Join Ryan Kalamaya and one of our family law attorneys Elizabeth Hardman in our insightful discussion as they share their top five tips for those contemplating a premarital agreement. We'll shed light on the benefits of such agreements and emphasize the significance of engaging legal counsel to guarantee its validity and enforceability and why discussions about finances are critical before tying the knot, particularly if there are substantial financial differences between the spouses.Understand the importance of financial disclosure, the risks of rushing the process, and the possible hazards of entering an agreement without full knowledge of your partner's financial situation. They also discuss how courts perceive premarital agreements made on the brink of marriage and the implications of waiving alimony or maintenance. Learn why it's crucial to be prepared to walk away from the agreement or even the wedding if it's not fair, and find out the importance of videotaping the signing of the agreement and maintaining a secure record of it.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Matrimonial attorney Lisa Zeiderman joins Ryan on this episode of Divorce at Altitude to discuss financial abuse and manipulation within a marital context. Lisa is the managing partner of Miller Zeiderman LLP in New York City and serves as the Vice President of the executive board for Savvy Ladies, which is a nationwide non-profit that helps women empower themselves through financial literacy.Ryan and Lisa's conversation navigates through the sometimes grey-area between naivety and abuse, and provides valuable insights on prevention strategies. They also discuss how to tackle a divorce situation where financial abuse is present - from recognizing the importance of discovery, selecting the right attorney, to being proactive in your own financial advisory team. Ryan and Lisa also examine the critical role of forensic accountants and valuation experts in such scenarios. What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Ryan unravel the complexities of permanent alimony or maintenance in a Colorado divorce from understanding the actual meaning of 'permanent' in this context to exploring the modification of spousal support post-divorce. Leaning on real-world examples, Ryan further explains the purpose behind spousal support and its role in transitioning a party towards self-sufficiency and will help you understand the guidelines for the duration of maintenance based on the Colorado Law.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Drawn from Ryan's recent two-month sojourn in the charming locales of Portugal and Spain, this episode focuses on navigating the intriguing concept of sabbaticals. Amy and Ryan focus on the profound transformative power of time-off, a narrative rich with insights that will inspire you to contemplate your own venture. They also scrutinize the diverse programs on offer and brainstorm on ways to seamlessly incorporate them into our business models.Vividly painting the essence of familial connection and the luxurious joy of time spent unwinding, Amy and Ryan also discuss how immersion in foreign cultures and the slower European pace of life can catalyze innovation and provide fresh perspectives. Particularly for those in demanding professions such as law, sabbaticals can act as a rejuvenating elixir and stave off burnout.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Dare we say it? Kevin Costner's divorce case with its contested premarital agreement, is one for the books - one that might rival any of his Hollywood screenplays. A prenup stating a $1.5 million payout to Christine Baumgartner upon divorce, child support complexities, parenting time issues - can this be contested considering his net worth is considerably more this many years after the agreement was drafted? In this episode, Ryan and Amy dissect the known details about his premarital agreement, discuss its enforceability, and delve into the attorneys' strategies as they move forward in this divorce case.  They also discuss the general unenforceability of certain clauses in premarital agreements. They also contrast Colorado's lack of case law on premarital agreements with other states, like California and New York.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Parental alienation is a frequently used term in custody cases, but it's essential to understand that there are two distinct types: unintentional and intentional parental alienation. In this re-broadcasted informative discussion with Ryan Kalamaya on Divorce at Altitude, family law attorney Jill Coil highlights the differences between these types and provides practical strategies and advice for parents dealing with an alienating co-parent. Gain valuable insights to effectively navigate through challenging situations and protect the well-being of your child.About Jill CoilJill Coil founded Coillaw in December of 2014 with the goal of empathizing, protecting, and advocating for families through legal representation.  She has received many awards in Utah for her on-going work in family law cases and her avocation for her clients.  Jill also has a tech start up called Simpleending.com bringing affordable quality online divorce technology to the public without the need to hire an attorney.  She also recently launched a female led Personal Injury firm, Moxie Law Group. She is actively engaged in her community through charitable work through The Coil foundation which she started with her husband. She is a mother of four amazing children and when possible loves to travel the world. What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

