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Pivot with Purpose

(Formerly Sh*t I'm 30 Podcast) Pivot with Purpose is a podcast that celebrates every step of the journey into finding our purpose. Whether you feel lost and purposeless or you are currently fulfilled, Carla documents her journey juggling being an entrepreneur, mother, and soon to be wife. How do the people you look up to the most find their purpose and have a balanced life? Well let's chat with them and get an insight into their lives. Every Wednesday Join Carla and her guest. Grab a glass of wine or coffee if you happen to be at work and lets find our God given Purpose!

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DON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Man Asks Us to Fire His Brother's Girlfriend From High End Family Restaurant for Not Showing Up to Staff Meeting
I'm on the radio and we have a new dailt segment called...DONT SHOOT THE MESSENGER   These are your new favorite 5 minutes of your day!   Listen to all the other calls now! https://linktr.ee/flymorningwakeup  
05:30 09/22/2022
EP 155: Love is Blind, Imposter Syndrome, & Carla Almost Gets Arrested
This week, Carla discusses how being nice can get you in all the right places, her almost run-in with the law, and why the most expensive gifts have the lowest value.  
46:29 09/15/2022
EP 154: New Job...Who's This?
This is a story of resilience, hard work, faith, and obedience. Carla this weeks tells her story from 2015 being fired from her finance to being hired to be the female voice of her city in the SAME BUILDING!!!! 
61:31 08/25/2022
EP 153: Single and Ready to Mingle..MAYBE
Carla has been single for 6 months and she says she’s ready for dating and is even in the apps that the girls are using nowadays. This week Carla with Paola go over their current dating situations and it looks like carla has bae’s in every area code. 
58:58 08/04/2022
EP 152: Law and Order: Blood Ain't Thicker Than Water
This week Carla is back to give you an update about where she has been and the serious Law and Order episode of her life at the moment. One thing that you will for sure take away from the episode is that No Weapon Formed Against You Shall prosper when you are obedient and truly Let Go and Let God! Launch Your Podcast In 30 Days www.ideatolaunchpodcast.com use code 'pivot' for $100 off   Get your gummies here and use code 'Pivot" for $$ off   thank you to Better Help for Sponsoring the show get 10% oFF your first month  www.betterhelp.com/pwp  
58:07 07/21/2022
EP 151: Why He Married and Divorced a Narcissist TWICE!
This week Carla is joined by Baron Young from Reach One Recovery which dedicated to providing the “spark” of enlightenment for survivors of narcissistic abuse. We are shinning a light into men that have experienced abuse. As a society we dont allow men to share or express their pain, yet this kind of abuse will cause PTSD so many while the numbers of narcissistic abuse keep rising.  Some of the things you will hear: Suicidal rates in men Realizing that you are being abused and its not physical How to leave a narcissistic relationship Email your questions to askcarlawilmaris@gmail.com Launch Your Podcast in 30 Days  https://www.carlawilmaris.com/idea-to-launch use code PODCAST to get $100 OFF Connect with us @carlawilmaris @reachonerecovery @pivotwithpurpose  
71:15 06/02/2022
EP 150: The Tarot Card Reader That Jump Started My Healing Journey
Launch Your Podcast in 30 Days This Week we are joined by Myshelle also known as My Certified Angel to discuss Carla's first time doing a tarot card reading out of desperation.  Turns out that Myshelle has dealt with her own trauma that catapulted her into finding her purpose with Tarot Cards and the spirits Book Myshelle for your own Spiritual Reading
65:34 05/28/2022
EP 149: Getting Rid of Shame & Finding My New Purpose
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57:29 05/17/2022
EP 148: Love Bombing and Co-Parenting with a Narcissist
We have Mac “The Therapist” back for another week to continue to talk about Narcissism. This episode delves deeper in the conversation of how this affects the one on the receiving end. We talked about love- bombing and how its an end to their means. We had moments where realizations were made and gave a different perspective. I learned that I came to terms with the fact that although this person put me through the wildest emotional rollercoaster, I lived through that, there were moments that were good, along with the dark side.    What Else You Will Hear: A narcissist will always have a supply ready before they leave you or you leave them. Enabling a narcissist, how does that look like Love-bombing, what is it? How long does it last?  