beautiful siren singing voice to draw him in...as a siren-fairy-human, she had special abilities. But what she needed most was his cock.Book Blurb: Gabriella can smell men. Which is a good thing since she desperately needs men. It’s not every fairy who also has siren in her, which allows her to use her irresistible singing voice to draw them nearer. Since she can’t leave her invisible cage, this is a very useful talent, especially when it comes to drawing men to her area of the forest. Most men will do, however, they only stay for little while.When she senses Leif hiking down the path, she experiences the usual growth in her size, which is imperative because if he can’t see her, none of the good stuff will happen. He's different than the other men were, he might just be the solution she seeks. But then there’s also the other paralyzing problem of trying to attain her freedom. All she desires is a happier, less lonely life once again, human sized.Tropes:*Open Door, HEA Spicy Romantasy.*Lust First.*Forced proximity.*Shrinking woman, growing woman.*She needs a hero.*He's a cinnamon roll.*The miracle they seek, they don't know all the rules.Wingless Hunger is a novella, book 1 of 4 in the Arching Hunger series.Subscription Process:Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here.  After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps .If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance.Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

28/03/2025 • 18:20

Send us a textEp 587: The Healing Power of Smut Part 3: The Positive Effects of Reading Smut on Women's Sexuality, Empowerment, Pleasure, Confidence, Body Positivity and Healing with reader and writer Emmie Florence. Topics Discussed: Erotica Authors, Creative Nonfiction, Female Empowerment, Kink Communities, Smut Journey, Women’s Sexuality, Body Positivity, Fantasy Exploration, Community Building, Sexual Liberation, Reading Smut, Diverse Erotica, Empowering Narratives, Female Pleasure, Smut Recommendations, Non-Judgmental Spaces, Emotional HealingGuest Bio:M. Florence is a Midwestern, GenX multi-genre writer. She works, teaches, and (sometimes) writes. Her work has been published in Prairie Home Magazine and Bending Genres. She holds a PhD in smut reading and is ready to talk all things monster and dark romance. You can find her chatting up smut writers at @mflorence.bsky.social.Kink 22: https://www.ryn-rehnard.com/guest-writers/2159247_kink-22-by-m-florence-nswfErotic short: https://prairiehomemag.com/lower/Episode Summary:In this exciting episode of Oh F*ck Yeah, Ruan Willow, it's a deep dive into the transformative world of erotica with the talented writer Emmie Florence. Together, they explore the healing power of smut, discussing how reading and writing erotic literature can empower women and foster self-acceptance. Emmie shares her personal journey and reads her provocative piece, "Kink 22," which captures the complexities of desire and submission.The discussion challenges societal norms surrounding female sexuality, celebrates the diversity of erotic literature, and highlight the importance of community within the smut world. From recommendations of must-read smutty erotica authors to the liberating experience of embracing one's desires, this episode is a heartfelt conversation about finding joy and empowerment through the written word. And above all, pleasure.Episode Timeline:00:00 - New series, The Healing Power of Smut00:57 - Emmie Florence talks about the healing power of smut07:18 - The diversity within smut or erotica or dark romance is incredible08:32 - Being a woman isn't just one thing09:57 - The level of acceptance in the smut community is much greater than traditional book groups13:41 - Reading erotica has given me a better relationship with my body18:49 - The last piece of this is, I think, the trickiest part21:36 - One thing I really love to focus on in my writing is female pleasure25:30 - The more smut you can read, the betterNarration of Emma's Policy mentioned in the podcast episode: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/emmaspolicyaudiobookSeason's Teasings: Snowbound Seductions Anthology a collection of erotic fiction (affiliate links): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/seasonsteasingssnowboundseductionsSupport the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

28/03/2025 • 34:50

Send us a textEpisode 586: Claiming Sierra, Age Gap Baby Making Breeding Sex by December Drake. He's been obsessed with his son's ex, and now that they've broken up, he intends to make the sexy young woman his, especially since she's hungry to be bred.Story Tropes: MF Sex, Claiming, Male Domination, Baby Making Breeding KinkAbout the Author:December writes stories about aggressive men claiming, breeding, and using women for their pleasure. Her sweetest stories are on Amazon and other major retailers, while the darkest can be found on Smashwords, Ream, and Eden Books.Connect more with the author December Drake: https://www.decemberdrake.com/Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). The anthology is only available for a limited time so act now!Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!Get Podcast Host Ruan's new spicy open door Romantasy Novella: Overcoming Heartache https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/overcomingheartacheRuan's smut, erotica, erotic romance fiction books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/Support the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

