Living Easy with Lindsey

The difficulties of life are easy to see when they're right in front of us. They're even easier to see when it's all that we're looking for. I recently heard a podcast episode that shifted my entire perspective on how I view the difficult moments of life. After a season of much difficulty, a lot of complaining, and a lot of stress, I realized that I needed a perspective shift and a heart change. Life is really tough. It's such an interesting experience to walk through life; it's deeply sweet and beautiful but equally confusing and painful.  I believe that our faith and our minds shape the way that we live. I pray that this brief episode helps you to navigate the hard moments of life and want to leave you with the question, "Would you take away all of the hard if it meant that you also had to take away the good?"  The Living Easy Podcast will be taking a break after this episode so that I can focus on some family time and will be back in mid-June. We are, as always, praying that you will still be here when we get back! 

4/16/24 • 21:26

On today's conversation with Sarah Bragg, Lindsey Maestas delves into the complexities of aging as a woman and self-reflection at the age of 30+. Sarah shares insights on navigating feelings of invisibility, reflecting on the past years lived, and finding ways to actually appreciate getting older while not allowing yourself to feel invisible. They discuss the importance of noticing the good, reassessing priorities, and addressing the unique dynamics of parenting teenage daughters. 

3/19/24 • 34:34

In today's honest conversation, Lindsey Maestas talks with Pastor Paul Daugherty about his personal struggles with failure, depression, and suicidal thoughts as a Christian. He discusses candidly the struggle that Christians often face with shame and masking emotions when it comes to genuine mental health struggles. He shares his story of attempting to take his life, how suicide is often misperceived as a selfish tendency, and the importance of community and accountability for mental health healing.  Pastor Paul shares practical and spiritual ways to work through personal mental health battles and his own story of grief, failure, and moving forward. Follow along with Pastor Paul on Instagram: @pauldaugherty Follow along with Lindsey on IG: @livingeasywithlindsey Get Paul's book today: Mind Games: Winning the Battle for Your Mental and Emotional Health  

2/27/24 • 42:00

This slightly untraditional Valentine's Day episode is as heart-challenging as it gets. I had the incredible opportunity to speak with Delilah, long-time radio host, who I grew up listening to from childhood into my adult years. She speaks about the only kind of love that Jesus showed in His lifetime: unconditional love.  As an adoptive mom of twelve children, Delilah touches on topics that challenge the way that we unconditionally love: how we love on the widows and the orphans, the way we share and gather stories, the way we speak to our children, how we love Christians, sinners and unbelievers, and how we connect in friendship and in community. As Delilah says, "The only kind of love that exists is unconditional love".  Happy Valentine’s Day! 

2/13/24 • 53:54

"Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep" (Romans 12:9). In today's conversation, Lindsey and Jesse Maestas discuss friendship, their different perspectives on 'showing up' for people, and Jesse candidly reveals his own struggle with the temptation to navigate life independently. He addresses men who grapple with discomfort in seeking help, supporting, or expressing love for their friends. Silently battling financial burdens and parenting stresses, these men often confront a sense of fear or pride surrounding their vulnerabilities. Within this discussion, the episode explores the misconception that friendship requires sacrificing the greatest things in life. Contrary to this, scripture teaches the integral role of friendship within the church, the body, and fellowship.  Lindsey shares insights into managing expectations surrounding others' involvement in her greatest achievements, shedding light on the emptiness and loneliness that can arise from unhealthy expectations.  Don't forget to click SUBSCRIBE for new episodes every Tuesday. Follow along with Lindsey on IG @livingeasywithlindsey and Jesse @nashvillehomeshq.  

1/23/24 • 31:43

In today's heartfelt conversation, Lindsey Maestas speaks with Havilah Cunnington about hearing God's voice -- and what that really means.  She talks about victim mentality, ownership, and partnering with God in our walk as a Christian. She shares about how we try to be so low-maintenance toward God that we then limit our own relationships with Him.  Lindsey and Havilah discuss the controversy around the words often heard in the church, such as, "God told me" or "God changed his mind" which has created bitterness or indignance toward God speaking to Christians.  They discuss life experiences, such as their bonded experience of facing postpartum depression as Christians, how Christians experience God, and how to love our friends and family better as we learn more about how they experience God in their faith walk.  Get Havilah's book today!  Follow along with Havilah on Instagram: @havilahcunnington  Hang out with Lindsey on Instagram: @livingeasywithlindsey 