It is common for couples to enter into pre-marital agreements prior to a marriage, often containing a waiver of maintenance.But are these waivers enforceable? Well, in Colorado, not necessarily.  In this short how-to episode, Ryan explains an important case, Newman v Newman, which establishes that it goes against public policy for a court to enforce a maintenance waiver if it would be unfair or unconscionable.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

In this informative episode, Ryan defines what a maintenance or alimony buyout means. Essentially, it is a one-time lump sum payment made by one spouse to the other, instead of ongoing future payments. To help illustrate this concept in different scenarios, he uses our hypothetical divorce clients, Eric and Melanie Wolf.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

A divorce process can often be physically and emotionally draining for both parties and children involved, especially if the case goes to trial. In this re-broadcasted episode, Ryan Kalamaya and Gabrielle Hartley sit down to discuss the positive divorce movement and her Better Apart Method, which are changing how people think about divorce. They also highlight the importance of finding amicable solutions during separation. They explore various topics, including the adverse effects of litigation and conflict in a divorce, how to avoid conflict in the divorce process, and when a mediator realizes that a case might need to go to trial. They also discuss the steps a mediator can take to ensure that an agreement sticks.About Gabrielle HartleyGabrielle Hartley, Esq., is a leading online mediator and family law attorney known for keeping 99% of her cases at the settlement table.  She  is the author of Better Apart; The Radically Positive Way to Separate  which received a glowing recommendation from Gwyneth Paltrow and People Magazine.Before opening the Better Apart® Blitz Online Divorce Mediation Gabrielle clerked in matrimonial court in NYC where she resolved HUNDREDS of high conflict divorces.She is a sought after expert in the positive divorce space in media outlets such as The New York Times, The New York Post, Real Simple, Vice and many others as well as a frequent podcast guest.She's a regular guest on NBC Mass Appeal.  Gabrielle is the incoming co-chair of the American Bar Association Mediation Committee.Gabrielle trains divorce professionals in the Better Apart Method Online to help other lawyers and mediators to keep more cases out of court.  Gabrielle is also of counsel to a top litigation firm in New York City.  Learn how to work with Gabrielle at gabriellehartley.com.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

In a Colorado divorce, there are two different types of alimony payments: temporary and permanent. In this how-to episode, Ryan explains that temporary maintenance serves as a payment from one party to the other during the divorce proceedings to ensure financial stability.It's important to note that temporary maintenance is different from permanent maintenance, which is paid after the divorce is finalized.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Navigating a high conflict divorce can be extremely difficult. That’s why we sat down with Liz Merrill, mediator, divorce coach, and someone who’s faced her own high conflict divorce. We delve into the complexities of what a high conflict divorce looks like, the potential scenarios one may encounter, and signs that might indicate you're dealing with a high conflict individual. Drawing from her personal experiences, Liz shares crucial insights on maintaining mental and emotional wellbeing amidst the storm.Liz and Amy shine a light on the mediator's role in these volatile circumstances, and how they can help guide decisions that are in the best interest of any children involved and explore an array of techniques aimed at diffusing high conflict situations and establishing healthy boundaries. If you are interested in getting a hold of Liz for mediation, divorce coaching, or other divorce resources you can find her at https://www.openspacemediation.com/.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

In this short how-to episode, Ryan Kalamaya gives a short introduction into the topic of spousal support, also known as alimony or maintenance, as part of our comprehensive coverage of support issues in a Colorado divorce. The most important thing when it comes to spousal support is that it hinges on the distribution of property. We will explore other factors such as income, reasonable needs, and additional intricate matters in future episodes. What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

