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This week, Florence & Reed are diving vulva-first into squirting science with JOYclub’s brand-new step-by-step squirting course - and yes, they watched it live so you don’t have to… except you’ll definitely want to after this 😂💦 Have a sneak peak here. From “is it pee?” to “why does it feel like I’m about to pee?” to “HOW THE ACTUAL F**K DID SHE SQUIRT LIKE THAT?!”, we’re breaking down the myths, the muscles, the mess, and the magic. We learnt why squirting ≠ ejaculation, why relaxing is half the battle, and why your G-spot is actually a G-ZONE (yes, fckers, is an expansive pleasure!). Plus, we talk positions, toys, confidence, and how to unlock your own waterfall - solo or with a partner. Head to JOYclub’s sex-ed pages for videos on sensual pegging, masturbation, rimming, real penis sizes and SO much more: joy.club/ccs Find our Come Curious profile at joy.club/ccjoy, join the forums, get kinky with us, and explore the community. In the UK? Sign up at joy.club/cc for a FREE premium membership (usually £9.99/month). No code needed - just verify your account. Follow JOYclub on IG @uk_joyclub and catch our cheeky YouTube minisode pulling the best bits from this episode 💦✨ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

04/12/2025 • 55:12

This week Florence sits down with pleasure-hypnosis and orgasmic-birth practitioner Lucia Nicolini for a mind-melting journey into how hypnosis can transform pregnancy, pleasure, and even the way you give birth. From reconnecting to your body after trauma (Florence shares her own experience) to the wild truth about orgasmic birth, nipple-stimulation hacks, sexy self-hypnosis, and why your mind is the biggest birthing muscle you have - this episode is equal parts soothing, spicy, and seriously paradigm-shifting. PLUS: Don’t miss our new film Tips & Tricks for Anal Dips over on Erika Lust - Use code SPICY45 for 45% off! Follow Lucia on her website www.lucianicolini.com And via IG @choose_holistic To watch the full video AD FREE, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

27/11/2025 • 55:34

This week Florence and Reed ride the ADHD mania wave straight into sex trends, porn obsessions, squirting reviews, and the hottest holiday horniness you didn’t know you needed. From orgasm-during-pregnancy revelations to airport sex stats that blew everyone’s minds, it’s chaotic, juicy, and very, very curious. And THEN - after the watershed - we flip the switch. The second half is XXXtra filthy and only for our Patreon babes. Think explicit stories, fresh-out-the-bedroom updates, and Reed’s newest naked adventures… unlocked only on Patreon. PLUS our brand new Erica Lust film ‘Tips & Tricks for Anal Dips’ drops TODAY! Use code SPICY45 for 45% off (yes, really) via watch.erikalust.com Be sure to check out Reed' upcoming workshops via her Eventbrite page here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

20/11/2025 • 35:41

She broke the internet with her latest article 'Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrasing Now?' and now she's joining Reed to talk about the dilemmas of modern dating. This week we've got writer Chanté Joseph on the show to dive into why posting your partner feels cringe, the heterosexual repair industry, and how to date without compromise. From breadcrumbing to boundary-setting, Chanté shares her unfiltered take on why men need to do better and how women can stop accepting less than they deserve. Rate & review if you've ever hidden a situationship from your Instagram grid and don't forget to watch the full episode and support us on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious Reed @reedamberx Guest: @chantayyjayy & Strangers in the City @strangersinthecityevents Sponsored by Erika Lust ❤️ Use our special code for 45% discount: SPICY45 Head to watch.erikalust.com Join Reed on 17th Dec for her next online event 'Addict for 10 Years: Lets Talk Drugs, Porn, Booze & Love' - tickets available here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

13/11/2025 • 57:40

This week, Florence and Reed are joined by certified sex educator and founder of Admin by Amari, the brilliant Amari Leigh, to bust some of the biggest sex myths and unlock the secrets to truly maximising your moans. The trio gets candid about kink safety, sex toys, and the forty (yes, forty!) types of orgasms you can have. Plus, we explore the stigma around bi men, discover kinky Swifties (yep, Taylor Swift sex parties are real), and learn why average can be amazing. Rate & review if you’ve ever learned something new about your sexy life from us and don’t forget to watch the full episode and support us on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecuriousFlorence @florencebarkReed @reedamberxGuest: @sxcoachingbyamari & @adminbyamari Links to Amari's amazing guides: 40 Orgasm guides Lube guide Sponsored by Erika Lust ❤️ Use our special code for 45% discount: SPICY45 Head to watch.erikalust.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