25/03/2025 • 22:22

Send us a textSeason 5, Episode 585: The Healing Power of Smut, Part 2: Writing and Self-Acceptance with Author Jacques Gerard. In this episode of Oh F*ck Yeah, I welcome back for the fourth time, the charismatic Jacques Gerard for a deep dive into the healing power of writing smut, erotica, and erotic romance. As we explore personal journeys of self-acceptance, the conversation flows from the importance of honesty in writing to the liberating experience of embracing one's unique desires. Jacques shares his experiences with foot fetishism and how writing has been a pivotal part of his healing process. We discuss the societal pressures that often stifle individuality and the joy of discovering a community that celebrates diverse preferences. Tune in for an enlightening discussion that encourages listeners to love themselves and embrace their true identities through creativity and expression.Topics discussed:Healing Power Of Writing, Healing Through Reading, Self-Acceptance, Creativity As Healing, Midlife Empowerment, Personal Growth, Writing Journey, Spiritual Awakening, Honesty In Writing, Overcoming Societal Norms, Individuality In Literature, Emotional Well-Being, Self-Discovery, Foot Fetish Acceptance, Artistic Expression, Mental Health, Writing And Self-Love, Breaking Free From Expectations, Creative Process, Self-Validation Through Writing, writing about foot fetishes, indie author, self-publishing, publishing platforms, self-discovery in sexuality, mental health, sexual health, wellbeingSummary Outline:1. Introduction and Podcast Platforms2. The Healing Power of Writing3. Embracing Individuality4. Personal Stories of Acceptance5. The Role of Creativity in Healing6. Conclusion and Future PlansShownotes created with the assistance of Headliner ai.Jacques Gerard's writing:As Jacques Gerard on Substack, Medium, Ream, Amazon "The Barefoot Burglar" (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/4hurCIj Listen to the full series:Listen to The Healing Power of Smut, Part 1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16787440 Part 3: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16876985Part 4: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16918387Part 5: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16963478Part 6: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/17002841Support the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

21/03/2025 • 34:06

Subscriber-only episodeSend us a textEp 584: Wingless Hunger, Chapter 1, Open Door Spicy Romantasy, Naked in the Forest. Gabreilla was naked in the forest when she smelled a man nearby. She used all her sex appeal and her beautiful siren singing voice to draw him in...as a siren-fairy-human, she had special abilities. But what she needed most was his cock.Book Blurb: Gabriella can smell men. Which is a good thing since she desperately needs men. It’s not every fairy who also has siren in her, which allows her to use her irresistible singing voice to draw them nearer. Since she can’t leave her invisible cage, this is a very useful talent, especially when it comes to drawing men to her area of the forest. Most men will do, however, they only stay for little while.When she senses Leif hiking down the path, she experiences the usual growth in her size, which is imperative because if he can’t see her, none of the good stuff will happen. He's different than the other men were, he might just be the solution she seeks. But then there’s also the other paralyzing problem of trying to attain her freedom. All she desires is a happier, less lonely life once again, human sized.Tropes:*Open Door, HEA Spicy Romantasy.*Lust First.*Forced proximity.*Shrinking woman, growing woman.*She needs a hero.*He's a cinnamon roll.*The miracle they seek, they don't know all the rules.Wingless Hunger is a novella, book 1 of 4 in the Arching Hunger series.Subscription Process:Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here.  After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps .If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance.Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

21/03/2025 • 22:37

Send us a textEp 583: Sally's Fantasy: An Orally Pleasuring Story by Matt Lake, An erotic short story with the tropes MF, FF, MFF, Threesome, narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. The FF fun is all the pleasure in this excerpt! Sally sees all the red!About the Author Alex Lake: Matt Lake writes stories that explore the freeuse kink, usually with a normal person being thrown into an unusual situation. About the Charity Anthology:the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief).Enjoy this erotica excerpt, storytelling via erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!Support the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