How long does it take to develop a relationship? How you become an asset to boost their ego and status Are they capable of love? Couples therapy  Setting boundaries  Thriving in chaos Women wanting a ring Co-parenting with a narcissist    Quote/ Bible verse for this week: Proverbs 9:8- So don't bother correcting mockers; they will only hate you. But correct the wise, and they will love you.   Thank you to our sponsors:   Better Help www.Betterhelp.com/PWP save 10% off your first month   GET THE TEA www.Getthetea.com/pivot for $$ off your first purchase   Whos Wax gummies  www.Whoswax.com- 1 for $15 or 10 for $100   I love reading reviews so please leave me a review on whatever platform you listen to the podcast on   Send your questions and advice letters to: askcarlawilmaris@gmail.com
48:01 05/03/2022
EP 148: Love Bombing and Co-Parenting with a Narcissist
We have Mac “The Therapist” back for another week to continue to talk about Narcissism. This episode delves deeper in the conversation of how this affects the one on the receiving end. We talked about love- bombing and how its an end to their means. We had moments where realizations were made and gave a different perspective. I learned that I came to terms with the fact that although this person put me through the wildest emotional rollercoaster, I lived through that, there were moments that were good, along with the dark side.    What Else You Will Hear: A narcissist will always have a supply ready before they leave you or you leave them. Enabling a narcissist, how does that look like Love-bombing, what is it? How long does it last?  How long does it take to develop a relationship? How you become an asset to boost their ego and status Are they capable of love? Couples therapy  Setting boundaries  Thriving in chaos Women wanting a ring Co-parenting with a narcissist    Quote/ Bible verse for this week: Proverbs 9:8- So don't bother correcting mockers; they will only hate you. But correct the wise, and they will love you.   Thank you to our sponsors:   Better Help www.Betterhelp.com/PWP save 10% off your first month   GET THE TEA www.Getthetea.com/pivot for $$ off your first purchase   Whos Wax gummies  www.Whoswax.com- 1 for $15 or 10 for $100   I love reading reviews so please leave me a review on whatever platform you listen to the podcast on   Send your questions and advice letters to: askcarlawilmaris@gmail.com
48:01 05/03/2022
EP 147: Signs You're Dating/Dealing With a Narcissist
This week Carla Wilmaris is back with recurring guest, Paola and a special guest, Mac “The Therapist”. We get deep this week, so grab some wine, a notebook, some tissues, whatever you need because we are going right into it. We are talking about Narcissism. We started the conversation with statistics and how 1 in every 16 Americans has been affected by someone with NPD, then broke down the differences between traits and the disorder. We went down the rabbit hole, and all I can say is buckle up, this is part one to a very necessary conversation we needed to have. What You’ll Hear: What is Narcissism? Or Narcissistic Personality disorder (NPD). How the rise of social media is feeding into the pandemic of narcissism A narcissistic individual is the opposite of authenticity, they are not able to see what they do to other people 80% of males show narcissistic traits Is it genetic or caused by upbringing? Nature vs. nurture Empathy is the ability to feel for others, narcissist can rationalize empathy- from the mouth out We now found a language for the term; people have been abused for years and now we have the words for it all The social media boom is breeding narcissistic tendencies The difference between traits and the disorder Plus, much more… Quote/ Bible verse for this week: Isaiah 61:1- “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me because God has anointed me to bring good news to the poor… to bind up the brokenhearted. Connect with Our Guest Link to website: https://www.therapyisforeveryone.org/ Link to Relationship Card Deck: https://www.therapyisforeveryone.org/love-unlocked Therapy is For Everyone, Mac Stanley Cazeau, LMHC Website: www.Therapyisforeveryone.org Email: Talk2Mac1on1@gmail.com IG: @Talk2Mac_Therapist Thank you to our Sponsors: Sponsored by www.Betterhelp.com/PWP save 10% off your first month www.Getthetea.com/pivot for $$ OFF your first purchase www.Journeyorl.com Get 20% OFF Whos Wax gummies at www.Whoswax.com use code PIVOT Send your questions to: askcarlawilmaris@gmail.com
59:44 04/26/2022
EP 146: Self Love, Expectations, & Dating Again
