Do you wish you had more confidence? Less stress? Some guidance for going after your goals? If so, this podcast is for you. Join Master Certified Life Coach and author of Period Power, Maisie Hill, as she shares insights and strategies that you can start applying today. Each episode will help you identify and free yourself from your limiting beliefs so you can stop hiding and start shining. You’ll get answers to questions like: How do I build my self-confidence? Why is my inner critic so loud? How do I decrease my stress and anxiety? How can I care less about what others think? Why do I feel so stuck and how do I get unstuck? With two decades of professional experience under her belt, Maisie helps you drop the cycle of inner criticism, shame, and self-judgement so you can feel at home in your mind and body. For more information on how Maisie can help you transform your life from the inside out and for other free resources, visit maisiehill.com.
Fear of judgment, the weight of new responsibilities, or even self-doubt often bubble up during times of growth. It’s easy to convince yourself that staying small is the safer option, but that’s just the rubber band of comfort snapping back. By embracing what’s hard and staying in the moment, you start to see that the fear of failure or being “not enough” doesn’t hold the power you think it does. Growth isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being willing to show up, flaws and all. Making space for the next level starts with shifting your perspective. Focus on possibilities, celebrate progress, and make intentional decisions. There’s a freedom in owning what you’re not great at and leaning into your strengths instead. With practical insights and an exercise to help you anchor your decisions, this episode is your guide to moving forward with clarity, confidence, and a mindset ready for expansion. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/204
12/4/24 • 22:31
It starts with reflection – how often do we assume life just “happens” to us? Much of what we experience stems from our choices and the responsibility we take for them. When we stop blaming external factors, we unlock the power to create change. Shifting from "why is this happening to me?" to "what can I control?" is where empowerment begins. Learn how to evaluate outcomes, replicate successes, and approach setbacks with self-compassion. Discover strategies for taking control and fostering healthy relationships. Take charge of your results – you’ve got this. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/203
11/27/24 • 25:44
Ami Jai, a West London lawyer and cherished member of The Flow Collective, shares her journey through grief, inherited trauma, and the tools she used to build a deeper connection with herself. Through the lens of her year-long journey in the membership, she reveals the profound impact of community self-coaching tools, and nervous system education in creating a sense of safety and connection within herself. Learn how to create safety within yourself, redefine your relationship with security, and find the courage to expand into new territories of possibility. Whether it’s navigating big life transitions, like selling a home or embracing uncertainty, or using tools like thought mapping and somatic practices to understand your emotions. This episode is a testament to what becomes possible when you lean into self-trust and growth. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/202
11/20/24 • 81:21
Hard days can hit us out of nowhere, draining our energy and leaving us feeling lost in self-judgement. After a recent trip, I returned with my voice completely gone - a shutdown triggered by my nervous system’s need for rest and recovery. It’s a reminder of how crucial it is to recognise when we’re overwhelmed and need to step back and recharge. That’s where Hard Day Protocols come in. Learn how to create your own Hard Day Protocol, a tailored plan that meets you where you are, without judgement. Discover how to take the things you already do and use them as tools to accept yourself on difficult days, whether that means ignoring emails, skipping meals, or letting your kids have extra screen time. This isn’t about self-improvement; it’s about self-compassion and giving yourself the grace to cope without the weight of guilt. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/201
11/13/24 • 18:09
Lately, I’ve been diving back into a long-time passion: horse riding. What began as a way to reconnect with myself quickly turned into a journey of life lessons. From overcoming envy to embracing desire without judgement, each ride has revealed new layers of self-understanding and motivation. It’s been a powerful reminder that growth often starts with simply allowing ourselves to want more. Tune in to discover how these insights apply to more than just riding. This episode is packed with lessons on commitment, self-compassion, and the value of community. Hear about the importance of taking massive action, celebrating small wins, and harnessing what’s around us to fuel our personal growth. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/200
11/6/24 • 39:45
Have you ever faced a setback that made you question your abilities? Challenges can shake our confidence, but they also spark growth. By shifting our perspective, we can view setbacks as opportunities to build resilience. Join me this week to discover seven essential steps for turning setbacks into comebacks. Whether it’s a minor hurdle or a major challenge, this episode is filled with insights to help you reclaim confidence. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/199
10/30/24 • 28:31