1/16/24 • 36:17

In today's episode with author Ann White, we discuss practical ways to study the bible more in 2024. Courage, love, and power pour into every area of our lives when we are faithful to read God's word and to choose presence with Him. Ann and Lindsey Maestas discuss important topics like: -Common lies we believe about reading the Bible and how to overcome them -Books of the Bible you can start reading right away -The best ways to understand and retain what you read -The danger of the all-or-nothing mindset when reading your Bible  -The primary reasons why we stop reading the Bible, even when we're well-meaning -Practical ways to implement Bible reading as a busy parent or person -The importance of reading the Bible with your children and raising them in a godly home -Why courage matters as a parent, spouse, and Christian  Follow along with Lindsey on IG @livingeasywithlindsey Learn more about Ann White here! Get your Bible today. 

1/9/24 • 30:52

I told Jesse, "Sometimes I just miss being LINDSEY. I miss the things that I used to love. I miss the person that I used to be - without any roles or responsibilities." If you're a mom who misses a piece of who you used to be, there is no shame in that feeling. And this episode is for you. In today's episode, I'm diving deep into the challenges many women face when juggling various roles in life, from being a mom to a spouse and business owner. I am sharing my personal experience and the experiences of friends close to me, prompting an important discussion on the common struggle of reconciling personal identity with responsibilities and expectations. I discuss the impact of motherhood on self-perception, highlighting the importance of making time for yourself, maintaining your appearance (not always for vanity purposes), avoiding isolation, and reframing negative thoughts. I share practical insights on regaining a sense of identity by initiating change, communicating needs, and embracing a mindset shift. Whether you're a new mom or navigating the challenges of parenthood, this episode provides valuable perspectives on rediscovering and balancing your identity amid life's seasons. Find me on Instagram @livingeasywithlindsey Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE for new episodes every week! 

12/12/23 • 34:25

Jami Nato opens up about healing through infidelity after discovering that her husband had engaged in multiple affairs as a Christian. She discusses the important realizations that she had as she began to heal - like divorcing herself from the outcome and not putting any blame on herself for her husband's decisions. In today's conversation with Lindsey Maestas, Jami directly addresses the moments where she realized her marriage was broken and how her perspective of control and of God helped her to come to a place of forgiveness and understanding. Get Jami's book: This Must Be the Place and follow Jami on IG @jaminato.  Follow along with Lindsey on Instagram: @livingeasywithlindsey

12/5/23 • 44:27

Let's get uncomfortable. ;-) In today's episode, I am discussing the often tricky topic of talking to your children about sex, drugs, and alcohol. From the importance of starting early, communicating about sex and sin consistently, and staying proactive with phones and social media. I am sharing real-life scenarios and age-appropriate strategies, encouraging you to be transparent about your own past and present mistakes with a focus on the Gospel.  The love you have for your child is a higher priority than your comfort. Oral sex, sex, masturbation, drugs, and alcohol should be regular discussion topics within your home to remove the shock factor and to solidify your children's understanding of God's intention and plan for these things.  Follow along with Lindsey Maestas on IG: @livingeasywithlindsey

11/28/23 • 38:55

On today's episode of "Living Easy with Lindsey," Ainsley Britain spills the tea on navigating breakups, setting dating standards, and dealing with unhealthy dating relationships. She shares honestly and vulnerably about finding her identity in Jesus after heartbreak and how faith impacted her healing after a break up. Ainsley's encourages women to create a smart dating strategy, communicate their expectations, to look out for dating red flags, and to keep their circle tight and filled with accountability. She dives into handling friends stuck in bad relationships, sharing practical tips and a bit of tough love. Buy "Don't Date a Boo Boo Dude" to help make heavy relationships a little lighter.  Follow along with Ainsley.  Follow along with Lindsey and more marriage and relationship advice on Instagram!

