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Finding Fifty

Mette and Candice, friends for more than thirty years, both found themselves divorced during the pandemic. They have very different perspectives on the challenge of finding themselves in the midst of an entirely new life.

Tracks

Candice and Mette talk about what the podcast has meant to them.

9/28/23 • 25:05

We talk about what makes us feel safe and what doesn't.

9/21/23 • 25:41

Two recovering perfectionists talk about the contining temptation.

9/14/23 • 23:35

Can you become more fun and if so, how?

9/7/23 • 27:04

When you know you shouldn't do too much, why do you keep doing it anyway? What are you winning? What are you avoiding?

8/31/23 • 28:03

What do you keep, literally and metaphorically, after a major life change?

7/20/23 • 27:06

Do you give advice? Why or why not?

7/6/23 • 27:20

If no one has ever told you before, it sucks getting old.

6/15/23 • 28:30

All the things we've learned to do since our divorces.

5/12/23 • 26:33

What do you regret? How do you let go of regret? What regret is it useful to hold onto, if any?

5/4/23 • 30:48

Taking a good hard look at how we self-sabotage

4/20/23 • 27:57

How good are you at taking feedback? Should you always?

4/13/23 • 27:12

Yes, we're talking literally and metaphorically here

3/30/23 • 25:44

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3/9/23 • 27:28

What can I take out of my life that will add to my life?

3/2/23 • 25:32

Are you allowed to get what you want? That's the first step in getting it. Other thoughts on the same.

2/23/23 • 23:11

How do you learn to ask for help and not give up your sense of independence?

2/16/23 • 33:19

When you have nothing left, you hit the wall. Sometimes that can be a very good thing.

2/9/23 • 30:41

We talk about avoiding the binary of this type of thinking.

2/2/23 • 31:21

Sometimes you worry if there will be enough time, but there is.

1/19/23 • 22:39

Is self-care bath bombs and chocolate or is it more than that?

1/12/23 • 20:13

What is money for? How do you use money properly? How do you feel less guilty about money? How do you use money for happiness?

1/5/23 • 28:44

What do you do when anniversaries about things you're still processing come up?

12/30/22 • 26:47

What if "because I want to?" is not a selfish thing to say, but actually the only reason any of us do anything?

12/21/22 • 26:59

Why divorce isn't the worst thing in the world. If you're up for that discussion.

12/14/22 • 28:11

It's time for us to own our anger.

12/1/22 • 16:40

Do you think we can solve all the problems? Because we definitely do.

11/24/22 • 24:04

Can you experience pain without suffering. Your two hosts argue charmingly about this.

11/17/22 • 32:51

Women and mothers are often invisible. We would like to stop being invisible, please.

11/10/22 • 24:46

People might change, but it doesn't seem to happen very often, or at least not on a character level.

11/10/22 • 29:49