In this short "how-to" episode, Ryan Kalamaya discusses purpose of temporary alimony, meant to buoy the lower-earning spouse during the divorce proceedings, and the variables that can affect it. Following that, Ryan talks about the concept of permanent maintenance, its role, duration, and the factors that influence its allocation. We'll dive into trends surrounding permanent maintenance awards, and remind you that securing maintenance isn't guaranteed.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Welcome back to another episode of Divorce at Altitude where we're taking an essential look at the often overlooked tax implications during a divorce process. Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha emphasize the advantages of consulting a tax professional and discuss strategies lawyers use to orchestrate a divorce process that benefits all parties.They delve into the complexities of real estate transactions and their tax ramifications, covering capital gains tax, the additional Medicare tax, and the trend of 1031 exchanges. They also illuminate how tax basis and capital gains are handled in divorce situations, and detail the tax implications with spousal maintenance and child support. Ryan and Amy also touch upon the implications of accelerated depreciation, child tax credit, the mortgage interest deduction, the dependency exemption, and the capital loss deduction. This episode is a must listen for anyone seeking a comprehensive understanding of the role taxes play in a divorce!What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

When you get married, the last thing you want to think about is the potential breakdown of that marriage but the truth is, it is an absolutely imperative conversation. Today we are joined by another self-proclaimed recovering attorney, Jennifer Goode, to discuss planning for the future before you get married. You'll hear about our guest’s career, what modeling is, and how it is used in prenuptial discussions, estate planning, family planning, and so much more. Jennifer discusses what she encourages clients to think of when planning the future of their marriage before explaining the importance of communication and collaboration when having these conversations. We then delve into why families should discuss the future of their shared family legacy before a member of the family even considers marriage. Finally, we look at how and why prenuptial agreements are becoming less taboo and celebrate how that prepares people for a great future. Thank you for listening!Key Points From This Episode:An introduction to today’s guest, Jennifer Goode, and a brief overview of her background. Jennifer explains what modeling is in the context of her business. What Jennifer sees when future spouses are discussing prenuptial agreements. What she encourages people to think of when having these discussions. Why these agreements are positive things that are helping you plan your life. The different areas that modeling is helpful and why. How estate planning comes into play when it comes to these agreements and modeling.The importance of communication and collaboration to make successful plans. Why families should discuss protecting shared legacy before marriage is even on the cards. How prenuptial agreements are becoming less stigmatized. What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