06/11/2025 • 66:23

This week Florence sits down with Harley Dee - friend and inspiration - to talk about life, loss, and learning to love your body after breast cancer. Harley opens up about treatment, scars, and the emotional rollercoaster of facing chemical menopause in her 30s. Together, they explore everything from hair loss to egg-freezing, and rediscovering pleasure when your body doesn’t feel like it used to. It’s a raw, truthful and deeply important conversation about survival, self-love, and what cancer really teaches you about being alive. Get to know Harley on IG @theharleylama Rate & Review if this pod’s ever made you think, feel or be less alone - and support the show for extra juicy chats on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious - listen and watch AD-FREE! Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious • @florencebark • @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

30/10/2025 • 59:31

This week Florence and Reed get cheeky (literally) as they spill all the behind-the-scenes secrets from directing their first anal porn film. From the beauty of real chemistry to the chaos of lube, fluff, and butthole talk - it’s a deep dive into everything they learnt about anal on and off camera. Expect laughs, lube, and a lot of love for the bum. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you think then smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: ⁠patreon.com/comecurious⁠ Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

23/10/2025 • 50:31

This week, we go beyond the mic with Ceros - an online tornado of truth known for his YT channel Ceros TV sharing stories about his bisexuality, schizophrenia and femboy loving G-Pa. From marrying a 90-year-old at 18, to sleeping with her daughter... and granddaughter, we go beneath the viral chaos to learn more Ceros's experiences of masculinity, pain and survival. No filters. No performance. Just raw humanity. Get to know Ceros on YT @cerostv Follow him on IG @cerostv Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you think then smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

16/10/2025 • 56:00

Big news, Curious F**kers - our gorgeous Florence is expecting a baby! 💕 With life changing in every sense, Florence and Reed are getting real about transformation, identity, and what it means to let go - including Florence (potentially) saying goodbye to OnlyFans. It’s honest, thoughtful, and full of heart - a conversation about growth, boundaries, and change in all its messy, beautiful forms. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

09/10/2025 • 76:49

This week Florence sits down with Dr. Natalie Crawford, a leading fertility expert and author of The Fertility Formula, to unpack how everyday choices impact our hormones, cycles, and chances of conceiving. From diet and toxins to sleep, exercise, and stress, Natalie reveals the five key pillars for supporting reproductive health - and why fertility isn’t just about the moment you start trying for a baby, but the years leading up to it. Florence shares her own journey through miscarriage and navigating the confusing world of TTC, while Natalie offers compassionate, science-backed insights that every curious f**ker needs to hear - whether you’re thinking about kids one day or already deep in the journey. Rate & Review Smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow our guest Natalie Crawford @nataliecrawfordmd Get to know her book - The Fertility Formula And follow her podcast - As a Woman Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

02/10/2025 • 53:56

Let’s get vanilla, baby! This week Florence and Reed dive into the joy of “plain” old sex - because vanilla is anything but boring. From the underrated magic of missionary to the giggles, intimacy, and melt-your-soul moments that don’t need whips or chains, we’re giving simple pleasure the spotlight it deserves. Reed uncovers what her vanilla side looks like, Florence shares some unforgettable vanilla romps (think otherworldly without the kink), and of course, we’ve got your stories celebrating the sweet, sexy basics. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you giggle mid-wank or rethink your O-face in the mirror — smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

25/09/2025 • 49:44

This week, Reed sits down with the brilliant Michelle Elman — life coach, author, and unapologetic boundary queen. From dating without shame to grieving the loss of friendships, Michelle is here to challenge the stories we’ve been sold about love, loyalty, and letting go. We dive into her books The Selfish Romantic and Bad Friend, exploring why demanding more in dating is actually powerful, and why friendship breakups cut just as deep (if not deeper) than romantic ones. Michelle unpacks how ghosting erodes trust, why women are trained to soften their needs, and what it really takes to communicate with honesty (even when it hurts). Expect raw stories (including TV dates and friendship “mass exoduses”), laughter through the pain, and practical advice for anyone wondering: how do you heal when the person who knew you best walks away? Curious f**kers, whether you’re redefining dating, nursing a friendship heartbreak, or just craving real talk on boundaries and self-worth, this episode is going to crack you open. Follow Get to know Michelle onine @michelleelman and get to know about her books here Follow us @comecurious Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced by @bxsassy2 Rate & Review If you’ve ever felt seen, soothed, or shaken by our convos — drop us a five star, babe. Want more? Catch the full episode, behind-the-scenes extras, and support the pod on Patreon: 👉 https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