We’re back! We started this episode with reading some questions that were submitted by our amazing listeners. The questions were amazing and set the tone for this episode to start talking about how life is scary, but its ok to lean into asking for help. We touched on how men are now somewhat intimidated of women, they are dominating in a lot of different areas of the money-making industry. I also spoke on how God has been orchestrating the last 3 month of my life and letting him take control because he knows what is best for me. Finally, we delve into the topic for this week, practicing self-care and love. What You'll Hear: Hold on to your expectations, and do not lower them for no one. You cannot force anyone to do anything, even if its to make them better Therapy is meant to help you not hurt you God-sent friends Practicing self-care and love, we touch on the amazing spa days Journaling  Wanting peace, and unlearning how you thrive in chaos  Men saying a soft man (Russell Wilson) is square and unpopular Grieving the loss of the idea I thought I had in a relationship Feeling like having more purpose as a woman What commitment looked like 50 years ago, old fashion and traditional I am a partner not a maid Quote/ Bible verse for this week: Psalm 46:5- God is within her she will not fall; God will help her at break of day. Thank you to our sponsors: Sponsored by Betterhelp.com/PWP save 10% off your first month Getthetea.com/pivot for 1 pack of tea for $27 Journeyorl.com Whos Wax gummies at Whoswax.com- 1 for $15 or 10 for $100 Dont forget to rate and Review! Send your questions to: askcarlawilmaris@gmail.com
51:58 04/20/2022
EP 145: Turning 35, Single Mom of 2, and Broken
Today we have KBJ Energy! Congratulations to Ketanji Brown Jackson on being appointed to the Supreme court.  This week’s episode we start off with my reservations of turning 35 this year. I realize that I am grieving the thought of where I thought I was going to be, and what didn’t happen or will happen based on changes that have happened in the past almost 2 months. Then dive into this week’s episode, elevating past people’s trauma.  I am now all about BOUNDARIES, at 34 almost 35 I need PEACE. What you will hear this week: Turning 35 this year Grieving loss of what was and where I am now The different people around us that are dealing with trauma Setting boundaries for yourself, and taking care of yourself first Friendships that respect boundaries  People who thrive in chaos and negativity Loving people from afar Therapy helped me understand I wasn’t the problem The changing relationship with my mother now with limitations You need to work on your emotional intelligence   Bible verse for this week: 1 Peter 5:6-7 Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. 7 Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. Send your questions/advice letters to askcarlawilmaris@gmail.com Listen to EP 59 An Open Letter to My Mother  Thank you to our Sponsors: GET THE TEA:  www.Getthetea.com/pivot for 1 pack of tea for $27 BETTER HELP: Get 10% OFF your first month of therapy at  www.betterhelp.com/pwp  WHO’S WAX GUMMIES: Get 20% OFF by using code PIVOT Don’t forget to leave a review on the Apple podcast so I can read your message on the pod! THANK YOU :)   Connect with us on social media: @carlawilmaris   @justpales  @pivotwithpurposepod
47:42 04/13/2022
EP 144: I Shouldn't Be Depressed!
I’m back like I never left! And I have my amazing friend, Paola back for another episode. This week I want to talk about my journey. You have all been with me from corporate, to leaving and starting Shit I’m 30! to saying I didn’t want anymore kids, to getting into a new relationship and being in love, to not now a newly single mom and entrepreneur.   As women we are very judgmental of ourselves and I’m starting to paint a new canvas, reinventing myself as a woman, a mom, and entrepreneur. I’m learning it’s time to put myself first, the future holds happiness for me.   The saddest people always try their hardest to make people happy. -Robin Williams   What You’ll Hear: Painting a new canvas Why are women so judgmental and hard on themselves Therapy is a non-negotiable for me right now The different points of view of how we express love I learned about my feelings, and now I’m an empath and I feel everything Learning to admit when you need help Being a parent in 2022, and doing what’s best for you and your child Communication and interpretation are two completely different things, and compromise is huge Feeling empty, sad, and depressed You cannot love someone to change, love is not enough Heartbreak after giving it everything Quotes of the week: The text disappears under interpretation- If someone says something to you and you interpret it a different way, what I was trying to tell you doesn’t matter anymore. Thank you to Our Sponsors: Sponsored by www.Betterhelp.com/PWP save 10% off your first month www.Journeyorl.com Whos Wax gummies at www.Whoswax.com use code PIVOT for 20% OFF Send your questions to: askcarlawilmaris@gmail.com
55:20 04/06/2022
EP 143: Carla Has A Podcast Bro!
