Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
Who gets more hugs from your wife?You or your kids?Who gets more snuggling or even kisses?If it’s your kids, it can be VERY frustrating.Maybe you’ve even brought this up with your wife, only to hear things like “it’s different with the kids” or “I’m just not that into physical touch.”Today you’ll learn the root cause of why your wife is more physically affectionate with the kids than with you…And what to do about it.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
1/14/25 • 14:09
Do you feel like your wife is against you?Does she seem to always be on the kids’ side of things and not yours?Do you sometimes feel alone in your marriage?If so, this episode is for you.Learn why wondering “whose side is your wife on…”Is a waste of time.And what to do instead.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
1/7/25 • 16:14
Today I have a special guest and friend, Bobby Hulme-Lippert.Bobby was a successful pastor, then felt a call to help others find what “helps them come alive.”Check out today’s episode if you’re questioning whether your current career path is exactly what you’re meant to be doing in the world.And learn more about Bobby and his coaching work hereWatch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
1/2/25 • 32:20
If you haven't yet, it's time to join the email list!You'll only hear about our updated group program opening at the end of January through our email list.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
1/2/25 • 01:33
Do you want a better marriage in 2025?One full of connection, laughter, fun and intimacy?You CAN do it.It starts with a strong connection with God.Then a great relationship with yourself.Then learning the trust, communication and intimacy skills to take your marriage to a connection that’s even beyond what it was when you were first married.Learn how in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bCrDomF_oigDr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
12/31/24 • 19:49
Feel overwhelmed?Feel like you can’t act the way you want to act?Pray for a spiritual spotter to come help you!And let me know how it goes.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
12/26/24 • 01:38
Responding in new, Christ-like ways to your wife and kids is hard work.In fact, sometimes it’s harder than we can currently handle.If your wife is critical, your son gets attitude with you, or you’re just feeling tired…Acting in a strong and loving way may be out of reach.That’s when you can use Spiritual Spotters to help you do more than you can do on your own.Learn more about how this works in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
12/24/24 • 11:19
And then get it done!Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. And then let me know how it goes!Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
12/19/24 • 01:40
Do you have a long “to do” list?Do you feel like you have too much to do with too little time?Does it feel like you’ll never get everything done that you need to?Today you’ll learn how to get rid of your “to do” list…And get more done in less time with less stress.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
12/17/24 • 11:47
Follow the 4 steps to deal with a strong negative emotion, and let me know how it goes!Step 1 - Recognize it was from SatanStep 2 - Pray for help through itStep 3 - Identify the lie and correct itStep 4 - Release the anger physicallyListen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Let me know how it goes!Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
12/12/24 • 01:51
This week I had an attack of extreme anger.Thankfully, I was able to get through it without exploding by following a few simple steps.Step 1 - Recognize it was from SatanStep 2 - Pray for help through itStep 3 - Identify the lie and correct itStep 4 - Release the anger physicallyLearn more about how this works in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
12/10/24 • 17:33
What's 1 rule you could write and live that would change your marriage patterns for the better?Write it out today!Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
12/5/24 • 01:54
You have negative patterns that are hurting your marriage.Not listening. Invalidating. Pushing conversations when they don’t need to be pushed. Letting your wife walk all over you.The good news is, you can break those patterns.And setting a few simple rules can help you do that.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
12/3/24 • 12:15
On Thanksgiving, let’s be grateful for our wives.No matter how bad things are right now, there’s SOMETHING you can be grateful for.Find that gratitude (ask God for help)...And share it with your wife.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
11/28/24 • 01:29
If you find yourself unhappy in your marriage…Resentful..Frustrated…Wondering if you married the right person…This episode is for you.You’ll learn how to start feeling better right away…And by doing that…Become more attractive to your wife.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
11/26/24 • 13:47
Ask yourself today:How can I partner with God to use the time and money He’s given me to bless others?Then go do it!Let me know how it goes.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
11/21/24 • 01:35
If you’re like me, you’re very concerned about things being fair.You work hard for the money and respect you get…And you expect others to do the same.When they don’t work as hard as you…But still get money or respect…You can get upset. Jealous. Angry. Frustrated.Are those fruits of the Spirit? Are they part of the Abundant Life God wants for you?Learn how to stop worrying about what’s fair and join with God in His generosity…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jvqlewvkPhMDr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