18/09/2025 • 72:04

We’ve all seen them - the porn-star-perfect O-face, the silent shudder, the dramatic gasp. But babe… is your cum face the real deal, or a total performance? This week, Florence and Reed and Florence are lifting the sheets on orgasm expressions: the ones we make, the ones we fake, and what they really say about our sex lives. We’re swapping our own cringe and glorious cum face confessions, asking why some of us go full Hollywood while others barely twitch, and digging into how porn, partners, and pressure can shape the way we “perform” pleasure. Plus: we look at why authenticity feels so vulnerable in bed and tips for unlearning performative habits so you can cum how you actually want to. Whether you’re a silent cummer, a moaner, a mascara-running-thriller-queen, or still faking it ‘til you make it - this one’s for you, curious f**kers. ERIKA LUST DISCOUNT CODE: Erika Lust creates original, cinematic adult films celebrating sexuality and championing a sex-positive world. You can explore their wide range of categories and genres, including extra goodies for kink enthusiasts. Get 45% off at ⁠erikalust.com⁠ with code COME45 Don’t miss the chance to own your pleasure - visit ⁠Erikalust.com⁠ Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you giggle mid-wank or rethink your O-face in the mirror — smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11/09/2025 • 54:44

This week, Florence is joined by the ultimate love duo — Asa and David, relationship coaches, partners, and parents, who are keeping it raw, real, and ultra practical when it comes to long-term love. From mismatched libidos to conflict spirals, morning routines to raising a baby, they’re spilling the kind of advice that makes you go, “Oof… why didn’t anyone tell me this sooner?” We dive into how to fight fair (without the silent treatment or full-blown meltdowns), why honesty only works if you can handle hearing the uncomfortable stuff, and how to bring back intimacy when Netflix and exhaustion have taken over your evenings. Asa and David share their own story too — from a suitcase that turned into six months of living together, to a move abroad, to parenthood — and how they built a foundation that can hold both deep healing and wild love. Expect laughter, vulnerability, and so many “aha” moments as we ask: what does it really take to keep desire, connection, and teamwork alive once the honeymoon fades? Curious f**kers, if you’ve ever thought “are we normal?” when it comes to fights, mismatched sex drives, or parenting stress — this episode is your permission slip to breathe, laugh, and know you’re not alone. ASA's Links: IG @coachwithasa The Boundary Blueprint - Asa Baav (free download): www.asabaav.com/the-boundary-blueprint/ Unapologetic 2025 - Asa Baav: www.asabaav.com/unapologetic-2025/ DAVID'S Links:  YT ⁨@TheAuthenticMan⁩  IG @theauthenticman_ Breaking The Chains of Avoidance: www.theauthenticman.net/btca-sep-2025 FREE GIFT Why You Keep Pulling Away (Even When You Don’t Want To): ⁠www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page⁠ To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced by @_thesassyshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

04/09/2025 • 80:18

This week, Florence and Reed are joined by the powerhouse that is Sangeeta Pillai — creator of the award-winning Masala Podcast, author of her new book Bad Daughter and unapologetic queen of smashing South Asian taboos. From sex and shame to pleasure and power, we’re diving into the cultural scripts that shape us — and how to rip them up (with love, sass, and maybe a vibrator or two). Sangeeta shares her journey growing up in a world of silence around sex, discovering her own voice, and now amplifying thousands of others through fearless conversations. We’re talking generational trauma, reclaiming pleasure, and why breaking taboos isn’t just radical — it’s healing. Expect laughter, honesty, and more than a few “oh sh*t” moments as we ask: how do you rewrite the rules when your culture says “don’t even talk about it”? Curious f**kers, whether you’ve battled shame yourself or just want inspo to live louder, this one’s going to hit deep. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you laugh, squirm, or rethink your cultural hang-ups — smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: 👉 https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow Florence: @florencebark Follow Reed: @reedamberx Follow Sangeeta: @soulsutras About Bad Daughter: https://baddaughter.co.uk/ About Masala Podcast: https://www.soulsutras.co.uk/about-masala-podcast/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soulsutras?igsh=ZGpkNXVhZjhucGpq Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