18/03/2025 • 24:29

Subscriber-only episodeSend us a textMallory and Derek Attend Swinger Parties, Part 15, The Mountain Cabin and dark fantasy, IN THE SERIES Mallory and Derek Attend Swinger Sex Parties.An Erotica Romance fiction Story of a Bisexual Couple who join an alternative lifestyle Sex Club where the leaders of the club throw sex parties at their house for their adventurous swinging members. Come on the journey as Mallory and Derek figure out how to have sexy fun with others while still being a devoted couple. This story contains polyamory, the swinging lifestyle, partner sharing, and kinky sex.Join the subscription level for $3 for access to all of these episodes:Want part 1? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15774437Miss part 2: Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15770723Desire part 3? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15823847Want part 4? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15865234Crave part 5? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15905996Need part 6? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15951136Seeking Part 7? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16007180Find Part 8: Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16071482Get Part 9: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16186972Enjoy Part 10: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16209922Thirsting for Part 11: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16303764Savor Part 12: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16346569 Delish Part 13: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16411152Yummy part 14: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16619221Have fun listening to this erotic audio! Exploring erotica fiction and erotic romance are fabulous ways to exercise your self care time, to explore your sexuality and allow your brain to experience things you might not be able to do IRL. Enjoy the erotic fiction story and let the erotic romance of a couple expanding their sexuality in a sex positive way together satiate your own curiosities and fantasies. Escape, get your entertainment treat, and have a listen!Stay tuned for part 16 coming soon! Enjoy the kinky sex and spicy romance fiction!Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

14/03/2025 • 33:47

Send us a textEp 581: The Healing Power of Smut, Part 1: Mental Health and Relief from Depression with Tanya Cienfuegos. Part 2: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16836959Topics discussed include: Healing Power Of Smut, Erotica Author, Sexual Wellness, Mental Health, Benefits Of Reading Smut, Writing Erotic Fiction, Censorship In Literature, Cultural Attitudes Towards Sex, Erotica And Horror, Subversive Literature, Self-Publishing, Female Pleasure In Erotica, Exploring Desires, Therapeutic Benefits Of Writing, Indie Authors, Erotic Fiction For Mental Health, Stigma Around Smut, Erotic Storytelling, Relationship Dynamics In Erotica, Erotica GenresSummary:  The Healing Power of Smut, Exploring Erotica's BenefitsIn this episode, we explore the fascinating topic of the healing power of smut with Tanya Cienfuegos, a self-published erotica author. Join us as we delve into how erotic fiction can serve as a tool for mental well-being, to enhance sexual wellness, provide a distraction and/or relief from depression, and provide a safe space for exploring desires. From discussing the stigmas around smut to the therapeutic benefits of reading and writing erotic content, we chat about it all!Guest Bio:Author Tanya Cienfuegos self-publishes erotica. She writes m/f contemporary and historical short stories.  She was born and raised in Southern California. When she's not writing, she's either scrolling through tumblr or playing solitaire.https://www.tumblr.com/tanya-cienfuegoshttps://www.bookbub.com/profile/tanya-cienfuegosLinks for buying books. https://books2read.com/ap/nmjW2z/Tanya-Cienfuegoshttps://www.amazon.com/stores/Tanya-Cienfuegos/author/B0BNGWKVHBChapters:(01:30) Tanya Cienfuegos writes erotic short stories(07:11) Reading can distract you, but it also makes you feel alive(12:29) I think our culture is very shaming of it. There seems to be this idea specifically with sex...(18:37) There is a strong connection between erotica and horror(24:00) Not having a good enough distinction between, like Fiction and reality(28:44) The only thing I get up in arms about is if something's abusive(29:41) Do you ever write about kinky stuff or what kind of stuff(35:03) It's a way to explore these things in a safe way(35:42) So what, what brought you to want to include sex in your writing(40:56) I do prefer happy endings over sad endings(44:28) People have been trying to censor stuff since the beginning of the written word(47:39) You've self published eight books altogether. What else would you like to tell us about your writing(51:36) There's been a lot of criticism about Lucy's promiscuity in Dracula(58:03) Payment processors don't want to do anything to do with eroticaNotes made with the assistance of Headliner aiSupport the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

14/03/2025 • 71:01

Send us a textEpisode 580: Good Boy Femdom Humiliation Erotica by Sean Geist. She's coming home from work. and she needs to work him over, work off that lusty energy, and she wants what she wants and that's a good oral lashing. What he gets, he doesn't expect, but the spice doesn't stop there, he gets what he's been waiting for! About the Author:An erotic author who specializes in Cuckold / Hotwife stories, but dabbles in other kinds of smut.Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief).Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!Support the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