I'M BACK! With a new purpose, a new sound, a new pivot. I am finding my purpose as a single mother of 2 and I know I have been gone for a while, but I’m back with a new voice, Paola who you will get to know in this new season of pivot. She is sitting here with me, and I know I met her at just the right time. Recently some things have been circulating on the internet, I asked for privacy but if we are going to talk about it, let say the TRUTH.   What You'll Hear:  • What is tradition/ traditional marriage or relationship. • The healing I have been doing, sitting with my emotions, and discussing the different emotions we forget to name and feel when they are happening. • Things I did or do to make myself feel good vs. dealing with the emotions themselves. • Feeling emotions and observing them whether they are good, bad, or ugly. • Not everything deserves a reaction, I have gained control of my emotions/ reactions. • Learning to focus on the big picture. • Our therapy journey, and how religion fits into that. • How has my personal relationship with God has been my strength throughout this journey. Three things that I learned from an article: 1. Sit with your emotions by noting what you are experiencing without judging. 2. Validate your emotions, accept them. 3. Focus on the present instead of wallowing in the experience or situation that triggered your feelings.   • Sponsored by Betterhelp.com/WSS save 10% off your first month • Journeyorl.com • Whos Wax gummies at Whoswax.com • Send your questions to: askcarlawilmaris@gmail.com
48:52 04/01/2022
EP 142: The Highs & Lows of Mom's in Business Including the Dark Side of Wanting to End it ALL
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72:03 02/07/2022
EP 141: Finding Purpose After a Loss
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28:39 01/27/2022
EP 140: This Feels Like A Life Sentence
My life revolves around my kids and my family and now it feels like the woman that I am is in prison. My spirit got me out of bed and told me to vocalize what I am feeling today and in the coming weeks.  Who is Carla today? Is she just a mom? Will she ever be a woman again? Tune in and go on this journey again with me. It is not pretty but it is raw.
17:43 11/17/2021
139. I Played Myself! - I Don't Know How to Be a Mompreneur
She's back! Pivot with Purpose is back and it ain't perfect. If she waited for perfection this episode would have never been released so LET'S TALK ABOUT IT! How do we pivot when life has thrown all these curve balls and we thought we had it all figured out but we dont! This week we will go over new segments of the show like Unconventional Side Hustles & start the documented journey of Carla's business and how she is expanding and learning from all of her mistakes. Come on and join the ride. Let's Pivot unapologetically and intentionally find our Purpose! Connect with me @carlawilmaris www.carlawilmaris.com    
32:28 04/02/2021
EP 138: Pivoting & Leveling TF Up!
It is time to Pivot. My vision has become so clear in the last 2.5 years and now I want to serve you in the new space that I'm in. Today I will share the new vision and direction that Sh*T I'm 30 is going in and trust me it is NOT for the weak!!!    
19:18 12/04/2020
EP 137: My Testimony before The Beginning
This week the devil was working hard on me. When you are taking steps in the right direction he does not like it and he will attack and TRY to use you to tear everything you have built apart. My new show Whatever She Says almost didn't make it to its first episode because we were determined to bring you a WORD! Listen up and be aware of when the devil is trying to use you!
74:46 10/30/2020
136: I Had a C-Section Now I Want A Natural Birth: Should I Get a Doula?