28/08/2025 • 61:22

What happens when you trade “the one” for the many? This week, Reed is joined by sex educator, writer, and all-round babe Alice Lovegood to unpack the messy, magical, and oh-so-human shift from monogamy to polyamory. We’re talking first steps, jealousy wobbles, compersion (yep, that’s a thing), and the realities behind the fantasy of “having it all.” Alice opens up about their own journey - from monogamous beginnings to thriving in poly love - with all the juicy highs and awkward lows along the way. Expect real talk on navigating boundaries, building trust, and finding freedom in choosing a relationship style that actually fits. Whether you’re poly-curious, monogam-ish, or still side-eyeing anyone who has more than one toothbrush in their bathroom, this one’s for you, curious f**kers. Rate & ReviewIf we’ve ever made you laugh, squirm, or rethink your relationship labels — smash that five star, baby.Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon:👉 www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious - slide into our DMs with questions, stories & voice notes! Follow Reed: @reedamberx Follow Alice: @bettersx.blog Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

21/08/2025 • 53:16

Green-eyed monster? Babe, we’ve been there and this week, Florence and Reed are dragging jealousy out of the shadows and into the daylight. From obsessively stalking your ex’s new boo to side-eyeing your partner’s “just a friend,” we’re spilling our rawest confessions, messiest moments, and the tips that actually help you stop spiralling. We’re talking envy vs jealousy, ex etiquette, and why sometimes (don’t lie) you like it when your partner gets a bit possessive. Plus, how to handle friends who trigger you, why boundaries are inward not outward, and the little tricks that stop obsessive thoughts in their tracks. This isn’t just “don’t be jealous” nonsense - it’s honest, unfiltered, and yes, a bit unhinged. Whether you’re in a monogamous bubble, navigating non-monogamy, or still creeping your ex’s sister’s Instagram… this one’s for you, curious f**kers. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you laugh, cry, or rethink texting your ex at 2am - smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: 👉 https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious - slide into our DMs with questions, stories & voice notes! Follow Florence: @florencebark Follow Reed: @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

14/08/2025 • 68:27

It’s time to talk about… PARENTING & PORN. What happens when your career is in porn — and you’re planning for parenthood? Florence is flying solo this week and sitting down with legendary erotic filmmaker Erika Lust for a juicy, no-holds-barred convo on raising kids in a world obsessed with sex but terrified of sexuality. From fighting censorship and dismantling shame to the nitty-gritty of how to actually talk to your kids about porn, we’re going deep into the messy, meaningful overlaps between pleasure, politics, and parenting. Erika shares her wisdom from 20+ years in the industry, why tech bros keep banning her, and how to raise informed, empowered (and media-literate) young people without freaking out over their screen time. Plus: ✨ Sex education that doesn’t suck ✨ Parenting through the porn panic ✨ Why pleasure is power — and why your kids need to hear that too Whether you're a parent, a porn-lover, or just a curious fker wondering how to raise a less fked-up generation, this one’s for you. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you laugh, squirm, or rethink your browser history — smash that five star, baby. Support the podcast + watch full episodes on Patreon: 👉 www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious @florencebark Podcast Produced by @bxsassy2 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

08/08/2025 • 74:44

It’s time to talk about… SUBMISSIVE MEN. 😈 Florence and Reed are joined by the magnetic dominatrix, performer, and kink educator Saint Arson (aka Arson Leigh) to dive deep into a topic that’s still drenched in stigma: male submission. From the myths of masculinity to the power of being ass-up and emotionally available, this juicy episode unpacks what it means to be a submissive man - and why that might just be the sexiest kind of rebellion. They cover everything from how patriarchy has f*cked up our ideas of dominance, to how to approach your dom with actual respect, to the shame (and secret pleasure) many men carry when exploring submission. Plus: latex fetishes, bratting, massage seduction, and why being a good sub is more than just calling someone “mommy” (spoiler: don’t call her that). Whether you’re a domme-in-training, a submissive king in the making, or just curious about kink dynamics—this one’s for you, curious f**kers. 🎙️ Support Come Curious Keep us thriving, vibing, and kink-positive at patreon.com/comecurious ⭐ Rate & Review Feel seen? Feel empowered? Give us that 5-star, baby. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