12/03/2025 • 15:07

Send us a textEp 579: Ria Bentley's Journey in the Adult Entertainment World: Exploring Identity, Gender, Kinks, and Sex Work. In this episode, Ruan Willow sits down with the talented Ria Bentley, a multi-award nominated trans performer. They discuss Ria's unique journey into the adult industry, Ria's experiences with OnlyFans, and the importance of safety and testing in such work. Ria shares personal insights, career trajectory, and the challenges of navigating relationships while being a performer. Tune in for a candid conversation about identity, creativity, and the evolving landscape of adult entertainment!Chapters:(01:38) How did you get into your current work? What was your trigger?(09:02) I obviously was bottoming for these guys. Um and so I was like I need to start finding some girls to work with(09:40) Are you attracted to both males and females or ...(11:14) When you're getting ready for a shoot, do you use music?(16:08) Admitting this, I still watch porn. Do they actually watch...(23:20) Do you have a lot of people pirating your stuff?(27:34) Do you think AI is going to affect the adult industry?(31:11) Do you think books are going to become obsolete, like, physical books(36:45) I moved from Texas to Las Vegas six months ago to transition(39:19) Do you share with your family what you're doing, or is it kind of secret(44:10) Speaking of safety, do you ever worry about HIV in sex work(51:16) Do you like to do kinky videos or are you more staying away from kinky(55:03) Ria was nominated for multiple awards this year(01:00:05) How do you choose what you're gonna wear when you shoot a scene(01:03:36) This has been so interesting. Is there anything we haven't talked about that you wanted to mention🗣️ Quotes from Ria Bentley"I never dreamt that I'd be doing this just a few years ago.""The type of content I filmed, I never set out to film interracial stuff.""I have to really think about it and watch or know the co performers sort of what they’re like on their scenes.""I still watch porn for both pleasure and to keep up with trends in the industry.""I do what I can and don't work with people that don't have the proper testing within this 14 days."Created with assistance from headliner aihttp://riabentley.com/https://x.com/TheRiaBentleyRuan's book Servicing the Work Men, Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures  Available in ebook, paperback https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures Discreet Cover paperback https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenthebeginningAudiobook https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventuresaudiobookSupport the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

07/03/2025 • 67:57

Subscriber-only episodeSend us a textEpisode 578: In Scarlet's House, Chapter 7, Scarlet, the final chapter, A Dark Fantasy Erotica, A Dark Fantasy Fiction Series. Written by Ruan Willow, Narrated by Ruan Willow and David MyersStory Blurb:Scarlet had become a powerful witch. She also had beauty and brains, but what she was missing was a grand house and some wealth to her name, so she sought George. He blubbered his way through their marriage until he was as annoying as a bug, or an overripe houseguest. That didn’t take long. She had plans for him though, big plans.  When Scarlet invited Arianna, her secret love, over to her new husband George's mansion, the girl's night she had promised turned out to be quite decadent indeed. It was complete with a much-needed reconnection for the women, a barely clothed muscle clad chef to ogle, and enough servants, with the promise of extra benefits, to satiate even Cleopatra.  But it turns out having everything doesn't sit well with a dominant witch, until she's truly satisfied with everyone where she wants them.  Tropes: Femdom dark fantasy & sci fi, dark romance, forced proximity, shrinking and growing woman, magic, HEA, humiliation, degradation, explicit scenes and language, LGTBQ, elements of horror.Stay tuned for more of Mallory and Derek's story, coming soon!Subscription Process:Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here.  After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps .If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance.Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

05/03/2025 • 15:32

Send us a textEp 577: Home Alone Neighbor BJ, Girlfriend Share by Cyra Wilde. When he's away, he wants her to play...but he's still gonna watch and enjoy! Erotica Excerpt written by Cyra Wilde and Narrated by podcast host and voiceover narrator Ruan Willow.About the Author: Cyra Wilde enjoys manipulating words to create heart-pumping, blush-inducing stories that are achingly good and deeply satisfying. She likes experimenting with multiple tropes and crafting erotic fiction with heart. https://linktr.ee/cyrawildeGet the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief).Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!Check out the winners of the Golden Pigtails Smut Awards! https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024/Audiobook mentioned in the episode: Filthy Fiction by Casey Donatello, narrated by Ruan Willow (affiliate link, podcast may earn a commission on sales, thanks for the support) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/dirtydaydreamsFree trial and book: https://www.audible.com/pd/B0D6H1345N/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-401780&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_401780_pd_usSupport the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