If you are a business owner, and you are heading for divorce, how do you look forward, stay focused, and protect your business? This week we are talking about navigating the intersection of values and mission as business owners going through a divorce. Our guest on the show today is Peter Glennon, a divorce and business lawyer in Rochester, NY. In our conversation with Peter, we talk about understanding business values, or ultimately core foundational values and mission, and how that impacts an impending divorce process. He gives examples of his company’s values and how they influence the way they practice law, and he talks about the challenges in separating business from personal relationships. We then talk about how business owners can protect their businesses during a divorce and why it’s important that you stop looking backward and remain forward-focused. If want to hear some insightful advice on how to rebuild and move your business forward after a divorce, then start listening now. Key Points From This Episode:Peter shares his career journey with us and more details about what his company does.His thoughts on understanding business values and mission during a divorce.He shares his company’s values and their integration into how they practice law.The Glennon Lawfirm guarantee: never alone and never in the dark. The challenges in separating business and personal relationships.What is winning when it comes to a divorce?How business owners can protect their business during a divorce.Rebuilding and moving forward after divorce: advice for business owners.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Lawyers are prone to overworking. Although it may feel like working as much as possible is the most productive way to spend your time, as Luke Van Arsdale explains in this episode, this is far from the truth! The more of a work/life balance we are able to maintain, the better the counsel we can provide to our clients. Luke is a founding partner at JVAM, a 20-month-old law firm situated in the Roaring Fork Valley that focuses on real estate, business, litigation, and transactional work. During our conversation today, Luke talks about his approach to setting boundaries and prioritizing the facets of his life that exist outside of his office (like relationships, sleep, and exercise). Working 200 hours a month is unsustainable, so be sure to give this episode a listen to learn how to find the balance that will make you happier, healthier, and a better lawyer! Key Points From This Episode:Introducing today’s guest, JVAM founding partner Luke Van Arsdale.Luke shares an overview of his journey to law.The challenge of finding and training good lawyers.Why burnt-out employees are disadvantageous to employers. The growth that JVAM has undergone over the past 20 months.The JVAM culture. Pros and cons of living and working in the Roaring Fork Arkansas Valley.Why so many lawyers struggle to find a healthy work/life balance. Boundaries that Luke upholds to ensure that he doesn’t spend his entire life working. How living a balanced life will make you a better lawyer. The facets of Luke’s life that he prioritizes in order to avoid burnout. Luke’s approach to dealing with the inevitable frustrations of work and life. Advice for how to manage the heightened emotions of other people. What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Navigating a divorce is never easy, but when you add a special needs child into the mix, the situation can become even more challenging. In this candid conversation, Ryan and Amy explore the various issues that arise when parents of a special needs child go through a divorce.  We touch on the importance of Individualized Education Plans (IEPs) and 504 accommodations in ensuring that these children receive the necessary medical and educational services. We also discuss how differing parental views on a child's abilities can cause conflict during divorce and the potential for stress and regression in children with special needs as a result of the divorce process. We delve into the impact of decision-making authority on parenting time, the challenges of navigating two different households, and the logistics of scheduling therapy sessions.  Lastly, we touch on the financial considerations associated with providing for a child with special needs, such as setting up a special needs trust. What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Tracy Malone, our expert on emotional abuse and dealing with narcissistic behavior, is back for part two of our two-part series on dealing with a narcissist in divorce proceedings. We take listeners through tips and advice for different phases of a divorce, the before, the during, and the after. Our conversation flows from what to look out for from gaslighting and educating yourself on your rights, managing your expectations, to building your support team. Tracy shares her thoughts and advice on doubts regarding going through with a divorce from a narcissist, and the “staying for the kids” reasoning.  We also dive into the three tips for what to do when you are currently in divorce proceedings and then navigate four tips for how to handle the after, once the divorce is finalized. Be sure not to miss out on part two of the two-part series with Tracy Malone. Key Points From This Episode:Tips for dealing with the before of a divorce from a narcissist. A note on gaslighting in divorce.The importance of learning your rights; talk to a lawyer!Make sure you manage expectations. Build your support team; your mental health is on trial. Tracy’s advice to people thinking, “I just can’t go through with a divorce from a narcissist.”Her thoughts on “Staying for the Kids.”Tips for when you are in the divorce process.Watch out for the Trojan horse.Make sure your lawyer makes a tight parenting plan.Mediation: be sure to know what you want or don’t want.Tips and things people should be aware of after the divorce is finalized.Learn to speak Nark speak: communication will be terrible!Learn to let go.Learn to trust again.Learn to manage your triggers. What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

One of the most common things we as divorce lawyers often hear is that a client thinks their spouse is potentially, and intentionally, hiding money. So today, we delve into what to do if you suspect your spouse might be hiding assets during a divorce. This is an interesting topic because, as we know, when people are going through a divorce, there is often not a lot of trust between the two parties. We start our conversation with an overview of asset hiding and why people sometimes do it, and we talk conceptually about what asset hiding could look like. You’ll hear insights into how lawyers recognize the red flags of asset hiding and potential implications, and we share thoughts on the cost/benefit analysis of hiring experts as part of the discovery process.Key Points From This Episode:Amy gives an overview of asset hiding and why people sometimes do it in a divorce.We talk about some hypothetical asset-hiding scenarios. How divorce lawyers recognize the red flags of asset hiding, what they are, and what to do about them.Why tax returns can be very telling.Potential implications of hidden assets in a divorce.The role of lawyers in asset tracing; experts in forensic accounting. Why Amy uses depositions as a discovery tool.Amy goes deeper into hiring experts and how it can drive up costs (the cost/benefit analysis).More about forensic accounting and developing technologies and AI.What the law provides in terms of the discovery of hiding assets in divorce (Rule 16.2E10). Two things for listeners to walk away with: gather information and have a special master, arbitrator, or private judge.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