Hey there! If you have been following me on social media then you know my journey through pregnancy has been very unconventional. I’ve had to go to appointments without the support of my partner, deal with excruciating body changes, and I’ve had drastic hormonal swings. This week I am joined by the founder of Black Mom Blog and pioneer of black motherhood and self-care Shanica Boswell. You’ll hear about the shaming of single mothers sending their child to stay with their fathers, the benefits of a doula, and trying to have a natural birth after having a C-section. This episode isn’t only for women with babies or who are currently pregnant, but it’s an episode for everyone to get an inside look at the journey and obstacles or pregnancy and parenting.   Connect with us: @shitim30podcast @carlawilmaris @shaniciaboswell @blackmomsblog  ——————————————————— Whatever She Says Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/whatevershesayspod/?hl=en    SUBSCRIBE BELOW!  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/whatever-she-says/id1536641470   @whatevershesayspod  ——————————————————— Patreon: Do you want access to additional content & access to our monthly virtual pajama party? Sign up to be a patron :). https://www.patreon.com/SHITIM30  ——————————————————— YouTube: Want to listen/watch to the show on YouTube? Subscribe with the link below: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCboWew9tv3bpYircL5ORvTQ/videos  ——————————————————— Idea to Launch Academy: Launching my LAST intensive course soon, don’t miss out!   If you are ready to launch your own hit podcast without the Tech Overwhelm and with my exact blue print  Join Idea to Launch Academy and launch your show IN 30 DAYS! ——————————————————— Sponsored by Better Help:  Better Help wants you to start living a happier life TODAY. https://betterhelp.com/30 and join the over 500,000 people taking charge of their mental health with the help of an experienced professional.   There is a special offer for SHIT IM 30 listeners, you'll get 10% off your first month at:  https://betterhelp.com/30  ——————————————————— Audible: Join this months book club on Patreon! It’s an easy way to reach your reading goals with funny, educated, & engaging conversations!   Do you want to read more books? Make your life easier & listen to the audio version on audible. Use my code for a FREE audiobook download & a FREE 30-day trial. http://www.audibletrial.com/shitim30  ———————————————————
79:35 10/21/2020
EP 135: True Confessions From The Lady Waxing Your Vagina Ft. Jena
Did you know that people of color spray tan? Yeah I didn’t either until I sat down with my friend Jenna, founder and CEO of Catalyst Salon.  When she isn't spray tanning a client, she has her face by someone’s vagina.   Oh… get your head out of the gutter, it’s because her salon offers waxing services! I sat down with Jenna to gossip about her jarring waxing stories, advice for waxing while pregnant, flawed beauty standards, and so much more!   Join us to look through the lens of an esthetician! You’ll find out what the lady giving you your bikini wax is really thinking!   By the way, don’t forget to tune in to the second season of Tyler Perry’s “Sistahs” Oct 14th 9PM/8PM Central   Connect with us: @carlawilmaris @Shitim30podcast @jena_lynn_m @SalonCatalyst ——————————————————— Whatever She Says Podcast: @Waxkyng & @carlawilmaris are starting a podcast! Follow us on social media at @whatevershesayspod Launching Oct. 27th on all streaming platforms ——————————————————— Idea to Launch Academy: THE VERY LAST Intensive course for Idea to Launch Academy is in November. This is the last time I will be doing this type of course, the classes will be self paced moving forward. You won’t want to miss out on this opportunity because it isn’t coming back! Sign up for the waitlist, first come, first serve. Join Idea to Launch Academy  ——————————————————— Patreon: Do you want access to additional content & access to our monthly virtual pajama party? Sign up to be a patron :). https://www.patreon.com/SHITIM30  ——————————————————— YouTube: Want to listen/watch to the show on YouTube? Subscribe with the link below: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCboWew9tv3bpYircL5ORvTQ/videos    
69:13 10/14/2020
EP 134: Checking In Before Wrapping Up 2020
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55:22 10/09/2020
EP 133: What Happens When Your Dreams Become a Reality Feat The Ladies
