My vulva and I

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Intro from Lydia
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1. Here I am in all my gloriousness!
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2. This is for my daughter, her daughter, and everyone who comes next.
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3. I've come to realise that it is absolutely PERFECT the way it is!
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4. Tequila shots, boys, and self-love.
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5. I had a look down there, and realised it was pretty!
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6. I’m trying to learn ways to feel kind towards my vulva.
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7. I thought that men would find any other colour unattractive.
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8. I had sex with the light off to calm my insecurities
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9. It’s a part of me that doesn’t often get ‘admired’
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10. I was in control of my sexuality and the ways I expressed it!
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11. If I could give that 16-year-old me any advice it would be...
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12. I hope one day I’ll be able to fully embrace my body..
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13. We’re friends now and we are learning to love one another.
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14. For the last five years I have medically transitioned to male.
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15. I didn't have a relationship with it at all for many years..
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16. I started noticing my vulva was really puffy.
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17. It takes a lot to look into the mirror.
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18. I discovered masturbation very early on, and was pretty blown away when I did.
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19. I can no longer plead ignorance to the love that my body, in its entirety, deserves.
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20. My genitalia was always a source of shame to me.
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21. I spent many years deeply despising my body..
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22. You can love your vulva for exactly what it is!
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23. It was more of a practical appreciation.
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24. …she even drew me a diagram once!
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25. I struggled with relating any sense of gender to this one part of my body.
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26. I realised the power I had access to, and the connection I had with an inner source.
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27. I was finally diagnosed with Endometriosis.
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28. For 4 years, having a vulva was dangerous.
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29. “In a couple of days I will have one of those of my very own.”
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30. I started shaving my pubic hair in year 9!
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31. I was just never very bothered about aesthetics.
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32. I was convinced masturbation was a sin.
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33. A temple, a powerhouse, something to cherish.
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34. I never hated it, I just wanted nothing to do with it.
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35. I knew she worked but couldn’t figure out the controls.
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36. My vagina represents feminine power, pleasure, pain and life.
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37. My vulva is not the ‘perfect vagina’ that we see in society.
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38. Adenomyosis had arrived!
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39. You are beautiful, powerful and a wonderful gift of nature.
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