This week on the podcast, we focus on the topic of how to stay safe leaving an abusive spouse. We are happy to be joined again on the show by Tracy Malone, to talk us through the top ten tips for staying safe when leaving an abusive relationship. Tracy is an internationally recognized expert on both emotional abuse and narcissistic personality disorder, a narcissist abuse survival coach, an author, and is also a survivor of narcissistic abuse. We talk about creating a safety plan, gathering evidence, hotlines, notifying family and friends, and much more. These tips are practical and paramount in making sure you are safe. This episode may be a difficult conversation and topic for some, but above all else, if you are concerned about your safety, please contact your local authorities.Key Points From This Episode:Tracy gives listeners a quick overview of what she does and how to contact her.Do not hesitate; in a situation where you fear for your life, call the police. A note on recording in Colorado (where it is legal).Tracy shares the first tip for making sure you are safe: Create a safety plan.Second tip: Gather and keep evidence, it will be valuable at some point.Third tip: Reach out and seek help from available hotlines.Fourth tip: How to go about notifying friends and family.Fifth tip: The importance of changing routines and passwords, and that’s every possible password. Sixth tip: Why you should, and can, obtain a restraining order. Seventh tip: Be cautious about what you put out into the world, especially on social media.Eighth tip: Seeking professional help regarding your safety. Ninth tip: Why staying alert is important.The tenth tip: Advice regarding safe communication. What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

In this episode, Brian Walters joins us to discuss what actions should be taken in the event in which an ex-spouse takes their child to another state or country and refuses to bring them back. If you are a parent, this is one of the most frightening scenarios you could find yourself in, so it is very beneficial to be equipped with knowledge about what you can do. Brian is a partner in Texas’ largest law firm, Walters Gilbreath PLLC, and also runs his own podcast on Texas family law called For Better, Worse, or Divorce Podcast.  Today he talks about some of the kidnapping cases that he has personally dealt with. After listening to this episode you will have a good understanding of when and how to take legal action as well as some of the ways in which you can prevent this kind of thing from happening in the first place. Key Points From This Episode:Laws relating to kidnapping. The importance of taking immediate action if your ex-spouse kidnaps your child.Various different routes that can be taken if your ex-spouse is refusing to bring your child back to your state. How police deal with this type of kidnapping situation. The process of registering a parenting plan in another state. How to go about modifying a parenting plan. What the most important factor in a case like this is.The limitations of the Child Abduction Prevention Act. Brian’s experience with international abduction cases. What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

In the right circumstances, arbitration can be a very effective tool. During today’s episode, we unpack the pros and cons of divorce arbitration with regard to children and property. Kicking off our conversation, we offer a comprehensive definition of arbitration and go into detail about professionals who can act as arbitrators. We discuss the length of the process, as well as the steps to reviewing and appealing these decisions through real-world examples of arbitration processes. You’ll hear about the benefit of privacy that arbitration affords clients, budgetary concerns, and why defining the parameters of your arbitration process is so important. Key Points From This Episode:What arbitration is.Examples of people who can act as arbitrators.The parenting aspect of arbitration.What happens when you get an adverse ruling in the arbitration process.How arbitration can expedite and resolve problems.Reviewing an arbitrator’s order.The efficiency of an arbitration process.Using arbitration to resolve a school choice issue.How arbitration can streamline the decision-making process.The benefit of privacy that arbitration affords clients.Budget benefits of arbitration.Cons associated with arbitration.Appealing an arbitrator’s decision.How arbitration can be a very effective tool.The importance of defining the parameters of the arbitration process.How a Memorandum of Understanding can support the arbitration process.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