Have you ever paused to ask yourself why you seek balance? What exactly about balance do you find so appealing? You'll explore the key challenges my clients face when striving to achieve their goals. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by your daily routines, working long hours, or stretched too thin, this episode is for you. I delve into the concept of balance, highlighting moments when your current perceptions of it might be more of a hindrance than a help. Discover how to cultivate self-trust in finding and maintaining balance, why aiming for balance might not always be the best approach, and what alternative goal you could set instead. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/198
10/23/24 • 43:22
Friendships are often one of the most overlooked relationships, yet they significantly shape our emotional well-being. This is why I sat down with Jewel Hohman, a friendship and connection coach, to discuss why cultivating deep, meaningful friendships is as important as any other relationship in our lives. Jo shares her journey, from her own experiences with social anxiety to becoming a coach who helps others build fulfilling friendships. Tune in this week to learn why it's essential to prioritise quality over quantity in friendships. Discover how to break free from unrealistic expectations, and how introverts, neurodivergent individuals, and shy people can build the deep connections they seek. We also explore ways to repair friendships after conflicts and how small acts of authenticity can create long-lasting bonds. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/197
10/16/24 • 46:54
Have you ever noticed that sometimes, the biggest obstacle standing in your way is you? Self-sabotage can be a sneaky force, subtly undermining your efforts without you even realising it. From procrastination and perfectionism to avoiding new challenges, these behaviours often stem from underlying fears or doubts that keep us stuck in the same frustrating cycles. Tune in this week to learn how to catch self-sabotage before it derails your goals. I’ll break down common patterns that we use to avoid uncomfortable emotions, and explore how these actions can silently sabotage our progress. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/196
10/9/24 • 23:10
Slowing down creates the space to fix what isn't working, whether in your business, personal life, or mindset. Rather than continually pushing for more, a strategic pause allows you to course-correct and address deeper issues that may be holding you back. It’s not about losing momentum, but about ensuring every step forward is intentional and sustainable. Learn how to embrace the art of slowing down without losing sight of your goals. We’ll explore practical ways to integrate reflection into your routine, why rest and preparation are key to long-term success, and how pausing can ultimately help you move forward with greater power and precision. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/195
10/2/24 • 26:10
As we explore unsolicited advice, it’s important to reflect on personal experiences—whether giving or receiving it. Have you ever felt judged when someone offered advice you didn’t ask for? Or found yourself crossing that line with others? Even with the best intentions, advice can often feel more intrusive than helpful. Discover why we feel compelled to give advice, especially when it’s not requested, and how it can affect relationships. You’ll gain insights into the social and emotional dynamics behind this habit and learn how to approach these situations with more awareness. Whether you're prone to giving advice or often on the receiving end, this episode will help you understand when it’s better to step back, listen, and allow others to find their own solutions. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/194
9/25/24 • 23:49
Lately, I’ve been noticing the cycles of nature and how they reflect the way we move through life. We all experience periods of growth followed by times when we need to pull back and conserve energy. As autumn approaches, I’ve been thinking about how this mirrors the need to clear space in our minds and lives for what truly matters. Tune in today to explore how to break free from these thought patterns. Learn how to question the beliefs behind your 'shoulds,' interrupt negative self-talk, and create a healthier mindset. Let’s dive into making intentional choices that align with where you are, not where you think you should be. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/193
9/18/24 • 24:44
During coaching sessions, I often work with clients towards their goals, and along the way, they’ll express a need to change some aspect of their personality, as if labelling themselves as the problem. What fascinates me is how self-criticism sneaks in, with people believing they need to “fix” themselves to move forward. I’m here to challenge that mindset – you don’t need to escape who you are. Tune in this week to explore how to shift your self-narrative. We’ll discuss how the language you use shapes your self-esteem and actions. Learn to recognise your strengths while acknowledging areas for growth. This episode is about balance – accepting who you are while making room for change from a place of self-love and belief. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/192
9/11/24 • 19:01
Imagine stepping into a sleek boardroom with expansive views and luxurious decor. At the centre is a large table, and one of the chairs is yours - the CEO. Whether this mirrors your real-life role or not, in this space, you hold the authority. Tune in today to explore self-leadership. Learn to manage the conflicting voices within, turning internal chaos into a harmonious conversation that drives you towards your goals. Whether navigating a major life decision or seeking deeper self-understanding, this episode offers practical insights to help you lead your own life. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/191