05/03/2025 • 19:43

Send us a textEp 576: A Deep Dive into Female Empowerment and Sexual Liberation with Suzannah Weiss. Join host Ruan Willow as she welcomes back the brilliantly eloquent Suzannah Weiss, author of the groundbreaking book "Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject."  Get the book (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/41G86TxIn this episode, Suzannah shares her transformative journey from objecthood to embracing her identity as a sexual subject, exploring the complexities of female desire, societal expectations, and the importance of sexual autonomy. Listen as she reads a powerful excerpt from her book, reflecting on her experiences with body image, eating disorders, and the societal pressures that shape women's perceptions of their bodies. Ruan and Susanna engage in a candid conversation about the normalization of women's pain, the orgasm gap, and the need for women to reclaim their sexuality for themselves. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand the intersection of feminism, sexuality, and personal empowerment. 00:00 - Suzannah Weiss is the author of Subjectified Becoming a Sexual Subject06:23 - My eating disorder was fueled by the perception that my body existed for others13:21 - As I began college that fall, I took part in a few hookups17:48 - What did that look like for you? Like, having sex to please other people22:50 - When you were writing this book, was it very emotional to go through28:30 - I think we need to do things for ourselves. I think we should explore our sexuality first32:16 - The book is called Eve's Blessing, Uncovering the Lost Pleasure behind Female Pain34:14 - I think some women don't realize they're having orgasms39:26 - Other thing I want to ask you is if you ever thought about this. I think I have41:12 - The second chapter is called the Size of My Body48:00 - Are you finding men are willing to read your book about consent50:09 - Susanna Weiss is working on a third book about sex and GodOther topics discussed:Mental health, sexual health, Feminism, Body Positivity, Sex Education, Sexuality and Religion, personal growth.Show notes created with assistance by headliner dot appConnect with Suzannah Weiss: www.suzannahweiss.comOrder my bookFollow me on TwitterFollow me on InstagramAdd me on LinkedInPodcast Host Ruan Willow's new Spicy Open Door Romantasy Book, Rejecting Queendom https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/rejectingqueendomRequest an ARC https://booksirens.com/book/N6YDP28/RQJ6RZDSupport the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

28/02/2025 • 57:11

Subscriber-only episodeSend us a textEp 575: In Scarlet's House, Chapter 6, ARIANNA, Dark Fantasy Erotica, A Dark Fantasy Fiction Series. Written by Ruan Willow, Narrated by Ruan Willow and David MyersStory Blurb:Scarlet had become a powerful witch. She also had beauty and brains, but what she was missing was a grand house and some wealth to her name, so she sought George. He blubbered his way through their marriage until he was as annoying as a bug, or an overripe houseguest. That didn’t take long. She had plans for him though, big plans.  When Scarlet invited Arianna, her secret love, over to her new husband George's mansion, the girl's night she had promised turned out to be quite decadent indeed. It was complete with a much-needed reconnection for the women, a barely clothed muscle clad chef to ogle, and enough servants, with the promise of extra benefits, to satiate even Cleopatra.  But it turns out having everything doesn't sit well with a dominant witch, until she's truly satisfied with everyone where she wants them.  Tropes: Femdom dark fantasy & sci fi, dark romance, forced proximity, shrinking and growing woman, magic, HEA, humiliation, degradation, explicit scenes and language, LGTBQ, elements of horror.Stay tuned for more of Mallory and Derek's story, and the next installment of "In Scarlet's House" as well!Subscription Process:Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here.  After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps .If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance.Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

26/02/2025 • 07:13

Send us a textEp 574: Back Door, Taken at the Beach, A MFMMM Why Choose Erotica Excerpt by Darcy Winters, narrated by podcast host and audiobook narrator Ruan Willow. Triggers: this excerpt contains an anal sex scene, explicit sex and language. About the Author Darcy Winters: Darcy Winters writes dark, reverse harem romance. She also writes small town romance as Eliza Black.https://books.darcywinters.com/Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief).Enjoy storytelling about spicy relationships, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!Golden Pigtails FINALS VOTING INFO and VOTE HERE:  https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024-finals/The "It's Always Better Together" Award for Best Erotic Anthology1. Season's Teasings Season's Teasings: Snowbound Seductions Anthology2. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthologyFeatured Indie Bookstore: Booked and Hooked https://bookedandhooked.com/product-category/romance/Ruan's Audiobook on Sale for $1.77 Never Say, Never SwingApple ($1.99 on Apple) https://books.apple.com/audiobook/id1788656407Nook Barnes and Noble Never Say, Never Swing: Friends to Lovers, Couples style. A First Time Swingers Story. by Ruan Willow, Motorboatin' Matt, Eric Weinstein | 2940194461844 | Audiobook (Digital) | Barnes & Noble®Chirp Never Say, Never Swing by Ruan Willow - Audiobook (No Subscription)Spotify Never Say, Never Swing: Friends to Lovers, Couples style. A First Time Swingers Story. | Audiobook on SpotifyIndie Audiobook Deals See all the audiobook deals, some free!Support the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

