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The Amber Lilyestrom Show

The Amber Lilyestrom Show is a podcast for the visionary, the dreamer, the disruptivator and the passionate soul on a mission. We do not follow someone else's formula for success, we trust the pull of our souls to take bold and inspired actions steps to create the lives and businesses we were created for. We intentionally cultivate a career and life journey that tells the bigger story, serves a higher purpose and, most importantly, fulfills us from the inside out.

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Mark Nepo on Surviving Storms
With over a million copies sold, Mark Nepo has moved and inspired readers and seekers all over the world with his #1 New York Times bestseller The Book of Awakening. Beloved as a poet, teacher, and storyteller, Mark has been called "one of the finest spiritual guides of our time," "a consummate storyteller," and "an eloquent spiritual teacher." His work is widely accessible and used by many and his books have been translated into more than twenty languages. A bestselling author, he has published twenty-three books and recorded fifteen audio projects. In 2015, he was given a Life-Achievement Award by AgeNation. In 2016, he was named by Watkins: Mind Body Spirit as one of the 100 Most Spiritually Influential Living People, and was also chosen as one of OWN's SuperSoul 100, a group of inspired leaders using their gifts and voices to elevate humanity. In 2017, Mark became a regular columnist for Spirituality & Health Magazine. In today’s episode, we talk about Marks latest book, Surviving Storms, the cost of progress, and the importance of awareness. Mark also talks about the gesture of goodness, secret identities, and the need for mature compassion. I can’t wait for you to listen!    In this Episode You’ll Learn: [05:47] What it was like writing this book. [11:40] The cost of progress. [19:25] Restoring our human nature through awareness. [26:52] The human ingredients in the purpose of goodness. [30:54] Secret identities. [42:32] The maturing of compassion. [49:35] The journey to enough. [57:20] The invitation.   Soul Shifting Quotes:  “There is something that is lost if we don’t make the climb ourselves.” [15:28] “Everything we do in authenticity is adding one more healthy cell to the global body.” [22:27] “It’s wonderful and enough to be who we are.” [36:58] “With freedom comes responsibility.” [40:27] “We are more than what is done to us.” [58:03]
60:30 10/04/2022
Sarah Brassard on Honoring Our Sensitivity and Recovering From Trauma
This week’s episode is with the incredible Sarah Brassard. Sarah is a teacher, author, healer, and coach who melds wisdom traditions with cutting-edge knowledge of intuition, energy, spirituality, and self-care to her audience, inviting them to open themselves to new ways of responding to life.   For the last 30 years, she has been guiding women from a place of struggle in life to one of grace, peace, and ease through her signature process of sacred self-care. As the author of Inside: A Guide to the Resources Within to Stay Connected to Your Truth, Even in Trying Times. Sarah details the self-care practices that have sparked and sustained her own healing journey.   Plus, Sarah and I speak about the upcoming Trauma Recovery Summit, running from October 6th-9th and the amazing impact it has already had in her own world.  In This Episode You’ll Learn:  [ 4:05 ] How Sarah and I connected for the Trauma Recovery Summit and all about the event  [ 8:31 ] How collaboration allows us to share our gifts more impactfully  [ 12:00 ] How Sarah’s career started out and what led her to where she is today [ 20:00 ] How foreign self-care can feel for some of us in the beginning [ 26:30 ] How Sarah’s life has changed since beginning this work  [ 29:21 ] How do we lovingly express our needs to others [ 32:30 ] How to acknowledge our own trauma and begin to heal   Soul Shifting Quotes “Trauma lands in the body and we have to find some way to move it out.”  “When trauma happens, we  energetically leave, because it no longer feels safe to be here.”    Links Mentioned:  Sign up for the Trauma Recovery Summit here: https://traumarecoverysummit.com/amber
46:30 09/28/2022
6 Unconventional Success Strategies
Today’s episode is all about the value of work AND play, keeping true to our intuition, and reframing our fear. I also lean in around our excuses, the importance of giving ourselves permission to explore, betting on yourself, and living as our future (and highest) selves.   In this Episode You’ll Learn: [03:32] Treat your work like play, and your play like your work. [07:42] Rely on your curiosities and musings. [09:00] Let fear be a master teacher. [10:31] Question your excuses, big and small. [11:29] Bet on yourself, even when it doesn’t make sense to anyone else. [12:48] Be your future self now.   Soul Shifting Quotes:  “Our intuition contains a treasure trove of wisdom that we so often overlook.” [07:47] “When we want to reach to our next level, we have to sync up with the version of us that we wish to be.” [12:56] “You are right where you’re meant to be.” [13:41]
16:46 09/20/2022
The Art of Sales + How to Learn to Love Selling
In todays’ episode, I will be talking about the truth behind right-or-wrong thinking when it comes to sales, my personal and ever-evolving journey with it, the importance of building relationships and connections, and having ethical conversations that honor the sovereignty of each potential client/customer you connect with.    In this Episode You’ll Learn: [01:13] The binary of right and wrong thinking. [05:39] What is sales? [10:11] Creating a space for transformation. [14:03] Amber Lilyestrom is ready to play. [16:49] A special VIP invitation. [18:57] Exciting things coming up in September.   Soul Shifting Quotes:  “Your choice for how you want to do your life and your business is the only right that matters.” [01:33] “Before we can create a space for transformation, we must create a space for trust.” [11:24] “It is so important that we have something to look forward to.” [18:20]
21:08 09/12/2022
Drop Your Overthinking Habit Overnight
I’m celebrating my personal New Year with you today! In this week’s episode, I’m sharing my own journey with hyper-vigilance, living in confidence, and being comfortable with not conforming- and how you can drop the overthinking habit TODAY.  In this Episode You’ll Learn: [10:01] Living in hyper-vigilance. [13:26] What it takes to make the shift. [15:55] My invitation to you. [19:01] Not conforming. [21:12] Be courageous, authentic, and creative. [23:38] Connect with me for a deeper conversation.   Quotes: “There’s no such thing as a perfect model.” [13:55] “The more you choose to step into your truth , the more courageous you are in your authenticity and creative expression, the deeper the connections get to be.” [16:23] “The more I try to control the outcomes, the smaller the possibilities become.” [17:31]   Connect with Amber Facebook: Amber Lilyestrom  LinkedIn: Amber Lilyestrom Email us at: hello@amberlilyestrom.com       Resources Amber’s books:    Paddle Home.                         Master Your Money mind. Ignite:                Ignite. Breakthrough:        Breakthrough.   Call to Action Please if you love this episode, and know someone else who is a passionate soul on a mission just like you share it with your friends and others. To help this podcast grow please leave an iTunes review and don’t forget to subscribe.