31/07/2025 • 77:42

This week, Florence and Reed get curious about how our social wiring plays into horniness, hookups, and sexual satisfaction. From voice notes and sex parties to social burnout and sober raving, they’re unpacking how your being an introvert or an extrovert might just be linked to your sex life, libido, dating style - and yes, even how much you orgasm. Is being an extrovert the secret to better sex? Do introverts make better long-term lovers? And what the hell is an ambivert anyway? We’ve got juicy studies, spicy confessions, and a whole load of personal stories to break it all down. Whether you're the life of the party or a proud homebody, this one’s for anyone who’s ever wondered: is it just me, or is everyone else cumming more? Curious f**kers, let’s get into it. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you cum, cry, or contemplate deleting Hinge — hit us with that five star, babes. 🎥 Want more? Watch our LIVE Q and A's, get bonus content, and support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/comecurious 📲 Follow us on Instagram @comecurious @florencebark @reedamberx DM us your stories, questions, and voicenotes! Produced by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

24/07/2025 • 60:39

It’s time to talk about… BREAKUPS. Heartbreak, codependency, situationships, spirals - Florence is coming to you solo this week and sitting down with her incredible friend, author, and podcast queen Kelsey Darragh (Confidently Insecure) to unpack the brutal, beautiful chaos of breakups. From sobbing through situationships to sexually addictive rebounds and emotional rock bottoms, Kelsey shares the raw reality of what happens when love crashes and burns - and how she turned her own heartbreak into a science-backed, self-loving healing journey. They dive deep into co-dependency, the power of narrative, breakup bootcamps, why we chase emotional chaos, and how to stop choosing partners who can’t (or won’t) show up. Plus, there’s chat about fertility, freezing eggs, terminating pregnancies, and the surprising turns life takes after healing heartbreak. This is one for anyone who’s ever been dumped, devastated, or just trying to piece themselves back together. Whether you're fresh out of a situationship or still haunted by a breakup from years ago — this one's for you, curious f**kers. Support Come Curious Keep us thriving, vibing, and healing in public at patreon.com/comecurious Rate & Review If we’ve helped you feel less alone in your mess — hit that 5 star, baby. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

17/07/2025 • 62:20

This week, Reed is joined by her ultra-creative, beautifully-queer sister Flynn for an unfiltered heart-to-heart convo about growing up side-by-side, navigating sex and privacy in a shared household, and the surprising overlaps in their kinky little brains. Think BDSM, tentacle kinks, tickling obsessions, and the sweet, sensual power of a backstroke. They get real about sisterhood dynamics, the trauma of shared childhood bedrooms, the secret art of masturbating in silence, and the emotional gymnastics of being parentified daughters. Plus: why Flynn might be your fave new creative crush — she designs gorgeous sets for Babestation, crafts chainmail necklaces, paints murals, makes rugs, and probably solves jigsaws faster than you cum! This one’s got all the juicy bits: identity, intimacy, inherited shame, and what it’s like to explore your sexuality while trying not to think about your sibling doing the same... So settle in. This is Come Curious like you’ve never heard it before — tender, raw, freaky, and full of sisterly care. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

10/07/2025 • 64:52

It’s time to talk about… KINK. Blindfolds, bondage, being a gang bang princess — this episode is dripping with all things freaky. Florence and Reed are diving clit-first into their favourite topic ever: kink. From tickle fetishes to golden showers, degradation to dentist gloves, it’s a wild ride through the buffet of BDSM and beyond. They’re taking the ultimate kinky quiz, swapping filthy stories (shoutout to the sushi date turned “Mommy Dom” moment), and giving you the lowdown on how to explore your kinks safely — whether you're a seasoned switch or a curious newbie with a fresh pair of handcuffs. Consent, safe words, self-pleasure tips, kink shame spirals — it’s all here. Plus, loads of listener confessions that prove: you lot are DIRTY. And we love to see it. So… how kinky are you, curious f**kers? Get your ropes ready. Let’s find out. Support Come Curious Keep us wet, wild, and whispering dirty things in your ears: patreon.com/comecurious Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you squirm, squeal, or say “Yes, Mummy” smash that 5 star, baby. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