11/21/23 • 48:13

Lily Meschi's journey took her from Iran to the United States as a teenager, and it was a transition that left her feeling like she didn't quite fit in. Despite having lived an affluent life in her home country, she suddenly found herself in a cramped apartment, sharing living space with other family members. The move also led to the painful separation from her father, who had always been her hero.  Lily Meschi's story also encompasses her conversion from the Muslim faith to Christianity. She vividly describes the pivotal role played by family friends in sharing the Gospel with her. Through their loving witness, she experienced a profound transformation in her heart, as she encountered the love of Christ that led her to embrace her Christian faith. During our conversation, Lily and I discussed the importance of being bold in our faith, sharing Truth openly and loudly from a heart of love, rather than shying away from sharing our faith with others. This boldness in sharing the Gospel has been a defining aspect of her journey and her commitment to her Christian faith. Don't forget to subscribe for new episodes each week and to rate and review on iTunes! 

11/7/23 • 54:06

In today's episode, Financial Advisor Jessica Weaver discusses ways that wise women save and invest their money and how they save for retirement. She shares the hindrances that women see most often when attempting to make wise financial decision. She talks about making your money work for you versus spending recklessly, especially in our current economy.  She asks specific questions to help you determine more about your money and describes why the term 'budget' tends to be more restrictive and stops you from pursuing the financial freedom that you're looking for. She and I talk about the battle of "Keeping up with the Joneses" and living in a way that works best for your bank account and your life as a Christian. She gives insight into some of the best ways to speak to our children about money as well as the best"buckets" or investment opportunities that we can take hold of for our kids right now.   Buy Confessions of a Money Queen here!  Register for my Passive Income Course: The Permanently Profitable Academy to build a multiple 6-figure business!

10/31/23 • 51:35

In today's episode, Sarah Molitor and I discuss her new book, "Well Said." She opens up about her unhealthy patterns of communication in her marriage and how damaging it was to her relationship. She spoke words that were unkind and untrue to make herself feel better about where she was at. Sarah talks about how words are the symptom. She shares her 'aha' moment when close people in her life approached her with love to point out the areas for growth in her communication patterns, and how their boldness and honesty helped to change her marriage as well as the way she spoke within her marriage. We discuss the damage of unresolved conflict and how we vent the mess in our hearts through our words. Sarah shares practical tips to step back and make changes to your communication in marriage, like seeking humility, asking for forgiveness, and limiting your 'mean words' or 'cold words,' rather than justifying the words that tear down. Communication is everything. Are you communicating well and wisely in your marriage? Remember: words are the symptom; the heart is the problem. Are we doing the hard work?  Order 'Well Said' by Sarah Molitor today!  Register for The Wife Project: From Roommates to Soulmates today!  Don't forget to click SUBSCRIBE to The Living Easy with Lindsey podcast for more episodes like this!  Follow along with Lindsey on Instagram @livingeasywithlindsey. 

10/24/23 • 40:38

In this thought-provoking podcast episode, join me as I sit down with Therapist Melissa Johnson to discuss the deeply resonant topic of overcoming an eating disorder and body insecurity. We discuss body dysmorphia, conquering body insecurity, and grappling with the far-reaching effects of filters and photoshop in today's beauty-centric world as a Christian woman, especially alongside our children. Throughout this conversation, Melissa not only sheds light on the challenges many of us face as Christians in our pursuit of self-worth and self-love but also offers empowering strategies for healing and transformation. Don't forget to click 'Subscribe' for more episodes with biblical life encouragement every week.  Have you rated and reviewed the podcast yet? It would mean so much if you could take 30 seconds to do so!  Find Melissa on the Impossible Beauty Podcast Get Melissa's book, Soul-Deep Beauty, HERE!  Register for The Wife Project: From Roommates to Soulmates for a happier, holier marriage in 8.5 weeks! 