Have you ever had this overwhelming sense of calm after so much anxiety, stress, and doubt? Yeah, me too... although it may take a while to get there!    This week we have a live and interactive conversation with the virtual family I have built through this podcast platform. We chat about manifestation, doubt, clarity, and intentions.    Personally, this is an episode that I will cherish forever and hopefully, it inspires people to dream big and to just… keep swimming! What are your manifestations over your life? Share them with us on the podcast page or email.   Thank you Patreon family for your continuous support and for your role in this ecosystem of support.    Don’t forget to rate & review the podcast on Apple Podcast and we will read your response on the show!   Connect with us: @carlawilmaris @Shitim30podcast   Make sure to go listen to The Mermaid & The Lion Podcast anywhere you listen to podcast   https://linktr.ee/Themermaidandthelion   ——————————————————— Patreon:   Do you want access to additional content & access to our monthly virtual pajama party? Sign up to be a patron :).  https://www.patreon.com/SHITIM30   ——————————————————— YouTube:   Want to listen/watch to the show on YouTube? Subscribe with the link below: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCboWew9tv3bpYircL5ORvTQ/videos  ——————————————————— Idea to Launch Academy:    If you are ready to launch your own hit podcast without the Tech Overwhelm and with my exact blue print  Join Idea to Launch Academy and launch your show IN 30 DAYS! ——————————————————— Sponsored by Better Help:  Better Help wants you to start living a happier life TODAY. https://betterhelp.com/30 and join the over 500,000 people taking charge of their mental health with the help of an experienced professional.   There is a special offer for SHIT IM 30 listeners, you'll get 10% off your first month at:  https://betterhelp.com/30  ——————————————————— Audible: Join this months book club on Patreon! It’s an easy way to reach your reading goals with funny, educated, & engaging conversations!   Do you want to read more books? Make your life easier & listen to the audio version on audible. Use my code for a FREE audiobook download & a FREE 30-day trial. http://www.audibletrial.com/shitim30
55:43 09/30/2020
EP 132: Divine Feminine Energy & The Power of Manifestation…With a Dash of Ratchet
Manifestation is a stronger power than most of us recognize. This  weekend was a true testament of the power of manifestation. When you have an idea in mind, and it’s meant for you to accomplish it, God provides the people, resources, & dismantles any obstacles in the way of your goal. Join me as I recap the first annual Synergy Women’s Wellness retreat with Beavis and Butthead (May & Wendy). I’ve been working with May virtually and this was the first weekend that we met finally in person…luckily she wasn’t a psycho! Thank you to my Patreon community you all are amazing, empowering, dynamic women with so much to offer the world!  Connect with us on social media: @carlawilmaris @Shitim30Podcast @MayTsehay @W3ndy1321 ——————————————————— Idea to Launch Academy: ONLY 7 MORE DAYS TO SIGN UP FOR THE INTENSIVE COURSE! THERE ARE ONLY 5 SPOTS LEFT...DON'T WAIT! If you are ready to launch your own hit podcast without the Tech overwhelm and my exact blue print .... Join Idea to Launch Academy and launch your show IN 30 DAYS!  ——————————————————— Wendy's Only Fans Link for Tasteful Nudity lol:  https://onlyfans.com/msmarss  ——————————————————— Patreon: My Patreon community is far more than just extra content, its sisterhood. Join to gain access to our monthly virtual pajama parties, book clubs, and to get first dibs on everything (like next year's retreat!)  https://www.patreon.com/SHITIM30  ——————————————————— YouTube: Want to listen/watch to the show on YouTube? Subscribe with the link below: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCboWew9tv3bpYircL5ORvTQ/videos  ——————————————————— Sponsored by Better Help:  Better Help wants you to start living a happier life TODAY. https://betterhelp.com/30 and join the over 500,000 people taking charge of their mental health with the help of an experienced professional. There is a special offer for SHIT IM 30 listeners, you'll get 10% off your first month at:  https://betterhelp.com/30  ——————————————————— Audible: Join this months book club on Patreon! It’s an easy way to reach your reading goals with funny, educated, & engaging conversations! Do you want to read more books? Make your life easier & listen to the audio version on audible. Use my code for a FREE audiobook download & a FREE 30-day trial. http://www.audibletrial.com/shitim30
54:28 09/23/2020
EP 131: Traveling While Chubby Ft. Jeff Jenkins