9/4/24 • 20:51
Years ago, I discovered a practice called TRE - Trauma Release Exercises - that taught me something profound about how we hold tension and trauma in our bodies. It’s a natural process, much like the way animals instinctively shake off stress. I found it so impactful that I began recommending it to clients, realising how much our bodies can heal when we let go rather than force change. Tune in to today’s episode to learn about rethinking your approach to self-improvement. Instead of trying to change from a place of self-criticism or judgement, consider where your motivation is coming from. We’ll explore how to make lasting changes that are rooted in kindness, compassion, and true self-care. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/190
8/28/24 • 16:56
Many of us hold limiting beliefs about buying, like "I can never find anything that fits," or "I always overspend." These thoughts can prevent us from making purchases that truly serve us. What if we could recognize and challenge these beliefs to make more empowered decisions? In this episode, we’ll explore the red flags in our thinking, how to create a shopping strategy that works for you, and the questions you should be asking before making any purchase. Learn how to shop more mindfully, avoid buyer’s remorse, and make decisions that feel right for you—every time. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/189
8/21/24 • 42:26
The past few weeks have been a blur. I’ve been quite ill, feeling disconnected and scattered. This unexpected slowdown, combined with the on-and-off summer weather, has left me grappling with the idea of the void—a transitional space where everything feels raw and uncertain. In this episode, I invite you to explore the void with me. We’ll discuss what it’s like to be in that in-between space, the importance of shedding old identities, and finding peace amidst uncertainty. Whether you’re feeling burnt out, going through a change, or curious about navigating these moments, tune in this week to discover how the void can be a powerful space for growth and transformation. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/188
8/14/24 • 31:29
Identity is not a fixed concept; it’s a layered, evolving part of who we are. Our sense of self often hinges on how others perceive us, but true identity comes from within, shaped by our unique experiences and actions. It’s much like updating the operating system on your phone – necessary for staying current and functional. Learn about the stages of an identity shift, from the initial subtle signs to the moment of full embodiment. I share personal stories, insights, and practical advice on recognising and navigating these shifts in your own life. Whether you’re facing a significant change or just feeling a bit out of sync with who you are, this episode helps you embrace your evolving identity with curiosity and confidence. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/187
8/7/24 • 40:03
Recently, I’ve paid close attention to my decision-making process and realised how easily we can talk ourselves out of what we know deep down. We make choices quickly but spend days or even years rationalising a different path. If you’ve ever hesitated or doubted your choices, you’re not alone. This week, I encourage you to pay attention to those small sparks of potential inside you. Let’s explore how to recognise those inner nudges and their significance in our lives. If you’re ready to trust your instincts and embrace your true self, let’s dive in together! Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/186
7/31/24 • 20:05
Have you ever wondered how the thoughts running through your mind shape your feelings and actions? It's all about the art of self-coaching and understanding how shifting your thought patterns can make a huge difference. By recognising the think-feel-do cycle, you can start creating more positive experiences in your daily life. Learn the tools for assessing your thoughts, strategies for making beneficial changes, and insights into aligning your mindset with your desired outcomes. Whether you're looking to boost self-awareness, enhance emotional well-being, or simply gain better control over your thoughts, this episode offers valuable guidance. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/185
7/24/24 • 28:53
With the Euros and Wimbledon just wrapping up, I’ve been thinking a lot about competition and how it’s everywhere right now. It's got me reflecting on the importance of just daring to enter and giving things a go. It's not always about winning but about making those heroic attempts and finding new ways to measure success. The real victory is showing up, counting yourself in, and taking part, no matter what happens. I redefine what winning means, and dive deeper into focusing on effort, being present, and having the courage to show up. Whether it’s applying for a job, getting back into the dating scene, or tackling a new challenge, this episode will inspire you to count yourself in so join me to build resilience, boost your confidence, and appreciate the value of heroic attempts. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/184
7/17/24 • 18:33
As we get older, taking on new endeavours can feel quite different from our usual routines. However, stepping into unknown territory brings a fresh set of feelings and beliefs to the surface. This week, I want to discuss what it means to become a beginner again and how to embrace it, regardless of how good you are at it. Explore the nuances of adopting a beginner's mindset. I share reflective questions to help you identify what’s holding you back and offer strategies to find joy in the learning process. Learn how to balance constructive self-criticism with self-compassion and celebrate every step of your journey, no matter how small. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/183