25:46 09/06/2022
Amber and Kristen Why Are We Like This? Season of the Glow Up
We're back with another month's episode of Why Are We Like This? And this month... we're talking all about "the glow up." Kristen and I share on what's shifted for us as we've stepped into this new way of being + believing, what it took to get here, and what we believe is ahead. 
49:43 08/30/2022
Amber Lilyestrom on How to Step Up to More Sales
This week’s episode is all about what it means to “market out loud,” and the importance of turning up your frequency when it comes to talking about your offerings. It’s true that if it isn’t on the menu, they can’t order it. But it’s also true that if you’re not sharing the menu with the people you’re here to serve, they’ll never know that there is one in the first place!    In this Episode You’ll Learn: [01:21] The Ignite Your Business Live Retreat. [04:43] My soccer story. [06:53] You have to demand it. [10:12] It’s about frequency. [12:03] What do you need to do? [14:20] I have one more invitation.   Soul Shifting Quotes: “There’s nothing wrong with you. This is just a conversation about frequency.” [10:14] “Show up for your business. Take some action.” [16:04] “You will be astounded at what you unlock as a result of you going all in and giving yourself permission to demand the ball.‘ [16:10]   Connect with Amber Facebook: Amber Lilyestrom  LinkedIn: Amber Lilyestrom Email us at: hello@amberlilyestrom.com
18:35 08/23/2022
Amber Lilyestrom on Cracking the Code on Unbridled Authenticity
Today’s episode is all about unbridled authenticity; about where we have edited ourselves to be accepted, and what it would look like if we all allowed ourselves to be unapologetically authentic. I also share my own tried and true ways of unlocking my “authentic self”, and be sure to stay tuned for an exciting announcement!    In this Episode You’ll Learn: [02:06] Unbridled authenticity. [06:36] What it means to be you. [09:05] I have an exciting invitation. [12:25] Awe-inspiring transformations.   Soul Shifting Quotes:  “The whole world is editing itself for each other.” [04:36] “It’s going to require many of us to take a stance and make some decisions that might be unpopular or uncomfortable.” [06:49] “We edit ourselves into the version of some second-rate version that is a knockoff of somebody else, instead of fully embracing and owning who we are.” [12:38]   Connect with Amber Facebook: Amber Lilyestrom  LinkedIn: Amber Lilyestrom Email us at: hello@amberlilyestrom.com     Resources Amber’s books:    Paddle Home.                         Master Your Money mind. https://amberlilyestrom.com/retreat  Call to Action Please if you love this episode, and know someone else who is a passionate soul on a mission just like you share it with your friends and others. To help this podcast grow please leave an iTunes review and don’t forget to subscribe.
21:17 08/16/2022
Amber Lilyestrom on False Supports: What they are & how to remove them
Have you ever found yourself surrounded by “support systems” that  you believe you need to be successful, safe, loved, respected (the list goes on…?) This episode is all about removing the false supports we keep in our lives that we’ve convinced ourselves are necessary for our highest good, when in reality, they can be used as a weapon against ourselves to hold us back.    I can’t wait for you to listen!    In This Episode:  [ :45 ] Recovering from our ELEVATE Retreat [ 1:15 ] Learn about Bridgitte Carroll’s GutPersonal  [ 3:15 ] Removing false supports and what that means  [ 12:00 ] Taking our dreams more seriously      Links Mentioned:  Check out GutPersonal and take the quiz!  BIG Announcement coming on Sunday: get on the list so you can be the first to know!    Tag me in your big shifts + takeaways: @amberlilyestrom Did you hear something you loved here today?!  Leave a Review + Subscribe via iTunes   Listen on Spotify
16:09 08/10/2022
Amber Lilyestrom on How to Ask for Help & Build the muscle of Truth
In today’s episode I share a story about summer camp drop-off with my daughter and what it means to truly ask for what we need. There are lessons in every interaction if we’re willing to look for them, and this experience + act of vulnerability and courage was no exception.    I can’t wait for you to listen. In This Episode:  Asking for what we need [ 1:45 ]  Why we can’t fully support the people we love if we’re not willing to do the work ourselves [ 9:35 ]   Links Mentioned:  Check out the Masterclass: The Business of Being You    Tag me in your shifts + takeaways: @amberlilyestrom Did you hear something you loved here today?  Leave a Review + Subscribe via iTunes   Listen on Spotify
16:57 08/02/2022
Amber Lilyestrom on What To Do When Disappointment Strikes
Today’s bonus solo episode is all about disappointment, how we often find ourselves perpetuating that self-fulfilling prophecy, and the way our thoughts influence the actions that we take. In it I’ll share a few questions that you can ask yourself to counter the disappointing thoughts that invite you to an opportunity to have a deeper conversation about it all with yourself.  PLUS: Have you signed up for Monday’s Masterclass: The Business of Being YOU, yet?! Head here to sign up! In this Episode You’ll Learn: [01:21] My story of feeling disappointment. [07:40] Pre-paving with disappointment. [10:14] How are you creating the results with your thoughts? [11:11] Some questions I ask myself. [14:32] I am excited to help you. [15:35] The business of being you.   Soul Shifting Quotes:  “Pre-paving with disappointment is a protection mechanism.” [07:40] “You get to choose differently. You get to decide that there’s a different way.” [10:53] “The only thing you need to do is show up in the fullness of who you really are.” [14:02] “Your humanness is what people connect to.” [14:18]
19:34 07/29/2022
Why Are We Like This: Success Edition
Welcome back to Why Are We Like This? Success Edition.   In this month’s episode, Kristen and I cover our current definitions of success and how that is playing out in both our personal + professional lives.    We also dive into the shifts we’re making in the business, what to expect in my upcoming Masterclass: The Business of Being YOU, and more.    Sign up here to join the Masterclass on 8/1!    I can’t wait to see you there. 