David Lamb has focused the majority of his career on helping families and children through the legal process. During today’s conversation, he joins us to share his insights on the role of a PCDM or (Parenting Coordination Decision Making) in supporting fast problem resolution, reducing conflict, and more. Listening in, you’ll hear the best circumstances for soliciting the services of a PCDM and where it isn’t likely to benefit the process, as well as where the role of an attorney begins, where arbitration begins, and how David approaches the process according to his preferences and hard-earned expertise. Join us today for an informative conversation sure to guide your decision-making during the difficult process of establishing a positive co-parenting relationship with your former partner. Key Points From This Episode:Where a parenting coordinator or decision-maker fits into the process.How the role of a PCDM and a DM differs.The importance of institutional knowledge for PCDMs. Why any PCDM should be able to quickly resolve certain issues in thirty minutes to an hour. Which cases are typically suited to the services of a PCDM.How everyday disputes can lead to significant conflict between parents. How settling disputes fast benefits kids.Cases where it is not beneficial to solicit the services of a PCDM.What to think about with reference to the scope of authority of a PCDM.Tailoring the PCDM agreement with maximum specificity.The role of an attorney.The value of speaking to the parties pre-engagement. David’s approach to speaking to the kids and why he doesn’t usually do so.Why he always prioritizes having the ability to reallocate fees.When it is appropriate to fine a parent.Where the role of arbitration begins.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Now that THC is legal in Colorado, many questions are being raised about how the consumption of the substance affects custody. In this episode, we are going to tackle some of these important questions. Today on Divorce at Altitude, you will hear all about the framework we want you to set when it comes to the use of legal (and illegal) substances, why the use of THC isn’t necessarily a danger to the child, when it could be a danger, and the importance of understanding why it’s being used. The main thing to consider is how THC use affects parenting time and whether a child’s needs are being met. In this episode, we discuss the best way to prove whether or not a parent's THC use is affecting their ability to parent during their parenting time. We delve into marijuana testing, the associated difficulties, and why you need to stay educated and updated with evolving methods. This is an issue that is on the rise so be sure to tune in!Key Points From This Episode:Today’s topic of discussion: How marijuana affects child custody.The importance of setting the framework for parents using legal substances.Why you need to focus on what’s affecting parenting time. The health issues associated with smoking THC.The issues involved with THC testing in custody battles and the best way to test it. Why a parent has to prove that their ex-spouse's THC use is affecting their child. Why ingesting THC doesn’t necessarily mean a parent is endangering their child. The importance of considering reasons for ingesting THC and if the child’s needs come first. The dangers of leaving edibles lying around in reach of children. The importance of being educated on THC testing and how it’s evolving. What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Today, we’re taking a closer look at annulment, specifically how it relates to Colorado law. After a brief discussion of some of the famous annulment cases we know of, we find out how annulments work in Colorado, what you need to remember before filing, which grounds are acceptable for making a claim, and the different time restrictions set on applications. We end by exploring valid annulment claims, mostly pertaining to immigration and fraud. Key Points From This Episode:Exploring the famous and/or celebrity annulments that we know of. The law surrounding annulments in Colorado. Important details and deadlines to remember for filing for an annulment. Acceptable grounds under which you can make your claim.  The differences between application time restrictions. What happens when there is a legal reason that someone cannot be married. Taking a look at annulment as it relates to immigration and fraud.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Dr. Bill Crawford has written eight books, all derived from the philosophy of 'life from the top of the mind'. During today’s conversation, he offers a psychologist’s insight into the brain’s reaction to the divorce process and how to rise above its protective mechanisms for clear, influential communication, and constructive, fair boundary setting. We begin by unpacking the philosophy underpinning all of Dr. Crawford’s work before discussing the necessity of grieving the shattered dream during the divorce process. We talk about cycle breaking and how the triune brain theory can help you to gain a better understanding of your own experience before hearing some insights into how to regain control from the angry and resentful mind. Key Points From This Episode:What Dr. Crawford means by his philosophy ‘life from the top of the mind’.Grieving the shattered dream during the process of divorce.Barriers to an amicable divorce, especially with children. Finding a reason to break the cycle.How a better understanding of the brain can help you to become more influential in any discussions you may have.Regaining control from the angry, resentful, guilty mind.Asking purposeful questions.Identifying who you want to be. His method: breathe, relax, imagine, ask, notice. When the best time is to practice this. Training the brain to go into life at the top of the mind.Communicating with people who are stuck in a lower mind. Navigating difficulties later down the line.What to consider when bringing in a third party.Engaging with children as they move through parental divorce.Advice for authoritarian parents. The importance of loving, healthy boundaries.What you can learn from Life from the Top of the Mind.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Alcohol is one of the leading causes of divorce and can also be a symptom of underlying issues in a relationship. During this episode, we are joined by addiction and substance abuse expert, Dr. John Gilburt, who founded and runs Boulder Alcohol Education Centre. We cover what alcoholism is, the potential consequences of having an alcoholic or substance abusing parent, and explore some effective testing techniques. We also discuss how you can protect your children if you’re going through a divorce and one of the parents has substance abuse issues, intervention, in-patient versus out-patient care, and whether or not rehabilitation can be effective. Tune in today to hear a new perspective on alcoholism and how best to navigate its effects during divorce. Key Points From This Episode:John's focus on DNA research with the goal of normalizing unique characteristics of high tolerance response to alcohol.A definition for substance abuse and alcoholism.Normal usage versus problematic drinking.The genetic predisposition to respond differently to alcohol.Differences between a low tolerance person who drinks too much and a high tolerance drinker.Why a DUI program is such a good net for high tolerance drinkers.The science of how your body responds to heavy drinking.Protecting children from the effects of having a parent with substance abuse issues.Testing options to ensure that a parent is sober when they have the children.Soberlink: how it works and some of the problems with it.The PEth blood test.Hair and fingernail analysis.The role of therapy in helping people to develop normal healthy day-to-day skills.Why AA is an effective support to alcoholics.The importance of psychological support for the family.AlAnon and Adult Children of Alcoholics. Extending grace to relapsing people.The inherited response to alcohol that turns out to be dangerous. What goes into a substance abuse evaluation. The book Dr. Gilburt is writing: 99 Bottles of Beer.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