7/10/24 • 25:35
I have a very special guest with me today, folks. Clair, a cherished member of the Flow Collective, joins us to share her incredible journey since discovering our community. Her story is one of resilience and transformation, turning a life filled with stress and upheaval into one of empowerment and balance. Clair's experiences are truly inspiring, and I can't wait for you to hear all about them. Discover what drew Clair to The Flow Collective, how being part of it has taught her to allow her emotions, set boundaries, and show herself compassion, and the tremendous benefits that have come with her learning to feel more empowered and make herself a priority in her life. Clair shares more about her journey of self-discovery, as well as practical strategies to help you feel more empowered in your day-to-day life. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/182
6/26/24 • 50:52
With the summer solstice approaching, I invite you to join me this week to tap into summer’s expansive energy. I’ll guide you through dismantling self-imposed barriers, embracing desire, and stepping confidently into your next chapter. Discover how summer’s dynamic qualities resonate with your journey, both internally and externally, and learn how harnessing this energy can propel you toward your aspirations. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/181
6/19/24 • 16:36
This week, I want to take you on a journey back to New York City, where I recently returned with my husband and son, Nelson. Reflecting on this trip, I thought about how we approach our goals through unconventional paths. Today's episode focuses on what happens when you put the cart before the horse. For example, I once bought a horse trailer before having a car to tow it, showing how committing to an end goal can motivate you to figure out the steps along the way. Hear why making bold commitments, even if premature, can create the momentum you need. I share tips on embracing calculated risks and turning aspirations into action. Discover how to put your desires into action and move confidently towards your dreams. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/180
6/12/24 • 18:14
We explore how our social bonds and evolutionary history shape our need for recognition. Being thanked makes us feel good, while the absence of gratitude can feel jarring. This expectation can turn well-intentioned acts into sources of bitterness, especially in roles often taken for granted. It's crucial to shift focus from unreciprocated gratitude to the moments when appreciation is expressed. Uncover how managing expectations of gratitude can transform your perspective and relationships. Learn how to find satisfaction in genuine giving and maintain your self-worth regardless of external acknowledgment. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/179
6/5/24 • 18:59
Unnecessary apologies, whether due to a desire to avoid conflict or just an ingrained habit, can reveal a lot about our inner fears and anxieties. Drawing from my own experiences and those of my friends, I want to explore how these apologies impact our interactions and self-perception. Uncover the reasons behind over-apologising and learn practical strategies to break this habit. Discover how to recognise when you're doing it, why it's happening, and how to replace "sorry" with more constructive responses. Join us on this journey to embrace a more confident, unapologetic you. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/178
5/29/24 • 19:50
How often do you find yourself reacting to a situation and then judging yourself for that reaction? Despite working on yourself, it's common to self-criticise and even become frustrated with your own thoughts and internal responses. This week, I'm here to help you shift this mindset with bold moves and a compassionate relationship with yourself. Discover the importance of controlling your inner critic and how to handle negative feelings constructively. By embracing self-compassion and realistic expectations, you can alleviate the pressure of unrealistic perfection and develop a healthier, more productive way of interacting with your thoughts and emotions. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/177
5/22/24 • 19:42
Riding a bike takes a lot of patience - it's about finding your balance, keeping your focus, and not letting setbacks deter you. But what's truly crucial is just getting started, taking that first wobbly pedal forward. Because it's the momentum you create that keeps you going, propelling you past the doubts and fears that may hold you back. Learn the valuable lessons gleaned from our adventure, from the power of starting small to the symbiotic relationship between balance and momentum. Discover how embracing the journey, with all its uncertainties and wobbles, can lead to profound personal growth and a newfound appreciation for life's beautiful imperfections. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/176
5/15/24 • 18:42
Have you ever thought about writing your book but felt totally lost in the labyrinth of publishing? Well, this week I’m taking you on a journey through my own book deal, answering your questions and demystifying the process for any aspiring authors that might be listening. I'm sharing some practical advice on what a book proposal encompasses, what to expect from the financial side of things, and how to keep the motivational fire burning bright throughout the writing journey. Whether you're itching to write your masterpiece or just curious about the behind-the-scenes magic, I've got you covered this week! Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.maisiehill.com/175
5/8/24 • 31:00