40:48 07/26/2022
Britt Frank on The Science of Stuck
Have you ever felt like your life wasn’t moving forward, but you didn’t know what to do to make a change?   Britt Frank is a therapist, teacher, speaker, trauma specialist, and author of The Science of Stuck: Breaking Through Inertia to Find Your Path Forward. She is committed to dismantling the mental health myths that keep people feeling stuck and sick, by educating, empowering, and equipping them to transform their most persistent patterns of thinking and doing, and helping them understand the inner mechanisms of their brains and bodies. In today’s episode, Brit shares all about The Science of Stuck, the importance of nervous system regulation, navigating confusion, the shame cycle, and we also get into the anatomy of mental danger. Britt lets us in on some of the most impactful ways of becoming unstuck, and much more. I can’t wait for you to listen.    In this Episode You’ll Learn: [05:51] The Science of Stuck. [09:14] Learning to regulate your nervous system. [12:37] Looking through the lens of confusion. [16:49] Bringing brain science into the equation. [22:31] The truth about Depression. [25:57] When our brains function in a place of mental danger. [32:09] Shame, guilt, and accountability. [34:49] How to become unstuck.   Quotes:  “The pain is confusing. The process doesn’t have to be.” [09:07] “There’s very little opportunity for healing pain without clarity on what that pain is.” [14:10] “The opposite of mental health is mental danger.” [24:56] “You can take accountability for your actions without shaming yourself.” [32:26] “Stuck turns into unstuck the second we say yes to anything.” [35:38]   Connect with Britt Frank: Website: https://www.thegreenhousekc.com https://www.scienceofstuck.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brittfrank     Connect with Amber Facebook: Amber Lilyestrom  LinkedIn: Amber Lilyestrom Email us at: hello@amberlilyestrom.com    
42:26 07/19/2022
It's Not Going to Feel the Way You Think it Should
Today’s episode is all the transformation that can occur when we allow ourselves to feel our way through our own discomfort. As someone who has devoted her life to aligning to her purpose, I can tell you that things don’t always feel the way I think they should; however, I’ve learned that what happens on the other side of those feelings is nothing short of miraculous.   In this Episode You’ll Learn: [02:00] A story about this week. [05:50] When it doesn’t feel the way you thought it should. [07:15] Why I want to do it in the first place. [08:05] Being humbled and inspired by my imperfect past self. [09:39] What you need to do. [10:57] More about Ignite.   Quotes: “Sometimes we have these emotional peaks and valleys as an invitation for us to keep on climbing, to keep on going, to enjoy the journey, to reorient ourselves into focusing on the long game picture of why we’re actually doing it in the first place.” [06:15] “The transformation that you deeply want to experience with your clients cannot happen without your transformations happening, too.” [07:49] “It’s not going to feel the way you think it should, and then it’s going to feel even better than you think it should.” [09:44] “The version of you that has an idea about how it should feel isn’t the version of you who’s gone through it just yet.” [10:26] “In order for us to move into our next level of true transformation, we have to actually show up and do the work.” [10:37]
15:01 07/11/2022
Kindra Hall on Choosing Your Story
Kindra Hall is a sought-after keynote speaker, the former Chief Storytelling Officer at Success Magazine and host of the Success Stories Podcast, and the bestselling author of Stories That Stick: How Storytelling Can Captivate Customers, Influence Audience, and Transform Your Business, and Choose Your Story, Change Your Life: Silence Your Inner Critic and Rewrite Your Life from the inside Out. Since telling her first story in 1992, Kindra has become the go-to expert for storytelling in business and beyond.  In today’s episode, we talk about the story behind Kinda’s books and the unique experiences of  each book’s success. Kindra also shares how her internal dialogue has changed over the years and she gives her younger self some valuable advice. PLUS, Kindra gives us the framework of Event, Story, Response, Result, and we get to hear a bit about her anticipated third book. In This Episode You’ll Learn:  [ 5:38 ] The story behind Kindra’s new book: Choose Your Story, Change Your Life [ 9:31 ] The story Kindra has told herself in the past about her books and her success [ 15:30 ] Kindra’s framework: Event, Story, Response, Result  [ 20:54 ] How Kindra is reckoning with her own paradigm shift  [ 31: 28 ] Kindra’s advice to her younger self  Soul Shifting Quotes: “Stories are the most powerful tool, whether it’s inner or outer stories, that humans have.” [06:15] “There are a lot of things that we don’t have control over, but we do have control over the stories we tell ourselves.” [09:01] “You can tell yourself the stories that make you take the action that you want that will lead to the results that you desire that will compound to the life that you deserve.” [18:37] “You don’t know what could be next.” [35:00]    Links Mentioned:  Learn more about Kindra on her website: www.kindrahall.com and be sure to follow her over on Instagram: @kindrahall
38:52 07/05/2022
Amber Lilyestrom on Experiencing Joy
In today’s solo episode, I’m sharing all about the concept I’ve been practicing in my life more and more these days: the idea that, the more I become a match with joy, the more joy I find myself witnessing and experiencing.    This premise isn’t about ignoring our struggles or bypassing them, it is simply about *amplifying* the gifts + blessings that already abound.   In This Episode:  The new Summer 2022 Podcast format [ :45 ] The more I become a match with joy, the more I will witness and experience it [ 2:45 ] Focusing on what’s helpful [ 7:00 ]   Links Mentioned:  Listen to our Adoption Journey podcast! Head here to book a Breakthrough Call  Email us at: hello@amberlilyestrom.com Tag me your big shifts + takeaways: @amberlilyestrom Did you hear something you loved here today?! Leave a Review + Subscribe via iTunes  Listen on Spotify 
14:13 06/28/2022
Why Are We Like This: Judgement Edition
In this month's episode of Why Are We Like This? Kristen and I go all in on the topic of judgement. We both share on our perspectives of what judgment truly is, if all judgment is self-judgment, how we can move through it and what we believe it's trying to teach us.  We love getting to have these in-depth conversations with you all. If there's a topic you'd like to hear our perspectives on, send a message over to hello@amberlilyestrom.com and let us know! 