10/3/23 • 45:10

In today’s episode, Tara Sun shares her own personal story about her struggle with controlling behavior with her husband before they were married. She talks about how this led to disrespect and living in a season of impatience in the moments when God was calling her to be still. She shares how that control manifested into unkindness. We talk about the struggle of the type A personality, desiring to manhandle your own life and the release of weight that comes when we learn to relinquish it to Jesus. Tara shares the background of her chronic illness and how it has affected how she operates in her relationships and her business. If you struggle with control or impatience in your home, marriage, and future, this episode is for you. If you enjoy this conversation, don’t forget to click ‘subscribe’, and listen in to episode 73: the marks of a christian life, are you living it out? , episode 120: the theology of rest: sleep is a spiritual issue, episode 42: singleness isn’t a disease, and episode 124: parenting with patience. Let’s jump in to todays conversation.  Read Tara's book!  Follow along with Tara on Instagram! Hang out with Lindsey on IG!  Do you want to be a part of the $100 Billion industry and create your own online course to bring in passive income? Join me in The Permanently Profitable Academy to learn how I built a multiple six-figure income in less than 6 weeks through online courses. In the Academy, I will teach you how to find your audience and course topic and step-by-step instructions on how to build your online course (including all the boring tech stuff!). In this 10 module bundle, you'll also learn how to build your email list and use social media to launch and sell your course successfully (and to a waitlist of people!) Ready to join me? Let's do it! 

9/26/23 • 37:45

In today's conversation, Monica Swanson, author of 'Raising Amazing' shares her greatest regrets as a mom with only one child out of 4 left in her home. She openly discusses her struggle with anger toward her children and how she got to a place where she had to make a change. We discuss the practical ways that she has fought against her anger and the scripture that she clings to in moments when the temptation arises. Monica speaks to women who desire to raise their children as Christians but weren’t raised in a Christian home. We always address the importance of talking to your kids about hard topics like sex, bad words, drugs, etc. as they seem ready. She discusses why she decided to homeschool her four boys and how to foster self-care, even in the midst of homeschooling. Get Monica’s Book here!  Connect with Monica here:  monicaswanson.com Want to join thousands of other wives in becoming the woman God has called them to be? Join "The Wife Project: From Roommates to Soulmates"  today! This 8 1/2 week biblical video study + actionable workbook has helped to reignite marriages around the world.  Hang out with Lindsey on Instagram!: @livingeasywithlindsey

9/19/23 • 47:21

We're back!! I am so happy to start this new season with some very positive news as well as many practical changes that I made this summer which have greatly impacted my mental health for the better! I'm not someone who has needed or had a lot of structure, but the conviction to show up more intentionally for my family, and for myself, has caused me to create a morning routine (consider it a 'routine for the disorganized or busy mom') that makes our mornings so much sweeter as a family.  In this episode, I discuss the physiology and scientific findings about things like sunshine, caffeine, grounding, cold showers, and how they have made me a happier and better person.   Come and hang out with me on IG: @livingeasywithlindsey Don't forget to subscribe for new episodes every week! 

9/12/23 • 29:26

PSA: I am taking a summer break from the podcast to spend intentional and purposeful time with my family. I will be back with a new series at the end of August! Today I am sharing 5 specific things that I am doing this summer with the goal of being a more mindful mom, wife, friend and godly woman. I'm also sharing some personal health issues that I've been struggling with, which is one of the reasons that I will be taking this little hiatus from Living Easy. I am going to be seeking more medical intervention and doing more tests to determine what exactly is going on.  On this episode, I'm sharing my summer commitments that include: 1. Getting outdoors, messy, and hands-on with my boys 2. Focusing on my relationship with Jesus 3. Choosing presence over distraction 4. Focus on our health as a family 5. Leaning harder into my relationships and community  Follow along with me during the summer on IG @livingeasywithlindsey! Don't forget to read more about Permanently Profitable at 50% OFF for the summer (which will include my new segment on traveling for free as a content creator!) as well as The Wife Project: From Roommates to Soulmates AND The Intimacy Project for Couples.

5/23/23 • 22:08

In today's episode, I am joined by Dr. Tish Taylor to delve into the topic of parenting ADHD in children with wisdom and grace. We discuss the importance of establishing structure and routine to help your children navigate life's challenges without everything feeling like an emergency as a parent.  Dr. Tish Taylor shares about the impact of food on behavior and shares about the scientifically observable brain patterns associated with ADHD. We dive into the crucial aspect of learning how to regulate emotions as a parent, and how self-evaluation of our own patterns and behaviors can empower us to become better parents to our children. Click 'play' for an insightful conversation that will equip you with practical strategies for parenting ADHD with grace.  Click here to get Parenting ADHD with Wisdom and Grace! Don't forget to click 'SUBSCRIBE' on iTunes or Spotify for new episodes and topics about allll the things! 