The term ‘revolution’ continues to be thrown around when talking about AI, but what does this revolution mean for the world of family law, and do we need to be concerned? Returning to the show today to help us make sense of AI in law is Managing Shareholder at STG Divorce Law, Raiford Palmer. In this episode, Raif offers us a brief description of AI, its current state in the world, and how it is impacting various industries, as well as how he and his team are using it at STG. We then get a sense of how AI is already changing the family law landscape and why there will always be a need for a human element, and we also look at some of the potential dangers of AI in law and the limitations that exist within current AI models. As this intriguing conversation comes to a close, you’ll hear about the ethics of AI, why humans will always rely on tools, and why AI is nowhere close to being a flash-in-the-pan phenomenon. Love it or hate it, AI is here to stay! Key Points From This Episode:Raif describes the current state of AI and how it is impacting various industries.How Raif and his team are using AI (and how he thinks they’ll use it in the near future). Ways that AI is changing and will continue to change the family law landscape. Why you’ll always need a human element when drafting settlement agreements. The potential dangers of using AI in a legal context. Understanding the limitations of current AI models. The ethical conundrums in AI that still need to be addressed and overcome. Why our greatest asset as human beings is our ability to use tools to increase efficiency.Why AI is not a bubble industry as it relates to finance and law specifically. What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

High-conflict marriage will inevitably lead to high-conflict divorce, and today on Divorce At Altitude, divorce coach Karen McMahon is here to tell us all about her coaching plan for people looking to exit their high-conflict marriages. Tuning in, you’ll hear exactly what a high-conflict marriage is, why people stay in these unhappy marriages, how to rewire your mind, come out of your isolation, reimagine your life, and ultimately, end this unhealthy relationship, why divorce is a transformational process, and so much more! We also discuss why you need to stay on top of the laws and your finances when getting divorced, the importance of selecting an attorney that is right for you, and why you need to be realistic about how your spouse will handle the divorce. Karen even shares her high-conflict marriage exit plan with us before explaining why telling children about divorce separately is sometimes better. Finally, she tells us about her own high-conflict divorce and inspires some hope in anyone who may be experiencing something similar. Key Points From This Episode:What the concept of a high-conflict marriage means to Karen. The most common reasons people stay in these unhealthy marriages.How to rewire your mind when trying to get out of a high-conflict marriage. The importance of building a support network after the isolation of this marriage.What reimagining yourself means in the context of a high-conflict marriage. Karen explores the transformational nature of divorce.The importance of getting educated when getting divorced and knowing the law. Why you can’t have a bully for an attorney when ending a high-conflict marriage.What goes into the exit plan for a high-conflict marriage. Why Karen thinks telling kids about divorce separately is oftentimes better. A story from Karen’s own divorce and the level of stress and conflict she dealt with.The importance of being realistic about how your divorce will be handled. What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.