51:03 06/21/2022
Rachel Camfield on Making Your Life a Work of Art
For those of you who have followed my work for any length of time now, you know today’s guest is one of the nearest and dearest to my heart; the one and only Rachel Camfield.  Rachel is an artist, writer, coach, and podcast host of The Mother’s Embrace Podcast. Her work focuses on normalizing real-life conversations and embracing the journey of purposeful transformation. She loves all things home and treasures her family. Her original art can be found in mom-and-pop shops nationwide where she couples encouragement, art, and jewelry in collaboration with the woman-run and woman-owned handmade leather brand, KEVA. Her passion is for helping others with creative ideas, deep devotion, and authentic connections. She has over 10 years of experience in writing, design, coaching, sales, and speaking. She lives outside of Richmond, Virginia with her golf-pro, Ted Lasso-ish husband, two children, and their tiny 4-lb toy poodle, Wally. Rachel is one of the most deeply creative souls I know. In this episode we talk about the need for vulnerability in our lives, honoring our journeys, and where our art fits in to it all (especially during life changing seasons such as having children or going through a global pandemic.) I’m honored to have her as a guest today and can’t wait to hear what your biggest takeaways are!  In this Episode You’ll Learn:  [01:06] All about Rachel Camfield [04:50] The season of life Rachel is currently in and what has been opening for her in motherhood and her soul. [08:54] Rachel’s artistic process  [11:39] Rachel’s he vulnerability of putting our art out into the world. [16:02] How Rachel has navigated her success path [18:49] What led Rachel to create the Mother’s Embrace and her movement [19:40] The heartbeat of the Mother’s Embrace Podcast and the gifts it has provided in the past year [25:33] Rachel’s philosophy of making your life your work of art [29:12] How Rachel  has  “cracked the shell of the enough-ness egg” [30:45] Things to think about as a parent  when making bigger decisions, right on behalf of the well-being of your children  [34:08] What to lean on in order to form a genuine friendship and intimate relationship         Soul Shifting Quotes:  “I find myself really being the primary parent, and understanding the weight of that responsibility, the opportunity of that responsibility, knowing that every single thing I've ever poured into my children has, in turn been a gift to me.” [06:15] “For me is, you know, I, I did not go to art school, it's something I deeply wanted, it was not an option for me. I don't think I took an art class in college. So everything I've done has always been self-taught.” [12:11] “No matter if it's a snail's pace or it's not going like I thought it would or I want it to, I still would choose exactly what I'm doing. I would choose exactly what I'm doing. And that is like a breath of fresh air.” [16:39] “For me, the reason motherhood is the lane of my life, is because it is my greatest teacher, it is the way I can navigate some of the most challenging dynamics and topics.” [21:33] “if it speaks to you, and it speaks to the life that you feel called to live, then by making it a part of your space and a part of your home, it's not only going to touch, you will touch the other people that get to come into your life..” [27:27] “I'm a very emotional person, yet I have had to learn in parenting, and in marriage, and in business, all of it, I cannot let my emotions run the show.” [30:45] “I believe that when you take personal ownership, it is the bravest thing that someone can do. And if you have someone who's taking personal ownership, and they're also choosing to break a cycle, they're choosing to lay a new foundation for their life and for future generations.” [42:04]   Connect with Rachael:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelcamfield/?hl=en Website: https://www.rachelcamfield.com/ Better boundaries: www.rachelcamfield.com/betterboundaries Connect with Amber Facebook: Amber Lilyestrom  LinkedIn: Amber Lilyestrom Email us at: hello@amberlilyestrom.com       Resources Rachael’s podcast: The Mother’s Embrace Podcast. Amber’s books: Paddle Home  and      Master Your Money mind. Keva Jewelry:  https://kevastyle.com/collections/artist-series
46:19 06/13/2022
Julie Solomon on How to Get What You Want