5/16/23 • 35:24

When hustle turns to humility, we see God more clearly. Did you know that sleep is a form of worship? In today's episode, I talk about how my desire to live as a "night owl" greatly affected my mood and my motherhood and why you should prioritize sleep for your mental health.  In this convo, I discuss how sleep displays our dependence on God and His provision for us. I share 8 simple strategies to help get a better night's sleep, including establishing a consistent sleep routine and avoiding caffeine and alcohol after 3pm. As Christians, embracing sleep as an act of worship can deepen our faith and draw us closer to God. When we prioritize sleep, we are taking care of the body that God has given us - while also restoring and recharging our hearts and souls to love our neighbors, make disciples and to be sharers of His truth. Follow along with me on IG @livingeasywithlindsey and subscribe for new episodes every week! 

5/2/23 • 23:29

Get the *full* Intimacy Course with 4 weeks of video courses on topics just like this one (and so much more), including 'His' and 'Hers' intimacy workbooks! Learn more here!  In today's episode, I am talking to the wives who desire sex and intimacy more often than their husband does. Do you feel like something is 'wrong' with him or 'wrong' with you? Let's talk about it!  I constantly receive DM's about this, and it warranted an episode of its own. Because of society's unhealthy standards (and the teachings of the church), women feel ashamed, devalued, unloved, and dirty when they desire sex, but even more so when they don't feel that their husband wants to have sex as often as they do. In this quick chat, I discuss how to navigate having a stronger sexual drive than your husband within a Christian marriage. We'll cover topics like finding times for intimacy that work for both spouses, having conversations with humility, honesty, and hard truths, feeling ashamed and embarrassed about your desire for sex and intimacy as a Christian woman, and the experiential and biological differences that may be occurring between you and your husband.  Follow along with me on IG for more like this: @livingeasywithlindsey! 

4/25/23 • 24:44

In today's episode, Lindsey Maestas talks about the best pieces of advice she ever received, and also the advice she wishes she would have received, as an expecting and new mom. She discusses prioritizing sleep as a newborn mom, not allowing the enemy to fill you with guilt over things like supplementing with formula or switching to bottle feeding, making time for self-care, and not overburdening both parents with the duties of a new baby. She discusses dealing with postpartum anxiety and depression as a Christian, struggling to feel "human" as a new mom, and the importance of allowing God into every aspect of your parenthood, rather than compartmentalizing Him. Follow along with Lindsey on IG for more like this: @livingeasywithlindsey.  Don't Forget! The Marriage Project Bundle includes both The Wife Project: From Roommates to Soulmates and The Emotional and Physical Intimacy Project for $100 OFF!  "This Too Shall Pass" Blog Post  Breastfeeding Resource: La Leche League 

4/4/23 • 31:32

Our hearts are heavy as we come together to reflect on the devastating event that took place in Nashville yesterday. We are reminded of the fragility of life and the importance of family and community. In the midst of tragedy, it's easy to feel helpless and uncertain about how to move forward. But one thing I wanted to encourage all of you in today is the impact that YOU can have within your home and around your dinner table.  Studies have shown that family meals have a multitude of benefits, including improved communication, better academic performance, and stronger emotional bonds. By spending time together in the kitchen, you are creating opportunities for emotional openness, conversation, questions and self-esteem building.  In today's episode, I wanted to offer a prayer for you to pray around the table with your family in honor of the victims of the Nashville shooting and their loved ones. I pray that this episode will inspire you to make family meals a priority in your own life and to snuggle your loved ones a little more tightly every single day.  Follow along with me on instagram @livingeasywithlindsey. Read more faith-based posts like this on my website.

3/28/23 • 10:58

Today I had the opportunity to interview Ashlee Gadd, founder of Coffee + Crumbs and author of Create Anyway: The Joy of Pursuing Creativity in the Margins of Motherhood.  Ashlee is passionate about encouraging women to embrace creativity in their lives as a means to enhance their well-being and that of their families. We talked about overcoming the guilt of pursuing creative passions: Ashlee noted that many women feel guilty for taking time to pursue their creative passions, viewing it as selfish, but reminds us how creativity can be a vital source of self-care and can contribute positively to family life. We touch on how creativity brings solidarity between you and your children, the importance of doing things solely for the purpose of enjoyment and how creativity can improve your mental health, leading to a more fulfilling, God-honoring life.  Follow along with us on IG @ashleegadd and @livingeasywithlindsey.     