03/07/2025 • 51:44

It’s time to talk about… AGEING. From saggy titties to spiking libidos, Florence and Reed are diving deep into the wild, wobbly, and wonderful world of getting older. This episode is a full-body embrace of wrinkles, weight changes, and the shifting sands of self-esteem — and we’re not holding back. Why are we so terrified of ageing? Is it all doom, gloom, and bingo wings? (Spoiler: absolutely not.) We’re talking stretch marks, gray hairs, changing libidos, and learning to actually love your body — not just tolerate it. Plus, we’re busting myths with juicy facts that’ll make you want to fast-forward to 50 (hello longer orgasms and bigger clits). Whether you're hitting your thirties or living it up in your sixties, this one’s for anyone who’s ever felt a little weird about getting older. Curious f**kers, it’s time to go from fuck no to fuck yes on ageing. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you laugh, cry, or rethink your anti-aging cream — smash that five star, baby. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

26/06/2025 • 48:51

Ever Googled “Am I gay?” and clicked on the weirdest quiz imaginable? You're not alone. In this gloriously queer and candid Pride Month episode, Florence and Reed dive headfirst into the wonderfully confusing world of sexuality with zero judgment and all the juicy honesty you’d expect. From bisexual panic and gay porn epiphanies to kissing your best mate and not feeling “gay enough” — nothing’s off-limits. They work through the infamous 10-question “Gay Checklist,” opening up about their own chaotic journeys through queerness, identity, imposter syndrome, internalised biphobia, and the confusing politics of desire. Whether you're questioning, fully out, or just feeling curious, this episode is a rainbow-coloured hug for your confused, horny, beautiful soul. Curious f**kers — get your flags out and press play. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

19/06/2025 • 56:24

It's time for a special minisode dedicated entirely to our beloved Get F***ed segment — because sometimes life gives you so much material that one regular episode just isn't enough to contain the chaos. Florence's discovered her own sweat is literally giving her a rash (evolutionary fail, much?), while Reed drops a major bombshell about her relationship status. We're serving up burst pipes, breakup revelations, body image battles, and the kind of messy honesty that makes you feel less alone in your beautiful disasters. Don't worry, curious f**kers — next week we'll be back to our full-length episodes with all the regular segments and extended deep dives you love. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12/06/2025 • 26:41

Bush, landing strip, bald eagle — we’re getting into the hairy truth of it all. From shaving disasters and itchy regrowth to waxing regrets and the porn-fuelled pressure to stay bare, Florence and Reed are pulling no punches (or hairs). Why are we still so weird about pubic hair? Should we be doing anything with it at all? And what happens when your partner’s pube-preferences cross a boundary? We dive into personal stories, body politics, and the wild history of the bush. Whether you’re team full bush, neatly trimmed, or silky smooth, this one’s for you. Curious f**kers, let’s get into the thick of it. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

05/06/2025 • 52:27

TW: Discussion of transphobia, homophobia and language that could be distressing for some listeners. This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed are joined by award-winning sex educator and writer, Topher Taylor to talk all things DL guys- men who identify as straight but have sex with men. Together they answer your questions, listen to your stories and unpack desire, secrecy, queerness, kink, and all the complexities that come along with it. Nothing’s off-limits. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

29/05/2025 • 71:54

This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed get into the messy, emotional world of relationship breaks- the rules, the realities, and whether they actually work. They read your stories, tackle a juicy voicenote dilemma, and Reed opens up on where she’s at in her own relationship right now. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

22/05/2025 • 69:00

This week Florence and Reed are joined by award winning sex educator and author, Ruby Rare to chat all things non-monogamy. Ruby opens up about her personal experiences within poly and open relationships, and shares her best tips for handling conflict and navigating jealousy when there’s multiple people involved. Plus, Ruby gives her take on the concept of a “one penis policy”. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

15/05/2025 • 59:34