Today’s episode is an incredibly special one with my dear friend, Julie Solomon. Julie Solomon is a Speaker, Business Coach, Host of the top rated The Influencer Podcast, and Author of the brand new book, Get What You Want: How to Go From Unseen to Unstoppable (HarperCollins Leadership, June 7, 2022). Julie has launched several successful online programs including Pitch It Perfect, The Influencer Academy, and SHINE Mastermind, which teach clients how to master the important skill sets needed to take a personal brand idea and turn it into a profitable, sustainable business (such as cherry picking brand partnerships that make you thousands a month, or introducing yourself to an influential community of leaders and getting them excited to support you). In her weekly podcast, The Influencer Podcast, Julie offers up real-time coaching, straight talk, and conversations about business growth and personal development to her millions of listeners worldwide. With over a decade of experience in helping individuals turn messages into movements, Julie empowers entrepreneurs to expand their brand and grow their influence.  Julie’s work has been featured in top tier outlets including, FORBES, Entrepreneur, Business Weekly, SUCCESS, and People Magazine. And she was recently named one of the Top 100 leaders in Influencer Marketing by Influence.Co. Her new book, Get What You Want, is for people who are tired of being told “just be yourself,” and teaches you how to shake off outdated ideas of what is possible and use your newfound belief to make anything you want happen. Most importantly, it gives you confidence to love and accept yourself so you become unstoppable.     In this Episode You’ll Learn:  [01:10] All about Julie Solomon [05:22] The story behind her new book her new book Get What You Want: How to Go from Unseen to Unstoppable, [08:29] Julie suiting up and showing up to the world/walking the walk despite the judgments  [10:13] A moment of breakthrough/transformations  for Julie that characterizes her  walking this walk that's in the book [12:40] How Julie would describe herself [15:09] what catalyst led Julie to write her book Get What You Want: How to Go from Unseen to Unstoppable ? [20:36] Julie’s ability to reach out and ask for support + move through adversity [25:25] All about QTIP: “Quit taking it personal.” [27:05] Julie’s keys to success for those interested in building communities online, relationships and personal brands [28:14] Why is Instagram no longer a viable online growth tool? [33:16] In terms of fresh trends, what is currently working in the internet space [37:51] Julie's advice to new online entrepreneurs, including what they can do to incorporate new opportunities and trends into their strategies. [40:22] Where to grab Julie Solomon’s book Get What You Want: How to Go from Unseen to Unstoppable and the ticket to the virtual event   Quotes:  “So there are these moments that I have felt really proud, there are moments that I felt really triggered, there are moments that I felt scared, and there are moments that I felt elated and competent. So it really is just kind of the slew of emotions that can come from when you decide to cut out a piece of your heart and turn that into words, and put them on pages to give to the world as you know..” [05:51] “Any kind of experience is a package deal. Like you can't get, you know, the excitement without the fear, you can't get you know, joy without grief, you can't you can't get those things without kind of the opposite effect.” [06:42] “Something that I have definitely learned through this process. I may be a lot of things, but I am not alone. I am, I'm a communicator at heart. It is how I it is how I shine in the world.” [12:50] “Your fear of being a fraud makes you a fraud. And then makes you not want to be found out.” [15:30] “I feel like there's when you have to recover from something that is that deep rooted within your personality. You know, it takes a while and, and so having the awareness of that was huge for me.” [18:02] “A lot more times people are happily and more than willing to support you. And it also makes them feel really good.” [24:08] “When someone says no to you, if they don't respond, it has nothing to do with you two people are too busy thinking about themselves 99% of the time totally promise you it's nothing personal.” [25:30] “when it comes to connecting to the actual customer, the actual client, it needs to be more management more manual, it needs to be heartfelt, it needs to be more connected more personal.”[34:10]   Connect with Julie Solomon:  Website: https://juliesolomon.net/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/JulsSolomon/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JulsSolomon To Get a Signed Copy of Julie’s new book: https://www.parnassusbooks.net/juliesolomon Pre-Order Page: http://juliesolomon.net/getwhatyouwant           Connect with Amber Facebook: Amber Lilyestrom  LinkedIn: Amber Lilyestrom Email us at: hello@amberlilyestrom.com     Resources Amber’s books: Paddle Home                              Master Your Money mind.