3/13/23 • 33:28

SALE!: Schedule your 50% off Personal Business Coaching Session with Lindsey: Limited spots are available - doors close soon! Schedule your time today for this limited sale and get 1.5 hours of FULL access via Zoom to Lindsey's tips for social media growth, online courses, traveling for free, brand deals, how to become a content creator from scratch, get her analysis of your business or social media platforms, and so much more!  Get the Permanently Profitable Business Academy | 10 Modules to Become a 6-Figure Content Creator In today's conversation, Lindsey discusses the damage that pride can have on our marriages and our friendships and why pride may be the deadliest of the 7 deadly sins. She discusses why God hates pride, and why the world's rhetoric of "self-love", "self-consumption" and "self-care" causes excessive loneliness more than it brings peace. We all struggle with pride as Christians and pride lead to selfishness and a lack of neighborly love.    Lindsey challenges her listeners to evaluate their own hearts in finding fault in others - whether seek unconditional love and selflessness and to be quick to apologize and acknowledge wrongdoing. Join thousands of other women in becoming a godly wife: Register for The Wife Project: From Roommates to Soulmates.  Follow along with Lindsey @livingeasywithlindsey for more like this!  Book Recommendation: Crazy Love by Francis Chan

3/7/23 • 27:20

On today's episode, I am sharing openly and honestly about my depression and how it displays itself in my day-to-day life. I talk about how my lack of energy and lack of will damages my marriage and challenges my husband and what I do every day to battle it.  If you struggle with mental health issues or you have a spouse who struggles with anxiety or depression, I pray that this episode encourages you and/or makes you feel less alone.  Follow along with me on IG @livingeasywithlindsey. 

2/28/23 • 26:33

On today's episode, Lindsey Maestas talks about gluttony. Many of us don't think that we struggle with this, but gluttony is the most tolerated sin in the United States. If we’re honest with ourselves, most of us have a dysfunctional or unhealthy relationship with food - whether that is over-indulging, emotionally eating, or punishing ourselves by withholding food.  She shares the importance of fasting from food as a form of worship, rather than a form of weight loss, and talks about why this spiritual self-discipline can change your relationship with food. She gives practical tips and biblical verses to help you overcome your battle with food as a Christian.  Don't forget to subscribe for more episodes every Tuesday! Follow along with Lindsey on IG @livingeasywithlindsey. 

2/21/23 • 33:32

Lust is a corruption that starts in the mind, then grows roots in the heart, slowly corroding our bodies and our relationships.  In today's conversation, Lindsey Maestas digs into the topics of biblical sexual immorality, emotional longing, sleeping together before marriage, why pornography damages marriages and sex lives and - most importantly - the tools to battle and overcome this very intense struggle that so many face. For a deeper understanding of what it means to have a godly, joyful and thriving marriage, sign up for Lindsey's marriage courses. These courses have been purchased from thousands of women and churches around the world and continue to bless marriages every day.  Click here to learn more:  The Wife Project: From Roommates to Soulmates The Intimacy Project for Couples Follow along with Lindsey on Instagram @livingeasywithlindsey. 

2/7/23 • 40:40

In our influencer-heavy society, we are consumed by the things we 'need' to be buying, wearing, driving, and consuming...and it all leads to emptiness.  In scripture we see that God defines greed as something that brings ruin (Prov. 15:27), stirs conflict (Prov. 28:25), and destroys (Prov. 29:4). On today's episode, I am discussing the damage caused by greed - how it ruins relationship, stops conversation and connection, steals from the opportunity from generosity and rejoicing, and becomes all-consuming. ANNOUNCEMENT: Episodes will now be launching on **TUESDAY** instead of Monday! I have decided to do this that I can slow down and truly enjoy my family on the weekends without feeling distracted about needing to upload episodes. Thank you for understanding. :)  Click here for The Wife Project: From Roommates to Soulmates. Click here for The Intimacy Project for Couples Click here for The Marriage Project Bundle: 2 Courses in 1 for $100 off!  Join my EMAIL LIST! 

1/31/23 • 30:55