25/02/2025 • 25:27

Send us a textEpisode 573: A deep dive into the alluring world of BDSM relationships, impact play, and adult content creation with the enchanting Dani Synclair. Standing tall at 5'9", this ebony pro switch and OnlyFans siren shares her journey from personal exploration to professional success in the realm of kink. Discover how a simple foot fetish led Dani to embrace her desires and transform them into a fulfilling career.Connect with Dani: https://linktr.ee/dani.synclairIn this episode, Dani opens up about her experiences in the dungeon, the connections she forms with clients, and the fascinating stories behind their fetishes. From the psychological aspects of kink to the importance of communication and consent, Dani reveals the intricate dynamics that make up her world.Learn about the various kinks she enjoys, her creative process for content creation, and how she navigates the complexities of being a public figure in the adult industry. With a focus on self-care, mental well-being, mental health, and sexual health, Dani emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own boundaries and desires.Whether you're curious about BDSM, an aspiring content creator, or simply interested in the stories that shape our intimate lives, this episode is packed with insights and inspiration. Tune in for an unforgettable conversation that celebrates the beauty of self-expression and connection.Quotes from Dani from the interview:"The most enjoyable part is meeting people, whether it's clients or other creators in the industry.""It's like a whole mental thing where it's not just the feeling of getting spanked.""Once your face is out there, you can't get rid of it. It is there forever."Timeline:00:00 - Ruan Willow introduces Dani Synclair, a professional BDSM switch02:55 - Do you find most people have like, a story that led to the fetish?06:32 - Talk a little bit about the dungeon that you go to10:04 - Now what kind of kinks do you engage in there15:56 - If someone asked you what you like about spanking, what would you say21:45 - How did you become involved in Impact play at such a young age27:48 - I'm very claustrophobic, so that sounds very terrifying to me31:00 - Do you do filming too? Yes. So I do the whole content creation36:00 - Now is this when you first started doing this kind of thing37:58 - Do you prefer one over the other? Doing the videos versus the live events41:42 - Do you get a lot of piracy or do you just have no idea44:07 - Do you have any regrets of what you've done so far46:48 - Do you do a lot of editing yourself? Yeah, I do48:42 - The future50:07 - When you're traveling it's literally just for work52:56 - How do you get your brain ready for a scene before you do itShow notes headliner dot appRuan's new open door Romantasy novella, Rejecting Queendom, Book 3 in the Arching Hunger Series is releasing soon! Reserve your copy here: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/rejectingqueendomSupport the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

21/02/2025 • 61:30

Subscriber-only episodeSend us a textEp 572: In Scarlet's House, Chapter 5, SCARLET, Dark Fantasy Erotica, A Dark Fantasy Fiction Series. Written by Ruan Willow, Narrated by Ruan Willow and David MyersStory Blurb:Scarlet had become a powerful witch. She also had beauty and brains, but what she was missing was a grand house and some wealth to her name, so she sought George. He blubbered his way through their marriage until he was as annoying as a bug, or an overripe houseguest. That didn’t take long. She had plans for him though, big plans.  When Scarlet invited Arianna, her secret love, over to her new husband George's mansion, the girl's night she had promised turned out to be quite decadent indeed. It was complete with a much-needed reconnection for the women, a barely clothed muscle clad chef to ogle, and enough servants, with the promise of extra benefits, to satiate even Cleopatra.  But it turns out having everything doesn't sit well with a dominant witch, until she's truly satisfied with everyone where she wants them.  Tropes: Femdom dark fantasy & sci fi, dark romance, forced proximity, shrinking and growing woman, magic, HEA, humiliation, degradation, explicit scenes and language, LGTBQ, elements of horror.Stay tuned for more of Mallory and Derek's story, and the next installment of "In Scarlet's House" as well!Subscription Process:Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here.  After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps .If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance.Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

20/02/2025 • 16:22