42:15 06/07/2022
Cait Scudder on Why You Were Born to Rise
Today's episode is with my incredible friend and colleague, the one and only Cait Scudder.  Cait Scudder is a high school teacher turned Forbes-featured 7 figure Business Coach for women entrepreneurs. A TEDx speaker, host of the Born to Rise podcast, and internationally recognized online business expert, as well as a loving mama and wife, Cait’s mission is to empower ten million driven, bold-hearted women to uncover their zone of genius and use it to create a profitable, purpose-driven business that changes the world. Her work has been featured in Forbes, Fast Company, and Business Insider among several other publications. Find her inside her free Facebook community, The Radiant Entrepreneur, where she shares weekly free trainings and content for her community of boss babes, or on her website at www.cait.co.  I can't wait to see what this episode unlocks for you. Be sure to tag me in any of your takeaways: @amberlilyestrom 
63:20 05/31/2022
Money Mindset Q&A with Amber
Today I am coming to you live from my IGNITE Mastermind! I'm sharing with you one of our bi-weekly trainings: Money Monday. IGNITE is an accountability community that includes accountability coaching, monthly trainings, Spark sessions and hot seats. Money Mondays are an incredible time to connect with friends and community about your money mindset, sharing what's working and what's not, celebrating wins and recognizing obstacles. Let’s dive in! In this Episode You’ll Learn:  [01:01] About Ignite mastermind [04:37] A member's question on making money goals a reality backing into the month quarter year [13:29] How to keep feeling empowered through the highs and lows [16:21] How to keep focus in the good energy during the messy middle [21:30] Trying to manage the identity of ourselves inside our personal brands, and the ways in which we function sort of in an old way of being when the work that we've been committing ourselves to has challenged us into new understanding, and new ways of seeing [23:01] Challenging clients around their patterns and constructs of comfort [26:32] Imposter syndrome [29:25] My take on why failure is obsolete   Soul Shifting Quotes:  “We have to have a vision, we have to be led by our vision, if the dream is a new, and it’s for you.” [05:17] “The goal is used, I think, as a tool to help us take the action that we're meant to take so we can have the experiences we're meant to have. So we can continue to grow and evolve in the ways that we're meant to grow and evolve.” [07:12] “When we're judging the energy is good or bad. It creates this polarity that that puts us in this sort of like slamming back and forth on the spectrum, instead of just allowing ourselves to be neutral, about what's coming through, even when it feels really hard.” [16:28] “Debts are a reflection or a mirror for our commitments.” [17:37] “Helping people when people need help, is a great thing to do. It's a great thing to do, and it will help you to have a more profitable business. Sooner than later.” [19:50] “Comfortable is a relative term that can really go any which way, given the day of the week, we're going to have a conversation about it.” [22::08] “Money is just a tool that gets to help us in the expression process.” [26:42]   Connect with Amber Facebook: Amber Lilyestrom  LinkedIn: Amber Lilyestrom Email us at: hello@amberlilyestrom.com     Resources Ignite Mastermind Enrol here: https://amberlilyestrom.simplero.com/purchase/133118-IGNITE-Level-2-Mastermind-with-Amber Amber’s Book: Quantum Wealth Book: Untethered Soul Book: Paddle Home Book: Master Your Money Mind  
32:36 05/24/2022
Why Are We Like This: Anxiety Edition
Welcome to May’s episode of Why Are We Like This?: Anxiety Edition   In this month’s episode, Kristen and I share on a topic that’s been popping up for both us, and for our clients + community: anxiety.  Each of us has our own experience of what it feels like to dance with this feeling, and with what stirs it up in us. This episode is all about our own personal exploration of it, along with the shifts we’ve made in our own lives to help navigate and/or relinquish it where possible.  As the world around us becomes even more overwhelming, we’ve both found the importance of managing our nervous systems, controlling what we can, and finding acceptance with (and letting go of) what we can’t.  We hope you enjoy the conversation and if you find some piece of it useful, we’d be honored if you shared and tagged us: @amberlilyestrom and @kristenhubbardwrites over on Instagram!
51:51 05/17/2022
Jessica Bargenquast on Becoming a Lady ChangeMaker
Today’s episode is with the incredible founder of Lady ChangeMakers, the official “Amazon for Women” e-commerce platform.    Jessica is the founder of Lady ChangeMakers, an all inclusive e-commerce platform for women-owned businesses. Jessica is an expert in creating exposure and driving traffic for e-commerce businesses.    She launched Lady ChangeMakers in 2021 in an effort to create a central e-commerce hub for women-owned businesses - think Amazon, but all lady bosses. The platform launched with 25 founding members by invite only, but will open up  membership for additional members In 2022. Today, she is focused on helping women grow their e-commerce more.   We talk about everything from increasing our visibility, to why supporting women-owned businesses is so important, the value of personal growth in building a business and how introverts can still show up while honoring themselves in their businesses.    In this Episode:  [ :45 ] All about today’s guest, Jessica Bargenquast [ 5:55 ] What Lady ChangeMakers is and what inspired Jessica to create it  [ 11:00 ] How Jessica plans to grow Lady ChangeMakers  [ 14:00 ] Tips on how to gain more visibility in your brand + business [ 18:03 ] Jessica’s story and what led her to where she is today  [ 22:20 ] Jessica’s advice for other introverts trying to build businesses  [ 28:30 ] How to move through struggle + “failure” [ 32:15 ] What to do when you’re feeling ready for change  [ 35:40 ] What Jessica would say to a younger version of herself Soul Shifting Quotes:  “Especially now more than ever, empathy is needed in this world.”  “My entire mission is to help women-owned businesses be seen.”  “Nobody told me I had to personally grow for my business to be able to.”  Links Mentioned:  Join the  free 4-Day Challenge, SEEN: Your Visibility Breakthrough  Read Lean Out by Melissa Orr  Follow Jessica over on Instagram Check out Lady ChangeMakers and apply to get on the directory! Go to https://ladychangemakers.com/giveaways/ to enter a win a box of women owned business’ products! Head here to book a Breakthrough Call  Email us at: hello@amberlilyestrom.com   Tag me your big shifts + takeaways: @amberlilyestrom Did you hear something you loved here today?! Leave a Review + Subscribe via iTunes  Listen on Spotify 