11/19/24 • 17:16
Ask yourself a few quick questions:-Do I spend more time thinking about money… or about God?-Do I feel more security from my money and investments… or from trusting God to provide for me?-If my assets were stolen, what would my reaction be?If you find that you are trusting money for your sense of safety and security more than God…There’s a quick fix.Shift your thinking to trust in Him more! Pray for that help, remind yourself of the scriptures that remind you of his care for you.And let me know how it goes!Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
11/14/24 • 02:07
I’ve had a personal shift that I wanted to share with you today.I realized that I was trusting money for my security vs trusting God.Since I’ve made the shift, I feel:-Much more peace-Much lighter-Much more gratefulAnd, God is blessing me financially as well.Learn how to check if you’re trusting money too much…And what to do about it…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
11/12/24 • 16:50
Joel has become a good friend of mine over the past few months.Today you’ll learn about his story…And his program, 31 Days To Become A Better Man…That has helped men apply business, financial, physical and relationship principles…To create BIG transformations in just 31 days.Hear some of the inspiring stories in today’s episode…Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’d like to join the group with me for the November 20th 31 day challenge, visit this link and when you use the code “strongmen” you’ll get $19.99 off!https://31dailychallenges.com/ P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
11/7/24 • 21:51
I had a big failure as a husband and father a few days ago.I met negativity with negativity… and damaged relationships badly in the process.I spent the day with God yesterday and He helped show me a better way…And how to accomplish it…Learn how in today’s episode…Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
11/5/24 • 20:34
Today, find a way to reverse the invalidation triple threat.Let your wife know you did something wrong (invalidated her)...That you can understand how she would feel (unheard, unseen, unsafe)...And that you can understand how she could think a certain way (that she’s not important to you, that you think you’re better than her, etc.)...And let me know how it goes!Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
10/31/24 • 02:03
A few weeks back we talked about the Invalidation Triple Threat.That’s when you tell your wife:-She’s wrong for what she’s thinking-She’s wrong for what she’s feeling-You’re rightThis causes her to close her heart… and body… off from you.We all do this sometimes, and luckily we can reverse it by reversing those 3 steps:-Tell her how you were wrong for responding the way you did-Understand how she could feel that way-Understand how she could think that wayThis helps her feel safe and open her mind, heart and body more to you.Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MytcPIKG2xkDr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
10/29/24 • 11:21
Tuesday you learned how to stop a marriage fight by…Step 1 - Notice the angerStep 2 - Release the angerStep 3 - Listen or walk awayNow, try it and see how it goes!Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
10/24/24 • 01:26
My wife and I got in a fight last night…And it reminded me of 3 steps I can take in the future to step out of the “who’s right” pattern…Creating less safety and closed hearts…And step into a pattern that allows more connection and intimacy….Step 1 - Notice the angerStep 2 - Release the angerStep 3 - Listen or walk awayWatch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjjxlpDd52ADr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
10/22/24 • 18:32
So you learned that getting mad back, the invalidation triple threat and trying to make your wife happy won’t work.Instead, try…Responding with kindness…Serving her because you want to (going the extra mile)...Or just saying “no.”And let me know how it goes.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike, and are willing and able to invest in the 5 figures to create a great marriage and legacy? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
10/17/24 • 01:32
When your wife gets mad at you for something, most men either…Get mad back…Tell their wife she’s wrong and justify themselves (invalidation triple threat)...Or tuck tail and just try to make her happy.Unfortunately, all of these lead to disconnection and lack of intimacy.Learn what to do instead… in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4DTUrjjLcoDr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
10/15/24 • 13:39
Relationships are built by…Talking to peopleSpending time togetherDoing things togetherTo build a relationship with Jesus, you need to do the same things.Choose 1 to do this week.And let me know how it goes.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
10/10/24 • 03:04
Do you feel like you’re doing what God wants you to do in your marriage…Putting your wife first, serving her, losing so she can win…But you don’t feel blessed by God for those efforts?In fact, you just feel resentful?Learn today what Jesus was REALLY saying in his Beatitudes (according to The Divine Conspiracy by Dallas Willard)So you can find joy, healing and love NOW in your life and marriage.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
10/8/24 • 21:02
Your wife’s heart has closed to you because it’s been hurt.By you.Today, recognize a way you have hurt her heart.Apologize.And stop doing it.As a bonus, do the opposite to help her start healing and opening her heart.Let me know how it goes.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.(Lorena new links here)https://youtube.com/shorts/U3zdkBBU-JU (Lorena new links here)Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
10/3/24 • 02:27