Preparing for a trip is already a hassle, but have you considered what that preparation looks like for people with different body types than you?   This week, I am going by Jeff Jenkins a full-time travel blogger/influencer and founder of Chubby Diaries. His passion is to make traveling accessible, affordable, and efficient for the 70 million Americans who are technically classified as “obese”.   Join us as we chat about his experience as a former high school teacher, the Netflix show Cuties, launching his traveling business, marriage, and so much more!!   Sh*t You Should Know: Netflix Show- Cuties Unsolicited Advice: We give advice to a listener who wrote in regarding her friend and boyfriend’s ostensibly inappropriate relationship.   Connect with us: @chubbydiaries_ @carlawilmaris @Shitim30podcast   ——————————————————— Patreon: Do you want access to additional content & access to our monthly virtual pajama party? Sign up to be a patron :). https://www.patreon.com/SHITIM30  ——————————————————— YouTube: Want to listen/watch to the show on YouTube? Subscribe with the link below: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCboWew9tv3bpYircL5ORvTQ/videos  ——————————————————— Idea to Launch Academy: Launching my intensive course soon, don’t miss out! If you are ready to launch your own hit podcast without the Tech Overwhelm and with my exact blue print  Join Idea to Launch Academy and launch your show IN 30 DAYS! ——————————————————— Sponsored by Better Help:  Better Help wants you to start living a happier life TODAY. https://betterhelp.com/30 and join the over 500,000 people taking charge of their mental health with the help of an experienced professional.   There is a special offer for SHIT IM 30 listeners, you'll get 10% off your first month at:  https://betterhelp.com/30  ——————————————————— Audible: Join this months book club on Patreon! It’s an easy way to reach your reading goals with funny, educated, & engaging conversations! Do you want to read more books? Make your life easier & listen to the audio version on audible. Use my code for a FREE audiobook download & a FREE 30-day trial. http://www.audibletrial.com/shitim30
90:36 09/17/2020
EP 130: Phenomenal Black Boy, Rachel Dolezal 2.0, & Colorism
This week I am joined by filmmaker, photographer, mother, and now author Francesa Andre! What doesn’t this lovely lady have her hands on?! We talk about her new children’s book titled Phenomenal Black Boy, colorism, mental health, being a first-time mom, and so much more!  If you have heard of Rachel Dozer, then you have to hear about Rachel 2.0! Tune in!   Links: Rachel Dolezal 2.0 article: https://blavity.com/white-college-professor-admits-to-being-rachel-dolezal-20-and-falsely-claiming-multiple-black-identities?category1=news   Connect with us on social media: @carlawilmaris @Shitim30Podcast  ——————————————————— Patreon: Do you want access to additional content & access to our monthly virtual pajama party? Sign up to be a patron :). https://www.patreon.com/SHITIM30  ——————————————————— YouTube: Want to listen/watch to the show on YouTube? Subscribe with the link below: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCboWew9tv3bpYircL5ORvTQ/videos  ——————————————————— Idea to Launch Academy: Launching my intensive course soon, don’t miss out!   If you are ready to launch your own hit podcast without the Tech Overwhelm and with my exact blue print  Join Idea to Launch Academy and launch your show IN 30 DAYS! ——————————————————— Sponsored by Better Help:  Better Help wants you to start living a happier life TODAY. https://betterhelp.com/30 and join the over 500,000 people taking charge of their mental health with the help of an experienced professional.   There is a special offer for SHIT IM 30 listeners, you'll get 10% off your first month at:  https://betterhelp.com/30  ——————————————————— Audible: Join this months book club on Patreon! It’s an easy way to reach your reading goals with funny, educated, & engaging conversations!   Do you want to read more books? Make your life easier & listen to the audio version on audible. Use my code for a FREE audiobook download & a FREE 30-day trial. http://www.audibletrial.com/shitim30  ——————————————————— Skyeblue Rentals:   It's hot! Grab some friends, drinks, and swimsuits & get on a boat. If you're in the Pine Castle area of Orlando, Flordia. Come check us out! Skyeblue Rentals:  www.skybluerentals.com  ——————————————————— Modern Fertility:   Do you want important fertility insight without going to the doctors? How about without even leaving the house?! Ladies... this is a call to action, BE PROACTIVE WITH YOUR SEXUAL & REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH! We know healthcare can be expensive, use the code below for a discount! https://modernfertility.com/thirty/
106:13 09/09/2020
EP 129: Intuition, Astrology, & Yoga Ft. CheCheBabe