39:54 05/10/2022
Rosie Acosta on Being Radically Loved
  Rosie Acosta has studied yoga and mindfulness for more than 20 years, and has been a teacher for over a decade. She hosts a weekly conversational wellness podcast called Radically Loved. She's travelled all over the world leading workshops, retreats and yoga teacher trainings. Rosie works with a wide range of students from those in her East Los Angeles community to Olympic athletes, NFL champions, NBA All Stars and veterans of war. She's a first generation Mexican American, and her mission is to help others overcome adversity and experience radical love. She has been featured by Yoga Journal, Well and Good, Forbes + The New York Post. You Are Radically Loved: A Healing Journey to Self-Love is Rosie Acosta's story of how she used her trauma as an opportunity for radical self-love. This book offers hope, healing, and a new way of loving yourself (even if you feel like you have nothing to give.) Rosie tells her own story of shattering the cycle of abandonment, abuse and silence she grew up in...and how her own healing journey led her to finding peace, joy and freedom in herself, which she now wants to share with you. In this Episode You’ll Learn:  [01:35] All about Rosie Acosta [03:13] Rosie’s program and a personal invitation to connect. [04:32] How to radicalize the coaching industry [06:51] The meaning of radical and why radically loved [09:47] Rosie’s foundation [15:00] Things that led Rosie to radical love journey [19:40] Putting the work to allow the prayers of others come true [23:25] The purpose of invitation throughout out You Are Radically Loved: A Healing Journey to Self-Love book [25:19] Rosie’s s relationship with her body and the dissociation [32:14] Rosie’s grateful and humbling moments [34:57] Why Rosie would wish to thank her kindergarten teacher [37:25] Rosie’s commitment, opening and what is making her feel new and excited during the book writing [38:06] The writing process [43:03] Where you can get a copy of You Are Radically Loved: A Healing Journey to Self-Love   Quotes:  “We are radically loved by God source, higher power, whatever your belief system is that the universe works for us, not against us.” [07:48] “Bad things happen to bad people. And so, I had this cognitive dissonance that if that is the case, then why do bad things keep happening to really good people.” [11:33] “One of your the big parts of your story is your own relationship with Self and how that manifested through your body and your self concept.” [24:56] “I didn't have a great relationship to my body, I had a tenuous relationship with my body at best, it was a vessel, it was a meat sack.” [25:19] “I would have some of my girlfriends would say, oh, if it doesn't hurt, it's not worth it.” [27:45] “Books are my most favorite thing to give to people and my most favorite thing to receive.” [41:48]   Links Mentioned:  To schedule call: https://evoution.com/ To purchase the book: https://bookshop.org/                                           https://www.booksandbooks.com/ Connect with Rosie Acosta: Website: https://www.radicallyloved.com/about Instagram: @rosieacosta Twitter: @RosieAcosta LinkedIn: Rosie Acosta Connect with Amber Facebook: Amber Lilyestrom  LinkedIn: Amber Lilyestrom Email us at: hello@amberlilyestrom.com     Resources Amber’s books: Paddle Home                             Master Your Money mind. Rosie Acosta Book: You Are Radically Loved: A Healing Journey to Self-Love
44:40 05/03/2022
Amber Lilyestrom on Understanding the Bigger Picture of our Lives
In today’s solo episode, I’m catching up on what’s been happening in our world over the last few weeks. It’s been a season of ups and downs, and life lessons (as they do) are abounding. I’m sharing what I’m learning about understanding the bigger picture of life and easing up on the pressure we have been placing on ourselves, once and for all.    In this Episode:  [ 3:18 ] How valuable our own well-being is  [ 4:41 ] Letting where we are be perfectly okay [ 9:00 ] Understanding the bigger picture  [17:00 ] What’s exciting me most in this season of life Soul Shifting Quotes:  “When we choose kindness for ourselves, we live differently.”  “What greater gift is there than being known, seen and loved?”  “You accomplish so much more than you give yourself credit for.”    Links Mentioned:  Listen to our Adoption Journey podcast! Learn about the mindset “cheat code” that can change everything Head here to book a Breakthrough Call 
22:32 04/26/2022
Toni Marinucci on Once Upon a Diet
If you’ve ever struggled with your relationship to your body or to food, today’s conversation is a powerful one for you.  Toni Marinucci is the owner of Tips with Toni, teaching people how not to diet. Her team of Registered Dietician’s provide online nutrition coaching to help women break free from the ‘all or nothing’ mindset and encourage balance instead. Toni's mission is to end restrictive diet culture by providing simple tips to healthy living while incorporating the foods you love. She recently gave a TEDx talk and wrote a book titled Once Upon a Diet, where she discusses the parallels between dieting, dating, and romantic relationships, and how we treat them the same. In this episode, we discuss the parallels between dieting and how we treat our bodies, our relationships, and our businesses. We also discuss the ways in which we withhold from ourselves, we disassociate, and the ways in which we perpetuate old patterns. This is such an expansive and encouraging conversation, that I hope will serve you well. As a note: today we discuss eating orders and our experiences with them. If this is a sensitive topic for you right now this might not be the podcast for you to listen to at the moment. Please always honor your needs first, this information will be here for you to listen to whenever you feel ready.    In this Episode You’ll Learn:  [3:41] All about Once Upon a Diet [13:20] Toni’s mission to changing the narrative around food  [21:00] Why how we fuel ourselves is so important  [24:20] What is the hunger scale?  [30:10] The body positivity movement [36:27] Making space to create in your own world  Quotes:  “You’re not going to go from a place of hating your body to loving your body overnight.” [16:25] “When you use food to practice mindfulness… you become more mindful in general.” [28:25] “When you feel good, you do good.” [28:42] “If you continue to chase what society wants you to be you’re never going to be happy.” [33:50] Links Mentioned:  Contact Kristina Toni Marinucci:  Instagram: @tips_with_toni Book: Once Upon a Diet Website: www.tipswithtoni.com/coaching  Email us at: hello@amberlilyestrom.com  
42:03 04/12/2022
Amber and Ben on Our Adoption Journey.