Do you ever hear this little voice in your head that tells you  “damn it, something told me to….”? Have you ever wondered what the heck mercury retrograde is or what full moons represent? This week we dive into concepts like: intuition, stigmas around tarot cards being witchcraft, spiritual alignment, and so much more. Join in as Che Che & I chat about her journey towards yoga, meditation, and  tarot reading & EVEN DOES A LIVE READING ON ME (& DAMN I WAS SCARED, BUT … I LOVED MY READING!) Connect with us on social media: @carlawilmaris @Shitim30Podcast @CheCheBabe  ——————————————————— SPECIAL AD SPECIAL FOR PODCASTERS: Are you a podcaster who wants to expand your audience? You're in luck! I am finally allowing other podcasters to promote their show on the Sh*t I'm 30! platform.  Sign up using the link below! DM/Email if you have any questions. https://calendly.com/carlawilmaris/podcast-ad-on-sh-t-i-m-30?month=2020-09&date=2020-09-09  ——————————————————— Mixed Minds Book Club: This month the book club is reading a throwback classic The Coldest Winter Ever by Sister Souljah. THIS MONTH ONLY if you DM or E-mail me that you are interested in getting a sneak peak of the book club, I will send you the private zoom link so you can get a preview! We meet once a month and hold each other accountable from week to week to make sure we finish before the month is up!  ——————————————————— Patreon: Do you want access to additional content & access to our monthly virtual pajama party? Sign up to be a patron :). https://www.patreon.com/SHITIM30  ——————————————————— YouTube: Want to listen/watch to the show on YouTube? Subscribe with the link below: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCboWew9tv3bpYircL5ORvTQ/videos  ——————————————————— Idea to Launch Academy: Do you want to find out if podcasting is for you!? Take this quick survey and find out: https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/5e1954578f68e50014134530 I'm launching my intensive course If you are ready to launch your own hit podcast without the Tech Overwhelm and with my exact blue print  Join Idea to Launch Academy and launch your show IN 30 DAYS! ——————————————————— Sponsored by Better Help:  Better Help wants you to start living a happier life TODAY. https://betterhelp.com/30 and join the over 500,000 people taking charge of their mental health with the help of an experienced professional. There is a special offer for SHIT IM 30 listeners, you'll get 10% off your first month at:  https://betterhelp.com/30  ——————————————————— Audible: Join this months book club on Patreon! It’s an easy way to reach your reading goals with funny, educated, & engaging conversations! Do you want to read more books? Make your life easier & listen to the audio version on audible. Use my code for a FREE audiobook download & a FREE 30-day trial. http://www.audibletrial.com/shitim30
80:01 09/02/2020
EP 128: Black People Don’t Swim, US NAVY, Defense Mechanisms Ft. Jordan Hunter
This week I am joined by Jordan Hunter, CEO of Say It Loud Media, Former US Navy search and rescue swimmer, & host of his own podcast "Say It Loud" We chat about the importance of swimming, the legacy he's trying to leave behind, and some types of defense mechanisms that we may use to protect our emotional selves.  The facts he drops about swimming will shock you.    Sh*t You Should Know article: https://thehill.com/homenews/state-watch/511693-17-year-old-chilis-hostess-beaten-by-group-of-diners-for-enforcing   Connect with us on social media: @carlawilmaris @Shitim30Podcast @sayitloudnetwork @boogiedebeast  ——————————————————— Idea to Launch Academy: If you are ready to launch your own hit podcast without the Tech Overwhelm and with my exact blueprint! Get on the waitlist today for the brand new Intensive Course designed to help you LAUNCH YOUR PODCAST IN 30 DAYS! GET ON THE WAITLIST! ——————————————————— Patreon: Do you want access to additional content & access to our monthly virtual pajama party? Sign up to be a patron :). https://www.patreon.com/SHITIM30  ——————————————————— Sakara: Do you want to feel better about what you eat without sacrificing taste? Do you want to improve your digestion, skin, & tap into your overall wellness? Check out the wellness nutrition company Sakara for organic plant-based ingredients, & anything else you could possibly ask for in the wellness space! It doesn't have to be expensive, use my code for 20% off your first order! www.sakara.com/Carla30  ——————————————————— YouTube: Want to listen/watch to the show on YouTube? Subscribe with the link below: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCboWew9tv3bpYircL5ORvTQ/videos  ——————————————————— Better Help:  Sponsored by Better Help Better Help wants you to start living a happier life TODAY. https://betterhelp.com/30 and join the over 500,000 people taking charge of their mental health with the help of an experienced professional.   There is a special offer for SHIT IM 30 listeners, you'll get 10% off your first month at:  https://betterhelp.com/30  ——————————————————— Audible: Join nwxt month's book club on Patreon! It’s an easy way to reach your reading goals with funny, educated, & engaging conversations!   Do you want to read more books? Make your life easier & listen to the audio version on audible. Use my code for a FREE audiobook download & a FREE 30-day trial. http://www.audibletrial.com/shitim30  ——————————————————— Skyeblue Rentals: It's hot! Grab some friends, drinks, and swimsuits & get on a boat. If you're in the Pine Castle area of Orlando, Flordia. Come check us out! Skyeblue Rentals:  www.skybluerentals.com  
104:59 08/26/2020