Our son is HERE!  Ben and I are beyond elated to welcome Alexander Benjamin Lilyestrom into our family and to share the journey that led us here with each and every one of you. It’s the truth of all truths that we could not have planned for this to unfold in the miraculous way it did, even if we tried. In this week’s episode, we sit down to talk about our journey to becoming a family of four, and what we’ve learned about ourselves (and each other) along the way.  Tag me your big shifts + takeaways: @amberlilyestrom Did you hear something you loved here today?! Leave a Review + Subscribe via iTunes  Listen on Spotify 
41:25 04/05/2022
Lauryn Laszczak on Somatic Business Coaching
Lauryn is a somatic business coach, breathwork facilitator, speaker, retreat host, wife and mom. She spent over a decade building businesses that allow space for truly living and she inspires others to do the same. She's also the creator of the wealth lab and online community giving women the tools and permission to experiment and discover their unique money-making formula. Moreover, Lauryn is a serial entrepreneur, founder of Meadows Realty Group, The Detroit mobile bar and Retreat to Reclaim. Lauryn has been featured by Detroit moms, Metro Detroit weddings, Dance Collective and more. She's built a multiple six figure business while being present with her family. She lives in Michigan with her high school sweetheart turn husband, Ronnie, and their two daughters and their one angel son. It has been a privilege to journey with her to witness her healing process and the ways in which she's come into the fullness of who she really is and what her work in the world is. Today’s conversation is a powerful one, and I'd also like to add a heartfelt and sensitive warning for those who aren't in a position to listen to a conversation about pregnancy or infant loss at this time in their lives. Lauryn shares a very personal part of her story, and it may be difficult for those who are healing to listen to such stories in this season of life. So, for our listening audience and family's sake, I just want to put that very sensitively. I also urge you to listen to this conversation if you're feeling up to it, because Lauryn is a gift, and her teachings as a somatic business coach and as someone who is here to help women create businesses that allow for real life to happen, are a profound blessing. In this Episode You’ll Learn:  [01:04] Today’s guest, Lauryn Laszczak [05:43] Lauryn's inspiring story, which takes us back to her transformational coaching journey. [09:09] All about Lauryn’s awakening [10:04] Lauryn's stillbirth and how she was able to navigate through it with the help of family and friends [17:52] Lauryn breaking out moments and the voices she listened to [23:21] How Lauryn moved through her healing  [29:28] Why Lauryn was initially hesitant to work with coaches and why when you give, you also receive  [36:27] Lauryn's advice on how to make the transition from teaching to clarity [37:02] Get to know more about downloads and how you can use them to your advantage   Quotes:  “The work we get to do for ourselves, that is the gift we later get to give others.” [00:23] “This is about giving women more choice, like choice to decide, like, I'm not going right back to work, I am not going back to normal there. In fact, there is just no normal anymore.” [13:28] “To keep it all inside, and not letting ourselves receive support is, is really the reason why we suffer so deeply.” [17:12] “Is that these beliefs, these stories we hold so deeply, we find so much proof for them Amber like, I mean, I have all the proof like, this happened to me. And it goes even beyond that if we look at our stories from childhood. And so, it's like, it's never going to just go away, but you still have to continue to move through it. “[19:59] “Not everything we do has to be for a business, not everything that we invest in has to be for something to create for somebody else; we do get to do this work for ourselves, too. “[25:58] “The more that you grow, the more everything in your life will grow “[26:28] “To allow for the downloads to come like give yourself enough space to actually process like, what could that be? What would that look like? Would my hearts be really interested in this? Like, allow yourself to question that, and, and then listen, and then take some small actions for it.” [36:40] “I'm not the same person today that I was yesterday.” [42:05]   Links Mentioned:  Connect with Lauryn Lasczack:  Website: https://www.laurynlaszczak.com/workwithlaurynlaszczak  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iam_lauryn/   Email us at: hello@amberlilyestrom.com  
46:27 03/29/2022
Shakira Hemphill on Being a Woman of Worth
Shakira Hemphill is the principal and founder of Women of Worth INC., a faith-based non-profit based out of Washington DC. Its mission is to educate, empower, and engage teenage girls and women in identifying their WOW affect. Shakira is a bold, purpose driven woman of God, that believes in the power of prayer, faith, and connection. She is a sought-after author, purpose coach, transformational leader, an inspirational speaker. One of her most important roles is being a mother to her young king Elijah on his unique and beautiful journey. Shakira is committed to helping women overcome burnout, embrace their worth, and reconnect with faith.  In today’s episode, we talk about motherhood and the journey that she has gone through in raising her son through some physical challenges and the ways in which she teaches Elijah to not only see himself but also to see the world. Plus we discuss the beautiful + profound ways in which he teaches her, and the world, to see themselves so much more clearly. Let’s rock! In this Episode You’ll Learn:  [5:05] Who is Shakira? [8:10] Influences in your life [12:30] Living beneath your calling [19:07] The Woman of Worth [24:14] Young King Elijah  [31:58] The power of vision Quotes:  “I began to see…my experiences and see they happen for me versus they happen to me” [7:08] “Behind the voice is the story” [11:41] “I want women to love who they are” [20:35] “You can’t build anything in life without relationship” [23:15] Links Mentioned:  Contact Shakira Hemphill:  Instagram: @thewomanofworth Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/liveoutyourwhy/  Email us at: hello@amberlilyestrom.com  
44:51 03/22/2022
Why Are We Like This: Navigating Tough Times
In this month’s episode of Why Are We Like This, Kristen and I sat down to talk about our experience from our recent ELEVATE retreat on Santa Rosa Beach in Florida. Plus, we share in depth about how we’re navigating the overwhelm of what’s happening in the world around us, how we are each individually finding the balance between peace and activation (though they aren’t mutually exclusive,) and how we’ve both found ourselves wading through grief + the many ways we’ve found to keep moving forward as we do.    We love getting to dive into these topics each month with you, so if there’s something you’d like for us to discuss, please send an email to hello@amberlilyestrom.com or send me a DM over on Instagram with your topic suggestions!    Links Mentioned:  Starting Building Your Signature Offer TODAY! Tag us your big shifts + takeaways: @amberlilyestrom + @kristenhubbardwrites Did you hear something you loved here today?! Leave a Review + Subscribe via iTunes  Listen on Spotify 
59:07 03/15/2022